2007-03-04 19:50:13 · 6 answers · asked by Shilpa B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Please go and talk to someone. If there are problems in your home between your parents and there must be, well they dont always think about how you are feeling. People get selfish and caught up with their own issues. They may not realize how much pain you are in. I know you cannot have the ideal family life, not many do actually. But you can go and talk to someone at school, or a friends mother or an adult that you trust. Do not do something foolish, I remember running away from home at eight and finding out no one realized I was actually gone for hours and hours. I went back and it took me years to realize that my mother did love me very much but she was caught up with her own issues and pain. Please you have your own story yet to be unfolded, many years of falling in love, accomplishments, travel, joys, so many many happy things ahead. Please this is one stop in your life. Its a test ,,this test is given to you by God to see how strong you are. So how strong are you? Yes you can do it. Smile life gets so much better. I know I was where you are now. BE patient :-)
2007-03-04 23:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have the exact feeling! i just have 2 remember thier are people out there who really do love and care for me! but if i do something wrong like killing myself they will they will noticed what was wrong and would want me 2 come back down so they could fix it!
2007-03-04 20:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kasin W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens alot because we tend to exclude ourselves offen that we think our family negleted us but the truth is we neglect ourselve by not volunteering and willing to be with everyone around us.
First of all you need to participate more in your family by giving a helping hand anytime you're free, be willing to go ahead and start off conversations about anything at all. About whats happening at school or around your neighborhood or even about how you feel like right now. Be more flexible as in joining activities around the house and don't exclude yourself, be a part of your family.
Never ever think that killing yourself will be the last solution for your situation because its not. Just think about all the things you'll miss out if you decide to go ahead with it, think about the people who loves you and you love.
The truth is whenever I'm angry with everyone around me I also think about suicide but when I look back and think about the people I love, it pains me so much just to think about leaving my family behind. It hurts so much just thinking about it.
2007-03-04 20:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by beeta 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know these situations are hard you should try finding friends outside of home,involving yourself in new things so you can meet more people and see your life has purpose because we all feel alone sometime... take care!
2007-03-04 20:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel. I feel that way all the time. The only thing that stops me is that I know I would go to hell if I do.
Also I will embarrass my children, life is very hard. Your young yet so maybe you can call your crisis control organization in your area. It is listed in the phone book with other emergency numbers. I did it many years ago and they helped me.
2007-03-04 20:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
why do you feel neglected? have you told your family how u feel?killing yourself is not the solution. maybe you can talk to a counselor or tell your family that you have had thoughts of killing yourself. they may not realize how neglected you feel..
2007-03-05 08:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by bbbrowneyes9 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋