I have been married to my husband for over 4 years. We have a six yr old. At first of course my son was jealous, but over the years he has become his dad. My husband loves him as his own.The two of them sometimes fight like kids. My husband just had knee surgery and is worse than ever. He pics at him and is not positive enough. I find myself saying things like "Just cause I left the room doesn't mean you to can fight!" I have talked to him in private but it does not work. The only way that I can make him aware of what he is doing is to speak up in front of my child and explain why it is wrong. I know thats wrong to do but I get so sick of it, if I pulled him into the other room the man would never sit. My child feels he has an alience w/ me now and says stuff like "Mommy's right." and then I have to correct him too.He is good to us other wise but It's like they are jealous of each other. I like to use peacefull redirection and he likes to use yelling and critisism.
2007-03-04 12:55:14 · 2 answers · asked by LUCY 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He is only 6! He is not responsible for his adult fathers feelings.
2007-03-04 16:33:50 · update #1
Honey, guys r like puzzles that watch football games and drink 5 beers. but besides the point i think its just a phase that will end when he turns about 10 , 12 , 13 ,14. trust me mine was like that 2.
2007-03-04 13:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by angel 1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BECAUSE THERE 2 OF A KIND BOTH STU PORN 1 OF THEM HAS TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE TO MAKE PEACE IT SHOULD BE HIS SON
2007-03-04 12:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋