Everytime my child see's his uncle he screams and crys what should I do? My brother in law is always making re-marks for me to hit him his spoiled. My baby is only 15 months.
2007-03-04 12:57:32 · 6 answers · asked by karen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Believe it or not babys, kids and even adults know when people around them don’t like them. Might be the reason why your child cry’s.
Could be the uncle did something to the child and the child is remembering??
Since the brother inlaw made the comment of hitting the child you should really consider your position and try to eliminate any contact the baby has with this guy. Sounds like he may be emotionally unstable.
2007-03-04 13:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by bwiz2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How often is your brother-in-law around? How does your husband respond to his brothers remarks?
First, you need your husband to see what you see; and then the two of you need to come up with some rules. This is a great way to start to learn how to cope with fortifying your marriage. When your child grows and try's to play Mom off Dad ( & vice versa) ... well, you're brother-in-law has already trained you how to cope with this.
2007-03-04 13:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking him politely to keep his remarks about your son to himself.then talk to your husband maybe the brother will listen to him. in the mean time its not normal for a child to respond like that all the time unless the child feels threatened in some way. so if it doesnt stop i would definetly get irate with the brother each and every time i saw him.maybe he'll understand the ravings of a protective mother . oh and do stress to your husband that this bothers you nip it in the butt now.
2007-03-04 13:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by ____ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your baby screams and cries when he just sees your brother in law than i'd say that maniac did something to your child when you din't see it, watch out for him and meantime tell him off
2007-03-04 13:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KICK THAT STUPID SOB OUT AND DON'T LET HIM COME BACK ,,,, Actually it should be your husband that does that ,,,,, That child is his too ,,,,
2007-03-04 17:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'EEP YOU BABY AWAY FROM HIM IS HE JEALOUS BECAUSE HE CAN'T PRODUCE ANY CHILDREN IT'S NOT GOOD FOR YOU BABY TELL HIM TO GET A LIFE
2007-03-04 13:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋