me. If I'm sick she says she does not have time. Always uses me, and tells me i'v never done enough. i bought the parts for her dryer, and fixed it fixed, and bought parts for her frig. She will ignore me. When she has money she has no time for me. If she's broke she will tell me i need to feed my seven grand kids.
2007-03-14 14:45:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Been there and now she's 34 and I am just getting myself away from it. I could tell you stories that would make you cry for a week.
It won't get any better til you make it happen. I'm with Zack
end it now, whatever the cost.
2007-03-14 15:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your responsibility to take care of you grand kids, she had them, she the mother (where is daddy) and you need to stop letting her use you. She will never grow up and take the responsibility of anything as long as you keep making it easy for her. Stop now, no matter what happens, she will survive. Do not fall for this any longer. She does not respect you, only using you. When she has to do it herself, then she will appreciate you more. Stop now and do nothing anymore. I am sure she is already on public assistance to feed her kids, she needs to learn how to make things last. Do not let her put you on a guilt trip. Stop communications for a while, if she leaves a message, erase it. If she can not show you she loves you, instead of use you, then ease back and try to have some kind of relationship with daughter. Stop letting her be defendant upon you.
2007-03-14 21:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by zack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is nine and she does kinda the same thing only when she wants something do what I do dont give her so much take her limit down a couple of pegs
2007-03-14 21:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my aunt does this with my 26 year old cousin she has 2 kids and makes my aunt pay for everything for her and supports her , u need to let ur daughter fall on her *** and stop supporting her so she can realize all that u have done for her and so she can have enough time to pull her head outta her ***
2007-03-14 21:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by clutzmuch276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow...I'm sorry.Maybe, you can go to the counselor with her and have some mother/daughter bonding?Maybe you can spend more time with your grandkids also.
Good luck.
A daughter needs a mother.A mother needs a daughter, and those grandkids need a grandmother.
2007-03-14 21:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that your daughter is very ungrateful. My ex is like that and it's already showing up in our daughter. I hope my ex is posting the same question in 15 years...she was the one that taught her this behavior.
2007-03-15 03:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that pain in the *** to grow up-she was adult enough to have those kids --did she ask for your help then? lol-shes the one who is responsible for taking full care of them, just ignore her and keep busy with your life, and give her no $
2007-03-14 22:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you let your daughter become such a loser in the first place. Her attitude and they fact that she spreads for anyone should tell you someone went wrong somewhere.
2007-03-14 21:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stand up to her and ground her.
Tell her either listen to you or get punished.
2007-03-14 21:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but not if i give her time-out you should try it
2007-03-14 21:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by billyxc729 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋