sinscere help plz.?

Question

I need help with some stuff im going through. You obvioslly dont know me, but I know that your genuinely nice and realllyy awesome. Here is my help.


okay so I met this girl in the begining of my year, we connected really well.

i have her in period 2, period 6, and on the bus.


then she started getting bitchy and doing some drugs.
all her friends still loves her, except me.
day by day she started to get more anoying until yesterdayi finally cracked.

"sammy: hey"
so i didnt respond, and then one of MY friends and also hers im'd me. "hey, are you mad at sammy?"
so i said yeah, and then i promised to her that i would talk to sammy about it. (also the day this happened, i ignoed her the whole day, thats probally how they figured out i was mad at sammy. then we started arguinging, like really bad. and just like in 5 minutes... are friendship was over.


now shes spreading lies about me that i called her a *****, but only becuase. IN my argument convseration i called her a *****

guys its not like shes a constant smoker or pot head everyday, all i know is that befoer when we were friends, she said she did drugs and stuff. and btw. all of her friends still LOVE HER. so its like me going against them. and let me tell you shes spreaeding lies SO FAST like within 1 day, i alrady have like 7 people who has opinions with me. I THHINK what i do is, i will im her on aim and say sorry for calling her a ***** and your right ill put "acting" in it. and hopefully she'll stop it or some stuff. also she lives like 5 mins away from me. so YEAH, its like shes voodoooolllly attached, even though where not gonna be friends, i'll still see her everywhere.

guys its not like shes a constant smoker or pot head everyday, all i know is that befoer when we were friends, she said she did drugs and stuff. and btw. all of her friends still LOVE HER. so its like me going against them. and let me tell you shes spreaeding lies SO FAST like within 1 day, i alrady have like 7 people who has opinions with me. I THHINK what i do is, i will im her on aim and say sorry for calling her a ***** and your right ill put "acting" in it. and hopefully she'll stop it or some stuff. also she lives like 5 mins away from me. so YEAH, its like shes voodoooolllly attached, even though where not gonna be friends, i'll still see her everywhere. okay so *update: i just talked to her on aim. and shes not talking to me yet, i told her im sorry and other stuff so yeah. its making me feel SOO much better. i hope it works out for the better. thank youeveryone for all the help. I MIGHT come back her soon(same topic) but for now thank you

Answer 1

Women are confusing, let alone one on drugs. You were heated up and if she is on drugs, she is not open minded and really not wanting to hear you disagree with what she is doing with her life right now. Be patient, she'll come around if she can get off the drugs and all you can really do is comment to her when she is around some other people to verify this is:

Sammy; I didn't say you "were" a ---- I said you were "acting" like one and that's two different things. Your still my friend but not when you act like you have been. Come see me when you are back to your normal self. Have a nice day.

Walk away leaving it at that and as I said, she will come around when she realizes what has changed and if she doesn't, look at it like spilt milk. Sorry that it's so hard to do but truth is, you can't trust a friend who is on drugs anyway.

Answer 2

ok first of all. BAD MOVE CALLING HER what the 5 stars stand for. she has a right to tell everyone u called her that since u kinda did.
u need to comfront her. on the bus so she cant walk away (unless of course she jumps off the bus but lets hope she wont do that)
talk to her, dont u dare have a single tone of anger in ur voice or itll just be easier to snap on her.
tell her how u feel about her doin drugs. let her know that it affects u very much and u worry about her.
shes gotta know u care.

then go with ur feelings after that. BUT DONT GET MAD.

good luck <3

Answer 3

Friends affect your life in two ways....They either have a positive effect on your life or they have a negative effect on your life. If Sammy is doing drugs chances are she'll have a negative effect on your life.
You shouldn't fear telling her how you feel. Get it off your chest you'll feel better..As far as calling her a *****... If the shoe fits, your true friends will understand and remain friends with you. If not they weren't true friends and you need to associate with people who are honest and loyal.

Answer 4

ok well just tell her about why u were mad at her and try to work it out. When u r sure she is ur friend again ask her to try to tell ppl that u are not *****. If u dont want to do that then just dont get in a fight and try not to ignore her just listen to what she has to say and c her side of the story.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Maybe u could of saved your relationship if u had of been honest to her about wat was bugging u. But now u just need to move on and just ignor her lies.