Family - March 2007

2007-03-05 01:20:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son of 9 will rarely sleep through the night, and craves physical contact in order to get to sleep. He usually sleeps in a room opposite his mother's with both doors open, a direct line of vision between them, and with a light on. At my house I will not do this, as he has slept well in the past. However this disturbs my sleep, and - more importantly - upsets him. My ex allowed him to sleep in her bed until he was 7, and - although she denies it - either lets him do this still, or sits on his bed and holds him until he goes to sleep. She treats him like a baby, and he plays up to this. He lacks self-esteem. Any advice?

2007-03-05 00:54:01 · 21 answers · asked by gnn 2

They need to stop all this non-sense. If teachers get to check their mail why can't we? I mean gosh we have lifes too.

2007-03-05 00:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did a question on losing parents and i got so many lovely replies-It was so hard to chose the best answer-I had to say this just to let people who answered me know how much i apprieciated there response.has there been any other people in the same position

2007-03-05 00:30:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My birth parents did not raise me and I was never adopted. I was raised by my birth moms sister. My birth mom has never been close and made about a dozen contacts with me from 9yrs to 39yrs. She is now ill with some health problems. My Aunt (the sister to my b-mom who raised me) plays on emotions to control my behavior. Had to learn that in therapy. In late 05 I thought my b-mom was going to die so I visited her, too say goodbye and give forgiveness. She didn't die and calls crying all the time about how things are (shes's lonely and left 3 other kids who are adults and none of us speak to each other) and what she should have done different. I am torn as to have a relationship with her, which is very difficult for me or to cut the strings. It is a one sided relationship where we talk only about her life, not my issues or her biological grandchildren and my family. Does anyone have similar issues out there? The emotional roller coaster has taken its toll, any advice?

2007-03-05 00:21:19 · 4 answers · asked by wrigleymallow 1

I am a 33 yrs old m'sian guy and I really want to start a new life. My marriage broke in less than 15mths and I hv a kid (7mths old) taken care by my parents. I sank in business and i am in huge debt with banks,friends and relatives. After 3yrs of successful business venture, last yrs was disasterous as my projects sank and so did my company. My credibility is soo shitty tht I can back for any assistance. To start back in business or proper job, the debt consolidation is jst too big. I hv a degree in Computing, and 10yrs working experience. No one is there for me already. I feel tht going to a new place would help me gain my confidence and place me on my feet. But I dont knw anything about living in Australia and I heard Melbourne is a cool place 2 live in & there r a lot of asian ppl to mix around. I dont knw how am i going to raise the money to even go a look for a job there.I need some assistance on the easist path 2 enter into aust & get a job.Migration would be my aim eventually

2007-03-05 00:21:12 · 2 answers · asked by Ram 1

2007-03-05 00:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by DAWN L 1

I need good, solid, valid reasons why it's a bad idea for my 19 yr old step-daughter to move in with her 24 yr old boyfriend. She's away at college and met this yahoo of a guy whom her mother and I really don't care for. I realize she's 19 and can make her own decisions, and I'll just have to live it, but please help me come up with some really good, decision swaying reasons why she should not do this. Also reasons why the 5 yr gap in their ages is not a good thing either. I'm really trying to help her from making really stupid life mistakes, and I really need some ammo to drive the point home. I have my reasons, but they don't seem to hold any weight.

Any and all answers considered. Can you please please help me?

2007-03-04 23:57:29 · 2 answers · asked by Jim C 5

the martin joseph dyer whom i am looking for has a brother called michael james dyer who lives on fields farm road in hattersley

2007-03-04 23:53:35 · 3 answers · asked by markfitzmaurice1988 1

2007-03-04 23:50:45 · 2 answers · asked by Jared S 1

2007-03-04 23:20:56 · 8 answers · asked by urmila s 1

you did not understand that sort of prejudices when you were young , but when you get older , you started noticing your parents turned off the TV every time when they saw black people on the TV , stopped you seeing your asian friends and not letting you to bring color friends to the house , etc.

2007-03-04 23:05:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am short on my rent and need to get cash - i don't want to ask my mum, cause she keeps bailing me out! I'm soooo stressed out! Always pay my rent, but hate this!!! HELP!!!!

2007-03-04 22:37:46 · 14 answers · asked by jenny w 2

I used to be a very very happy girl. So being upset is not in my dictionary. But lately, life has given me all the terrible I could possibly afford. I don't want to get depressed, I want to fight. But right now, I feel very very upset. Can you say something to cheer me up?

Oh, and do you want to know about my problems? HAHA be my guest:
1- I am 6 months pregnant
2- I don't have a house, I live with my husband in my brother and his wife's house.
3- I am not working due to pregnancy problems, my husband can't seem to find a job = we have no money, my brother pays for us = so I lost my confidence and independance.
4- Me and my husband have communication problems, we don't seem to be able to talk well, he laughs at our problems. So no sitting and resolving the problems.
5- Our sex life is horrible, we haven't had sex for the past 3 months.
6- I don't get on well with my brother's wife, on the outside, everything wonderful, but inside I feel very inferior.
7- I don't go out at all

2007-03-04 21:26:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

SHE HAS COMPLETELY IGNORED ME NOW FOR TEN YEARS. MY YOUNGER BROTHER STUART BEAUREGARD IS 39 AND HE STILL LIVES WITH HER. HE DOESNT WORK AND THEY ARE ALWAYS TOGETHER. ARE THEY PATHOLOGICAL NARCISSISTS? I FEEL THAT SHE USED ME AS A MEAL TICKET UNTIL SHE LEFT MY FATHER WHEN I WENT AWAY TO COLLEGE. THEY ALWAYS TELL LIES ABOUT ME WHEN PEOPLE MAKE INQUIRIES ABOUT ME. BOTH ME AND MY BROTHER ARE GAY BUT SHE PRETENDS HE IS STRAIGHT. MY DAD RUBBED DEAD DOVES ALL OVER MY BODY WHEN I WAS EIGHT YEARS OLD WHILE SHE WATCHED. HE PHYSICALLY AND VERBALLY ASSAULTED ME, BEAT ME AND TORTURED ME EVERY DAY WHEN I WAS A KID LIVING AT HOME. SHE NEVER DID ANYTHING TO STOP HIM.

2007-03-04 21:13:12 · 6 answers · asked by NONAME 1

2007-03-04 21:09:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have not been in touch with daughter until now
for nineteen years she is very nice just need some advice on
how to handle this carefully so we can maintain some relationship
i am an ex addcit who has been clear for 16yrs
the mother has always shunned me and put poison
with in the familly

2007-03-04 20:42:11 · 5 answers · asked by DEAN R 1

alright here's the thing, he's 45 and doesnt know how to use the computer so i ended up doing his paperworks for him..he'll wake me up early in the morning or in the middle of the night to make me do his works and stuff..sometimes i cant even finish my homework in time because i have to do the typing for him..i tried talking to him once but his reply was 'i have you to do it for me'

it's really depressing because i have my own life..i cant ask for another help because im the only one who's still living with them..

2007-03-04 20:42:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have not been in touch with daughter until now
for nineteen years she is very nice just need some advice on
how to handle this carefully so we can maintain some relationship
i am an ex addcit who has been clear for 16yrs
the mother has always shunned me and put poison
with in the familly

2007-03-04 20:41:59 · 10 answers · asked by DEAN R 1

i have this crush on my cousin.she's 16 and i feel that it's wrong but i just can't help it.........is it wrong and what should i do

2007-03-04 20:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by K the lost 1

Happen to just hate my elder 'brother' (hate to use the word )..thats right no pretense or guilt about that...just pure and unadulterated hate..would rather see him dead. right from childhood he been a big bully.. he's been putting me down ..sometimes even going out of the way ....his behaviour can very mildly be described as a mixture of boorishness, uncouth and savage-like....the only language he knows is aggression. & FYI this is not restricted to home, it appears...he is a big player in office politics at his work place and all he does is spew venom. My folks, both 60+, are just at their wits end trying straighten him. Yesterday came home late at night reeking of booze and looking to pick a fight with one of our neighbours..he wasn't game ..so the attention turned to me. but have been ignoring him for years now. Secretly i know he suffers from a deep sense of inferiority ..but wanna know a surefire way of standing up to bullies? Anybody any suggestions? but still wish he was dead.

2007-03-04 20:18:01 · 6 answers · asked by Cheshirecat 1

would you prefer hugs, kisses, very little funds!!!!! and a nagging mother inlaw if i choose that route?? which i dont forsee. be HONEST. get your stars and points

2007-03-04 20:15:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 19:50:13 · 6 answers · asked by Shilpa B 2

2007-03-04 19:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its driving you crazy you have tried to call, (number changed) email she wont respond and even emailed family. I want to be involved in our babies life, I am trying to be there and she wont let me. I havent done anything wrong I was a great boyfriend and always there for her, she fell out of love with me. I have bought the crib, changing table and many items for the baby she took them and money too...however wont involve me now...what can I do.
Do I have rights....she is younger then I am. Still in Highschool...
her parents know me and approved of me and were okay with the pregnancy...why are they leaving me out of the loop now. Its driving me and my family crazy....5th generation alive ...and I cant have anything to do with her...... *asking this question for a friend that is visiting...

2007-03-04 19:20:56 · 10 answers · asked by travelingirl005 5

What is the best memory you have of getting closer to your sibling(s)?

2007-03-04 19:20:46 · 5 answers · asked by seaturtle26j 2

I've been unemployed for several years because I wanted to write my book, and she blames me for it. I live with her.

2007-03-04 18:36:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

please give me more detailed anwers. i need it more precisely.

2007-03-04 18:29:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-04 18:28:42 · 5 answers · asked by Rene P 1

2007-03-04 18:24:36 · 5 answers · asked by tasha 360 1