Family - March 2007

I want either pink or blue (neon)
and well my mom wont let me for a few reasons
1-she thinks ill become a "rebel"
2-she doesnt want it gettin on towels after i shower(cuz my hair lady told me itll run a lil bit after showers)
3-and she just doesnt want it

but i really really really really wanna. i know itll look great. everyone who knows how i want my hair like that agrees but my mom wont let me.
got any ideas??
any deals i can make with her?? (nothing that has to do with grades. i aint the smartest ever. ha and the aint proves it lol)

2007-03-15 12:37:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-15 12:36:11 · 7 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3

my MIL is a control freak. we r workin to build a home but its taking long. my own family is fine but my brother is taking time to settle down in a career, my parents r always upset bout it. that upsets me too...my MIL just adds to it bytrying to control me and nag me. my husband stands up for me but is away alot cos hes working hard to build this house. im trying to be patient but now im running out of it. shes a hypocrite and puts me on the spot. shes moody too so is nice out of the blue. im confused.

2007-03-15 12:32:49 · 14 answers · asked by limitedpatience 1

I need help with some stuff im going through. You obvioslly dont know me, but I know that your genuinely nice and realllyy awesome. Here is my help.


okay so I met this girl in the begining of my year, we connected really well.

i have her in period 2, period 6, and on the bus.


then she started getting bitchy and doing some drugs.
all her friends still loves her, except me.
day by day she started to get more anoying until yesterdayi finally cracked.

"sammy: hey"
so i didnt respond, and then one of MY friends and also hers im'd me. "hey, are you mad at sammy?"
so i said yeah, and then i promised to her that i would talk to sammy about it. (also the day this happened, i ignoed her the whole day, thats probally how they figured out i was mad at sammy. then we started arguinging, like really bad. and just like in 5 minutes... are friendship was over.


now shes spreading lies about me that i called her a *****, but only becuase. IN my argument convseration i called her a *****

2007-03-15 12:28:11 · 6 answers · asked by R J 2

Since leaving home (it's been a while), I've finally learned to respect myself (my parents didn't seem to deem it necessary). Now, whenever I see or talk to my father, his disrespectful ways make me so angry that I can't even talk to him. He can't deal with the fact that my thoughts are my own, and yes I'm old enough to know exactly what those thoughts are. He's such a bully.

I really don't like fighting, but I don't want to get sucked back into the destructive ways I used to think about myself, and being a pushover just to keep the peace. How do I disagree nicely, and teach him how I want to be treated now without starting a war?

2007-03-15 11:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

if they had a chance.

2007-03-15 11:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by gotgoji 2

2007-03-15 11:49:57 · 10 answers · asked by sweet2006 1

OK... MY Half sister and friend and I go to the exact same school but we dont live in the same house... we dont have the same mom... we dont have the same dad but my step dad is the father figure in her life, so i claim her as my sister. Every day at school she either slaps me or hits me and it really hurts, other times if it isn't hitting or slapping or kicking, its putting me down and bossing me around, but i do feel sorry for her because her mom is in jail, and she never gets to see her mom and she lives with her grandma, but i dont think she should be taking all her problems out on me, and im almost about to stop being friends with her , she never comes over to my house anyway, and she even has her own room and everything, she hasn't been here in 2 months!What should i do? should i stop being friends with her, and move on, or should I confront her about the problem, and hope she takes it well? PLEASE NO JOKING ALL SERIOUS ANSWERS!!!

2007-03-15 11:47:19 · 9 answers · asked by li'l chik 1

I am 22 and feel like my purpose for being here is to look after my family, and I will never find a nice guy who will accept the whole package. My brother is 26 but had a brain tumor as a baby, he is lovely but like a child who will never grow up. My mum has schizophrenia, and I worry about her in the future. My father has cancer as does my Gran, I am very close to them all. I still live at home, but I am a very free spirited, confident, popular fun loving girl. I have no problems finding guys who like me, but i won't get involved with anyone as I feel like they will never take on all my problems with me. Would love advice please!

2007-03-15 11:41:13 · 17 answers · asked by Girlsgirl 1

there are two different guys

2007-03-15 11:36:33 · 11 answers · asked by Melissa G 1

I got a flu bug and I think I'm dieing....(cough, sniff)

2007-03-15 11:31:10 · 9 answers · asked by steve 5

even when she visits grandparents she sleeps with them!

2007-03-15 11:29:14 · 7 answers · asked by iknowso 1

2007-03-15 11:17:55 · 1 answers · asked by pixiegurl96 1

My dad i think doen't love me that much but my brother he loves more than my step- mom and like if i ask for money like a dollar or sumtin then he like interigats me about it but my brother asks for 20 dollars and dad gives it to him without question and well also my brother can go to his gf all the time whenever he wants and she can come over but my bf can't come over and i can't go over to my bfs house unless it has been two days since i have seen him.

2007-03-15 11:15:57 · 3 answers · asked by NavyChic2011 3

Just want to share info when i get enough replie's.

2007-03-15 11:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by walter_nahbexie 2

Since we were little, she has always gone into my room and taken stuff without my permission. My mom made her promise she wouldn't do it again, but of course she would. When we both got into high school, it finally stopped. But now all of a sudden, it has started again. She makes excuses like "well I needed it for this one thing, and I was going to put it back" I've asked her many times to not take my stuff without my permission, but she still does it. She's almost 23 years old, shouldn't she understand that she shouldn't take my stuff?

2007-03-15 11:11:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I have been living together for 8 years. My fiance's father had some problems with his wife, she is an alcohloic and can't keep a job. We live in a duplex and when the duplex next door bacame availible my fiance's father and family moved in, but it elimitated 2 children, one move in with a friend and the other ended up movining in with my fiance and I. My fiance's brother has been living with us for over 6 months and has only paid 200 dollars. Meanwhile we are struggling with the bill increase. I now work 2 jods and my fiance has one demanding manager job. I 've asked my fiance to talk to his brother about paying something and doing his share around the house. He also has no car so we end up picking him up from work and he never offers gas money. I want to be fair about things but he only makes minimum wadge. I thought 1/3 of all house bills is fair but that would put him at a little over 300 and he makes about 500 a month. is that being fair? any advice?

2007-03-15 11:04:23 · 6 answers · asked by confused 1

Over a yr ago my two sons,who live in different states from me and each other, had terrible arguments, over the course of several wks, by telephone and email, and said some really, really horrible and hurtful things to each other. (they are 35 & 45) I have attempted to remain as neutral as possible and just continue letting them know how much I love them and am sorry they are hurt and incourage them to talk it out. My older son refuses to talk to the younger one, even though he has called and emailed several times. The younger son plans on going to his brother's home or job and seeing him, in a nonconfrontational but caring, loving way, to try to get him to face their problems and attempt to work them out. My older son doesn't know this and has told me in the past that he is just still too hurt and angry to discuss it at all w/his brother. Do you think it's a good idea for my younger son to go see him anyway and try to force the issue so they can hopefully be close again? Thank you

2007-03-15 11:01:46 · 11 answers · asked by Eve 5

Hello I have a 12yr old son and I spanked him and he called the police he has been so bad the last 3yrs gangs,stealing, school getting held back in school just a number of things and now he is in a receiving home saying he does not want to come home the boy has lost his mind please help with some info please

2007-03-15 10:56:36 · 19 answers · asked by undecided nay 1

I have been looking all over the place for the perfect gift for my parents on their 20th anniversary which is next week. I've got my mom her gift, but I just can't find one for dad. For all dad and boyfriends, what is the perfect gift for him?

2007-03-15 10:44:19 · 3 answers · asked by Mis Kris 2

...If you had been molested and she blamed you for tearing up the family when you came out about it?

2007-03-15 10:32:45 · 42 answers · asked by aurorase 2

When my kids, a boy and a girl, lived with me I emphasized the importance of trust. Both good kids, but when my boy was 15 once he went to places he had compromised not to go. It wasn't anyhing so bad, just a mistake many kids make, but I wanted to show the importance of trust and maybe went overboard. He apologized, explained he gave in to peer pressure. He was grounded for a month and I told him he'd have to get my trust back, so for 2 months I controlled his moves, showing I wasnt' sure he'd keep his word. Then, everything was OK again. But he got very upset, extremely hurt, told me there was no reason for that, I had tortured him for a small mistake and hadnt been a loving father. He never got over that and since then our relationship has been extremely icy. Now I'm going through hard days, asked him some money, he lent and I promised to pay yesterday but couldnt. He said OK but reminded me of what I did to him when he was a boy and now it was me who broke his trust

2007-03-15 10:27:48 · 5 answers · asked by George 1

i still watch the disney channel and i'm 14 years old. i sit at home all day and watch the disney channel am i crazy

2007-03-15 10:26:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i'm 14 years old and i'm have the biggest crush on my step brother who is 16 years old. the deal is my mom and his dad arent really married yet there engaged about to get married so my question is is it wrong for me to like my step brother i would like any and all opinions. thanks

2007-03-15 10:21:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

eversince my dad died my mother sister and i have been sharing a 1 bedroom apartment. it is very small, broken down and mice invested. i dont know what else to do, other than to ask for help. please somebody help us!..i am at my wits end, i dont know where to turn anymore. but we cannot continue living here.

2007-03-15 10:18:01 · 4 answers · asked by LaceyMittens 1

i have tried everything i can think of i have bought everything the stores has for that to help but nothing i have tried works.can someone please help me.

2007-03-15 10:16:43 · 13 answers · asked by scooby31558 1

I'm a female, 18 years old and yeah, I don't know what I'm telling it but this might help answering.
Did you ever call your dad names just because he was being mean to your mum and being really impolite and just a total loser? Well I did.. and I don't know if I should feel guilty, I'm not anyway. I used to think hey I'm lucky for having a dad some don't.. but what is the use when he's never there when I'm sad angry or upset? or he never asks me about my future plans? I really don't care anymore.. should I just move from here with my mom and get a job to give her every happiness or stay in this house and show him what I'm capable of infront of his eyes? I know people won't really like to meet us if we got separated, no one likes broken families.. I just don't know if I should stay or step away and take my mother out of this hellhole, would it make things better for her?

2007-03-15 10:16:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My niece lives with her mother and wants to now live with her grandmother. Her mother and father divorced several years ago and the mother got custody. She does not have a good life at home and for several reasons can not live with her father. Her father has agreed to sign the emancipation papers but my niece fears her mother will not. There is both mental and physical abuse going on in the home but the local authorities just seem to want to ignore it. I have known her mother for years and I do believe she is capable of what the daughter says. No, my niece is not innocent but she has had a good teacher. She has done some bad things in the past but she seems to want to turn her life around. She hasn't done anything terrible, just the running around with boys and staying out too late thing. The problem is, she is 15 and has been told that both parents will have to sign. Is there any way to get around that? We really just need some info to get us pushed into the right direction.

2007-03-15 10:15:05 · 2 answers · asked by sissyt2915 2

i am 14 and im not allowed to do ANYTHING!!! ok, i have been to only one dance my whole life. the t.v. in my house is blocked so that you have to enter a password to watch ANYTHING! they let me on the computer but they block all the good stuff like myspace and stuff like that. my parents won't let me go to my friends house unless they approve of them even though they might not even know them. i don't know why i get treated like a 3 year old. i also have great grades. i have a GPA of 3.9 since i always have A's in all my classes except math which i have had a B in a couple of times but that is the lowest grade i have ever had! so i have the grades and i have never gotten in serious trouble in school. they also have very high standards for me. if i get below an A i have to listen to a lecture for like a couple hours. so why are they so strict on me when my friends are worse than me yet get more privilages than me? what can i do to change this and make them relize that i not 3 years old

2007-03-15 10:13:45 · 9 answers · asked by Chewy 2

My Mother is extremely and ridiculously strict. Its embarrassing-I have to lie all the time to people just so i wont be embarrassed & Im almost sixteen. Ive never done anything bad i.e. smoking, drugs, wild parties etc.
I cant:
Listen to Music I Like (music is BAD)
Watch TV (well some)
' ' Movies (some but they flip about PG13)
Date
Wear Makeup (they flip out when I barely have any on)
Talk To Guys (again, flip out and Im not whorish at all)

You get the picture. Its frickin ridiculous and I dont know what to do. I feel like killing myself. They just dont understand I want to be my own person and have a social life. I have to 'sneak' everything (like music). Theyre always like 'who are you talking to', 'What are you doing'
I make good grades, Im not blatant, Im not a slut...I dont understand. I want Freedom. Normal people who complain about there life---B.S.-they wonder why I walk around all 'emo', as Ive been called.
Does anyone have any advice?I cant take this anymore :*(

2007-03-15 10:09:35 · 17 answers · asked by xthisx 1