my boyfriend is the father of my child and i'm living with him, but my father who the only way i contacted him was email scince i was bornwants me to stay with him..............what should I do?
2007-03-15 01:16:34 · 15 answers · asked by jessica y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
STOP ASKING STUPID QUESTIONS!!!!!!!
everyone look in pregnancy and to a question that says 12 and pregnant, then look at the askers profile at her other questions.
COMPULSIVE LIAR!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 01:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Şơƥɦɨȩ'ȿ ♡Μυɱ˗Μυɱ♡ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is this old saying "Any Cat Can Have Kittens". That means - making a baby does not automatically earn you the honor of being a PARENT. Your biological "father" was where all these years??? Doesn't SEEM he earned your trust before now, why would you even consider hurting your babies Daddy to go live with a STRANGER??? Are you considering the fact that if you did leave babies Daddy, YOU would be putting your baby in the exact same dysfunctional situation YOU were in!!! Being raised by a parent who does things out of the NEED to be "loved" (sorry to say that is you..) is hard enough.... don't deprive your child of a REAL family too!!! Get some good counseling before you make any more serious decisions based on your "needs". I am sorry if I hurt your feelings, that is not my intention at all. It really is very obvious where you're at emotionally and why. It's OK - it's NOT your fault! PLEASE, get some counseling - now.
2007-03-15 08:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how u communicat with ur father through the email if there is a great conection between u two like a father and daughter then u can consider his suggestion but u should think about ur bf too and how he has treated u in the past and present and how good of a farther he is to ur child. So there will be two fathers here and u have to compare, how ur father is with u and how ur boyfriend is with u and his daughter then u can decide.
2007-03-15 08:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by asogdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question mate... cause at the end of the day your the one who has 2 make the decision.
Are you close with ur Dad? Do you want 2 grow a close father-daughter bond with your dad? Its up2 you.
Hope all works out well 4 u mate
2007-03-15 08:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you need to consider who you trust the most, and who you can rely on to help look after and raise your child with. Your babies father has rights, but your own father seems to have neglected his parental duties up until now.
2007-03-15 08:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be out yo mind to even see a dilemma between these things. Adults live with the components of an ongoing life. hate to say it but the desperation seems to emanate from him trying to relieve his guilt of a job pathetically executed. most detach and settle in a degree of distant proximity......stop, think this out to the end...ya know that part where you have done irreparable injury to an alliance that determines how well rounded and angst free the babe will live out his turn.
now close your eyes.....imagine a big POP. that sound...your head exiting the rear of ya person....do the right thing...
you too may feel want of daddy bonds that have already escaped you forever......there is really only one sane action to take in this instance.
2007-03-15 09:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Leigh M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly only you can answer this question
why not move closer to your father taking your boyfriend and child with you that way you are still together and you will see alot more of your father.
2007-03-15 09:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart. you are ina comfort zone with your boyfriend and really don't know your father like that. if you choose to go stay with him things may be very different. i say get to know dad better in the living department before going to make some drastic changes!
2007-03-15 08:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend takes care of you and the baby, stay with him. a child needs their father. you should be able to relate.
2007-03-15 09:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by jervett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is kind of tricky.... I woud have to say the father and the baby...If your father really cared he would have come to see you in the first place
2007-03-15 08:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do what ever is best for you and your child, can't look at life at which one is fun-er anymore, and if some reason you can't tell which one is better for you and the baby then pray for God to direct you. "Ask and thee shall receive"
2007-03-15 09:17:08 · answer #11 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋