Some people have no conscience. They do things and make decisions that effect others, but they don't care. They just say deal with it. Or they say they are not responsible for your feelings. And if you try to talk to them about it, they get mad at you for making them feel guilty. And then they turn it around like it is your fault. They don't want to deal with anything unpleasant. What do you think?
2007-03-14 16:11:42 · 11 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think it has alot to do with ones belief system, if one can't hear their conscience they aren't going to feel it when they hurt others. some people can't tell right from wrong, because their conscience has been subdued, or gotten dull. often times people project onto others the wrong they did to get u to back off them because their little bit of conscience they have may bother them, but not enough to do what is right. what u own that u don't care for u loose, so people who continue to always hurt others are going to have very little capacity to distinguish between right and wrong.
2007-03-14 16:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true, some people seem to be like that, but in reality everyone really does have a concience. Some people just ignore it or are so afraid of it that they do just the opposite. There really isn't anything we can do about it except be good examples for them and not get angry with them. Have you noticed that seems to change people pretty often? There's a chance they won't right away, but even ten years later it could have an impact on them. You never know. I have a friend who was once like that. I wasn't mean to him, but not nice either... i just acted like he didn't bother me. It was kind of a "whatever" thing. It drove him nuts, so finally he talked to me about it and we became friends. I learned about his more sensitive side and ever since he's been so much better.
2007-03-14 23:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you talk about it to them they do feel guilty that means that they do have a conscience! You ever think of inviting them over with some your friends and simply beating him/her for it?Seriously though prepare meeting with friends and family with that person to talk about it. if it doesnt work the first do it agian and make he stays he'll be so annoyed that he or she stops. or they'll be moved by the meetings either way.
2007-03-14 23:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by flying_geko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is just like that, but its sex for him.
He'll just go around plugging every hole he can find and it doesn't even bother him that he's destroying lives in the process, a lot of these girls he will never see again his whole life, and doesn't remember their name or anyhitng like that.
I deal with it by just sayin, oh, well, it's their body, but it does kind of effect me a little, but i like hangin out with him and im starting to impose some character in him..
2007-03-14 23:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am one of those people, and honestly what I tell everyone is that dont ask a question you dont want an honest answer to, because you will get it either way. I have lost friends and girl friends to this one. Also, its not that I dont care, I just would rather live my life, DRAMA FREE!!!!
2007-03-14 23:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by David K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if someone is that crass and insensitive that it is probably bad for your mental well being to be around them too much. I tend to just pretend certain people are not there. It's much better than us actually speaking, since We'll both explode and it won't be good for either of us or anyone around us.
2007-03-14 23:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by kivrin9 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is true. I posted a question a few minutes ago and this helps me with the thoughts I'm having tonight.
2007-03-15 21:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Native 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right some people only care about themselves and expect you to deal with whatever they do that may affect you.
It's not fair....but again, they don't care.
2007-03-14 23:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exactly how you described them.
They are like that.
I guess, they only like to think about themselves.
But I've stopped talking to such people. They just ruin my day, and that's the last thing I want.
2007-03-14 23:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by itstoolate 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its just the way there are. They are cold-blooded. Just like I wonder why people commit suicide and commit murder and all that stuff. Different people, different minds. Its like, some people just like, don't care.
2007-03-14 23:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋