My parents went out to dinner, so I was in their room and I was looking through my dads drawer to see if I could find some money, and I FOUND CONDOMS AND SOME LUBE STUFF.
DOES THAT MEAN HE IS CHEATING ON MY MOM?
2007-03-04 11:16:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no that means your parents are real people and have a sex life. They were probably hiding it from you, be respectful and stay out of their stuff!
2007-03-04 11:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I have a couple of issues with your question, the first and biggest is what is called an invasion of privacy. Your going into your parent's space and rummaging thru drawers has violated a trust---everyone has their space--you, included. Like someone going thru your school locker, or your knapsack. Parents are often accused of going into a child's room, invading a young adult's space--see what I mean---you want harmony and you want respect----so going thru that drawer in their room was an invasion of privacy. Maybe you and your family are very open, I don't know---but you certainly are old enough to start having and respecting privacy.....everyone's privacy. The stuff you found is used by adults...millions use it--certainly not a sign of infidelity or cheating, as you put it. I would think if your dad were cheating, he wouldn't have the stuff in his dresser. Condoms are for SAFE sex and sometimes birth control. The lube is to help the sex go smoothly. Have you even had the talk with mom about this sex and growing up?? All kids need proper education and information about sex and dating.....ask her soon...get the straight info before someone gives the wrong info out in the street. Good luck in life, do good in school, smile and always do the right thing...bye bye
2007-03-04 19:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie. That is so cute. Your parents still have an active sex life. Obviously, you should not have been snooping, but it should make you feel better to know:
1) They still love each other and desire each other.
2) They are definately NOT hurting each other. The lube is to help them from hurting each other.
3) They are probably not having any more additional children - at least not at this time.
You can be confident that all is well!
2007-03-04 19:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no . he might b using it with your mom. usually if a man is cheating hes not gonna keep the stuff where his wife can find it. dont snoop
2007-03-04 19:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by thepainter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you shouldn't go into places where you don't belong. Time for a talk with your mother. She'll answer your questions.
2007-03-04 19:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily he could be using the condums with your mom but then again maybe he is. throw away the condums or hide them. plus he could a had em' in there for a real long time
2007-03-04 19:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No . They could be using them together... Plus you shouldn't be snooping anyways.
2007-03-04 19:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by LifeLoveLaugh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way to find out is to stick real small pin holes in the little tip
2007-03-04 19:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
no, not necessarily. there could be several reasons for them to use that together.
2007-03-04 19:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋