why is she being so mean?

Question

yes Ive been with my gf for 16 long a-- yeras now, Ive never messed around on her.but for the last couple of years shes been acusing me of seeing other women,it has got so bad We have not had sex in the last Two months over it.what can or should i do I care a;lot for her but i just can't go much longer without some Pie thank you

Answer 1

16 years? that is a long time. Sadly once trust is broken there isnt much to do unless both parties want to give it a try. Honestly, either she is paraniod or projecting herself (putting it on you when probably she is the one with foul play) either way, its not good. Ask her flat out if she wants out of the relationship instead of doing something that you both may end up regretting. Maybe she will open her eyes and Yes! makeup sex is so damn good!
If it doesnt work, then you will be free to roam other pastures and end up thee dry spell. And, shave your hairy palms.

Answer 2

Wow ... 16 years is a good long time! I think that is great! Perhaps she is feeling that you are not paying attention to her and maybe paying more attention to other things or other people. Maybe you need to do things to make her feel special. Start with small things like maybe helping her a bit around the house. If it comes in a big package with flowers and bows she may also think that you are doing something wrong. Give her hugs, kisses and compliment her every day. As for pie withdrawls......... Marie Calanders makes delicious pies!

Answer 3

maybe she's going threw something right now, all men usually make us crazy so.... Try to open up more with your feelings, about your day, the people you talked to. Then maybe she'll see that you're not seeing another woman. maybe you can surprise her with flowers or a weekend getaway to bring the trust and spark back.

Answer 4

go to a consular