What should my punishment be for sneaking out last night? I'm 13 no smart azz answers?
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In Polls & Surveys - Asked by Dee Brat - 8 answers - 10 hours ago
2007-03-04 13:48:33 · 15 answers · asked by Dee Brat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i would take your TV privilages away, and ground you for a month
2007-03-04 13:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dee, I am not going to guess at what your folks have in store for you...rather i would like to explain a few things to you. What you did is a normal kid challenge to the authority your parents have. Millions of kids do this stuff. But it is a matter of losing trust that they thought they had in you--so it will be a bit of time before they regain the trust they had in you. Sneaking out is dangerous---what if you get hurt?? what if the cops pick you up?? What if what if what if---lots can happen. I am a fireman for 33 years--I see lots of kids hurt unexpectedly, and a lot of surprised, disappointed families. That is only a part of it. Being a good kid is a sign of maturity--and the more maturity you show, the more freedom you get...however, your folks are in charge and will decide what is best as long as you live at home---they are not interested in being friends when it comes down to it. And they aren't stupid--they were young once themselves--they do know the score.They probably did all this stuff---and got punished too. Tell them you realize what you did was irresponsible, dangerous and you learned some valuable lessons---and you are sorry for causing them pain and loss of trust...say it and mean it. So no matter what punishment you get, you do deserve it and you will have to work at getting past all of this. Resolve yourself to always doing the right thing, be nice, get along, do good in school, be courteous and respectful, ---you will be 18 soon enough--plenty of time to go out and have fun then. Good luck...bye bye
2007-03-04 22:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you are setting a precedence for yourself here.....you are going to have a really good reputation. And trust me it will not be a positive reputation, that is if you keep this type of behavior up. It actually says that you have absolutely no respect for yourself or your parents. And if you do not have any respect for yourself then you do not care if others respect you, so they will not....even if you demand it, because you do not care about yourself.
Now your parents basically stopped living a carefree life when your mother got pregnant with you.....because from that moment she found out....she wanted the best for you, and she did every thing in her power to keep you and herself healthy and safe....she gave you life, she gave you food, shelter, and unconditional LOVE. And you repay her with sneaking out of the house. Man, that is so wonderful. What do I think your punishment should be....oh you are already well on your way with your own punishment......Like I said.....with this type of behavior.....you are getting...if not have already gotten a name for yourself, and it sure is not a pleasant....You will have to live with this name for the rest of your life.....and it is bound to come out, and god forbid your child hear about your reputation. It will destroy and embarrass them.
2007-03-04 22:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.....If my 13 yr old snuck out of the house, I would sit down and talk to him first, and ask why he did it. I would let him sternly know that this type of behavior will not be tolerated. Then I would take away his playstation and cell phone for 1 week...(or longer, depending on what he did after he snuck out). If this wasn't a usual behavior and he was just testing a little independence, and he didn't do anything illegal while he was out...it would be 1 week. I would also let him know that I love him with all my heart, and if something would have happened to him when he was gone...I would have devastated.
2007-03-04 21:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
off with her head!
sorry, let me see dont be harsh. lol yea right.
your 13. so your sneaking out and lying to your parents. should i dare ask where you were and what time you got in? i bet there was a cute boy somewhere out there. why do you want to grow up sooo fast. i know, all my friends do it. please you could have ended up really hurt or worse. i think all your privileges should be taken away for a month. yes i said a month. how dare you worry your parents like that. if the only thing you are concerned in life are your possessions, you are your parents possession.
2007-03-04 21:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are sooooooooooooooooo lucky I am not your mother.After I beat you,your butt would be to sore to set at a desk on the computer.1 month of no fun,no tv,no computer,no friends.NO LIFE. SCHOOL,Daily chores then bed, One month.
Are you so stupid that you don't get this is how girls go missing ,raped,killed.Get a brain,then use it.<><
I said a prayer for your poor mother.
2007-03-05 01:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by funnana 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, considering the fact that you could have been raped, kidnapped and/or killed. I would ground you for a month and in all probability give you a good spanking.
2007-03-04 21:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You should not be able to watch T.V..use the computer,have cell phone.use the house phone
2007-03-04 21:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by -kaide. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends, who did you sneak out with, where did you go, and what did you do?
2007-03-05 19:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by SlimShadyGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks of not going any where but school,no computer,no calls
2007-03-04 22:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do some extra chores and no going out nnext weekend.
2007-03-04 22:43:16 · answer #11 · answered by innocence faded 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋