Happen to just hate my elder 'brother' (hate to use the word )..thats right no pretense or guilt about that...just pure and unadulterated hate..would rather see him dead. right from childhood he been a big bully.. he's been putting me down ..sometimes even going out of the way ....his behaviour can very mildly be described as a mixture of boorishness, uncouth and savage-like....the only language he knows is aggression. & FYI this is not restricted to home, it appears...he is a big player in office politics at his work place and all he does is spew venom. My folks, both 60+, are just at their wits end trying straighten him. Yesterday came home late at night reeking of booze and looking to pick a fight with one of our neighbours..he wasn't game ..so the attention turned to me. but have been ignoring him for years now. Secretly i know he suffers from a deep sense of inferiority ..but wanna know a surefire way of standing up to bullies? Anybody any suggestions? but still wish he was dead.
2007-03-04 20:18:01 · 6 answers · asked by Cheshirecat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The best way to stand up for your self. If he picks a fight with or tell's you to do somthing you don't want say NO if he try's anything hit him in the stomach and walk a way.
2007-03-04 20:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by K the lost 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At this stage, nothing will repair him.No amount of wisdom will modify his behaviour, and so all trails will prove futile.
If you are capable of standing on your own legs, immediately move out and forget the past and him especially.wipe out from your memory..and live HAPPILY.
God Bless You
2007-03-05 06:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and get a life of your own.
2007-03-05 04:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let us not hate the sibling so much.
may god help him to understand you.
2007-03-05 06:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move away from him, all of you.
2007-03-05 07:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant u seperate yourself from him
2007-03-05 04:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Caring 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋