Family - March 2007

I copied and pasted from what another yahooer wrote....do you agree with him?

I see a lot about kids having kids on this site, and a lot of it seems to be about placating and reassuring that it will all be OK. It's not OK. Kids born to teenage mothers are more likely to grow up in single parent households, more likely to commit crimes, less likely to graduate high school and go to college. Teen parents are more likely to work lower paying jobs, have to work multiple jobs and are less likely go to college, let alone graduate. I'm not a prudish republican whacko, I just think that society should do everything it can to discourage and shun teenage parents. I'm not even against teen sex. Enjoy your youth! Bang away! Use birth control (both guys and girls) every time, no exceptions. When you've reached your life goals and have been married to the same person for three or four years, then have a kid. Having one when you're still in high school is just immature and shortsighted.

2007-03-04 14:15:52 · 8 answers · asked by shonnette e 2

I have been trying to avoid this guy for the last few weeks because he came over to my house with my cousin and told me that he wanted to be with me and honestly he is not my type and I have let him know that I am not interested but no matter what he won't leave me alone. He called my house the other night at 2 am to ask me to the movies and I said no and I went to a party later on in the week and he showed up and wasn't invited or anything but he always shows up wherever I go and it is really starting to scare me, and I don't get scared that easily.. what should I do?

2007-03-04 14:13:36 · 12 answers · asked by kalynn h 2

My divorce will be final this week...obviously time to move on. The problem is that so much of my energy is being consumed by sadness over the divorce and anger at the happy couple who have no responsibilities...I'm raising his kids and his mom is paying his bills. I'm so tired of my own negative emotions, which so are not me, but I don't know what to do to rid myself of them. Please don't advise me to get a hobby, as I've already so much to do on which I'm unable to concentrate.

2007-03-04 14:11:12 · 3 answers · asked by ophelia 2

My cousin who's driving me crazy. She copies everything I do. If I cut my hair in a new style she goes to my stylist and ask her to cut hers the same. Last year we took a family cruise, for Christmas I bought my mom an evening gown. I made the mistake of taking her with me and she said that is a nice dress I want to buy it for my mom too. I asked her not to because they were both going on the cruise and if she could pick something else for her. She said ok then went back the next day and bought her the dress anyway. On Xmas when they opened there gift they both got the same dress. Red is my favorite color and everyone knows it. Our bedroom is red and now hers is too. I am getting married soon so she asked what my colors were. I told her I didn't want to say because I don't want anyone to copy my ideas, so she said well I already know I want red since it's my favorite color. She knows that is what I want, I am not willing to give it up. Help! Flatery is not the best compliment.

2007-03-04 13:56:55 · 6 answers · asked by meli 2

What should my punishment be for sneaking out last night? I'm 13 no smart azz answers?
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2007-03-04 13:48:33 · 15 answers · asked by Dee Brat 2

I have low marks and my parents dey just keep talkin' down on me behind my back and all dey threaten 2 kick me outta da house beat me and alla dat. Yet dey still think der doin' m,e a fava what do I do?

2007-03-04 13:44:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

with us or minding me because I wasn't their mother. That is understandable, but then I found out that their mother, who was incarcerated, was telling them negative things about me, thus making them act out in a bad way. Now, these children are 22 and 20 and still dislike me. The only reason they ever disliked me is because I wouldn't allow them or their mother to take advantage of me and stood my ground. Have you ever heard of anything so crazy before?

2007-03-04 13:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 20 years old. i just got out of a really long term relationship, not to sound like a spoiled ***** but my parents pretty much have given me anything i've asked for, they pay my bills, and i don't have a problem living here. i love my family, they are the only people who truly matter to me anymore, i love them very much. however i'm 20 and feel that i should take some responsibility in my life and move out and live on my own to see how well i could do it, it will only teach me better for my future. i want to have to work and worry about paying bills and not being able to run to my parents for everything. i also want my ex to see that i have changed in many ways and am not the way i used to be. aka..still love him and still want him back, trying to show him i'm a changed person. is this a mistake wanting to take responsibility for myself at 20..should i wait longer? all opinions matter to me, so please don't be rude or mean or make fun, i'm very serious about this. thank you

2007-03-04 13:29:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa 1

well my husbands b-day is coming up this week and we have plans for dinner with my in-laws well my brother in law is jealous of my child.My child crys and screams when he see's him. My husband still wants to go to dinner and for me to find a sitter. Come on I just can't dump my son, I feel my husband is selfish, should I cancel dinner?

2007-03-04 13:22:26 · 8 answers · asked by karen 2

My 29 year old boyfriend insistes on spanking my 15 year old daughter as a last resort...is this inappropriate?

2007-03-04 13:21:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

yes Ive been with my gf for 16 long a-- yeras now, Ive never messed around on her.but for the last couple of years shes been acusing me of seeing other women,it has got so bad We have not had sex in the last Two months over it.what can or should i do I care a;lot for her but i just can't go much longer without some Pie thank you

2007-03-04 13:20:04 · 4 answers · asked by rpoker 6

my husband grounded his daughter for making a d on her report card should she be gounded from going over to family members house or should she be allowed to go to her brother or aunts house.i say when she is grounded she should be grounded from doing anything except going to school

2007-03-04 13:17:23 · 7 answers · asked by peglar 1

i have this new baby cousin and theres 2 reasons im upset.
she gets all the attention i say something to my aunt and mom and its like they didnt even hear me. I say mom and she says WHAT!!!! and i say i said something shes says cool and i feel left out =(
#2 i really want to hold her before she becomes crabby but no my mom and dad have to hold her first but after she gets held from them she gets crabby so my aunt feeds her, changes her, and puts her to sleep but shes still crabby
she is the most adorable little girl ive ever seen and i love her truely but sometimes it feels like im not even there. i also want to babysit but i dont know when that is going to happen so give me some advice on how i am going to be able to be "see able" and babysit her.
=) thankz=)

2007-03-04 13:16:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is 8 weeks post partum. She is on the final weeks of her leave from work. She is moody. She seems to be happy one minute then angry to fustrated the next. I dread coming home from work as I just know how I will be greeted if at all. We have been married for 2 years. She is good at making things my fault even though she dont look at it that way. She is not an easy person to talk to as my feelings are easily discounted. I work hard at work and help out alot at home. Laundry, house projects, back rubs, cleaning, dinner etc. How do i handle this variation in moods.

2007-03-04 13:11:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just wondered if that's something all moms do.

2007-03-04 12:58:58 · 21 answers · asked by kelleygaither2000 1

Everytime my child see's his uncle he screams and crys what should I do? My brother in law is always making re-marks for me to hit him his spoiled. My baby is only 15 months.

2007-03-04 12:57:32 · 6 answers · asked by karen 2

I have been married to my husband for over 4 years. We have a six yr old. At first of course my son was jealous, but over the years he has become his dad. My husband loves him as his own.The two of them sometimes fight like kids. My husband just had knee surgery and is worse than ever. He pics at him and is not positive enough. I find myself saying things like "Just cause I left the room doesn't mean you to can fight!" I have talked to him in private but it does not work. The only way that I can make him aware of what he is doing is to speak up in front of my child and explain why it is wrong. I know thats wrong to do but I get so sick of it, if I pulled him into the other room the man would never sit. My child feels he has an alience w/ me now and says stuff like "Mommy's right." and then I have to correct him too.He is good to us other wise but It's like they are jealous of each other. I like to use peacefull redirection and he likes to use yelling and critisism.

2007-03-04 12:55:14 · 2 answers · asked by LUCY 4

Whenever i see a hispanic person i feel like puncing them in the face. I don't know why, should I see a phychiatrist? Even little hispanic children make me angry enough to beat myself. What Should i do?

2007-03-04 12:42:01 · 19 answers · asked by jakebardy 1

or just lazy?

and what time is a proper bed time for an adult?

2007-03-04 12:33:31 · 4 answers · asked by lil' angel 6

For spring break i have invited my older sister and her 2 kids to come down to Miami to visit me and have a good time...Im excited BUT ... My mother is really upset because she feels i dont include her in anything and im not being fare to her and now i feel like crap because she feels that way but i already got airplane tickets for my sis and her kids and i cant afford my mom...what do i do?

2007-03-04 12:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older brothere is bringing other boys to our house when my mom and dad arnt home and kissing. They go to their room and lock the door but i hear alot of them screaming and moaning. What should I do?

2007-03-04 12:26:52 · 6 answers · asked by jakebardy 1

2007-03-04 12:19:52 · 16 answers · asked by biianca [ loveees ] you 2

2007-03-04 12:18:21 · 4 answers · asked by Daddiez Girl 1

I have no idea what to do because latley my sister has been acting strange around me. She has been hanging around me alot and i notice that she looks at me strangely. The worse thing happened was when i was driving to school. I drive her to and while i was driving she put her hand on my leg. I am like wtf and she says she thought it was the armrest. Am i just going crazy or is somthing messd up going on.

2007-03-04 12:07:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Add details please and no cusing bearly any violent.

2007-03-04 12:01:00 · 6 answers · asked by bubly_rock_star 2

is there anyone out there who has experienced the loss of long term memory,"just about all memories "

anyone who has trouble remembering what they did the day before.
I have absolutely no reccolection of my childhood none of my teen years, and very very litle of what i did as an adult.

yet i go through each day trying to bring up who i am , who i was.
there are no family members left to connect me to my past.

jimmy estes
any help or advice.

2007-03-04 11:53:31 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2

did you and your twin ever pull a switch on someone to see if they could really tell who you were.If you did how did it go. and did anyone catch on.

2007-03-04 11:35:49 · 5 answers · asked by kaveman15120 4

some one make black magic on me please let me know how to finish that black magic,
thanks in advance,

2007-03-04 11:22:12 · 7 answers · asked by zaib711 1

My parents went out to dinner, so I was in their room and I was looking through my dads drawer to see if I could find some money, and I FOUND CONDOMS AND SOME LUBE STUFF.

DOES THAT MEAN HE IS CHEATING ON MY MOM?

2007-03-04 11:16:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should i do with my annoying little sister.

2007-03-04 11:13:15 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3