Family - January 2007

I cant take it anymore! 1.) i can hardly talk to my bf becauz he is too much of a wimp to stand up to his little sister and tell her to get off the fone. 2.) All my parents care about is each other! And which means i always get yelled at! 3.) people always run there mouth about me at school. Saying i say crap about ppl i dont even know! 4.) No one understands me! They judge me by the way i act but they dont know why the way i acted! I have a horrible life!My family doesnt care, my dad calls me a ***** and he called me a whore before! Mu uncle his brother called me a whore! And the only reason they do is becauz my sister was one when she was my age! i am a virgin! So it cant be the way i act or it cant be the truth! PLZ help i cant handle it anymore!!

2007-01-20 14:02:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do people think parents are sooo fragile that you can kill them if you tell them to drop dead? Isnt any other form of lashing out just as bad? Anger is anger. But i rarely ever scream at them.
Like, if you scream at your dad at the top of your lungs something as benign as "STOP BADGERING ME!"
OR if instead of screaming, u just mutter under your breath "I hope you DIE"
Wouldn't the screaming be the worst?

2007-01-20 13:53:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is my horrible mother story;

I was 10 years old. I got an allowance of $1 per week. I saved up my weekly allowance until I had saved $5.

I wanted to buy my mother a birthday present. Every night after dinner she sat down in front of the tv, reading a book. So I decided to buy her a book.

I found one, a big one. Murder mystery. Bought it, with a small card, wrapped it. Gave it to her the next week, on her birthday.

She took the book into her bedroom, screamed and screamed. My father ran from the bathroom to the bedroom asking her "what is wrong?" She screamed louder; "my son wants me dead!"

After a 1/2 hour, he came to me, asked me why I gave her a book for her birthday. I told him about her reading at night.

He told me that she tore up the card, flushed it down the toilet. Said it was her obituary notice and tore the book to shreds.

I looked at him and said "I will never give her a birthday present again!" I never did.

What is your horror story?.

2007-01-20 13:47:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

can anyone tell me the best way to track down family members please? i'm trying to find my three half sisters from my fathers side and i haven't got a clue were to start, if anyone can help it will be much appreciated, thanks x

2007-01-20 13:46:52 · 10 answers · asked by sausagejockey 4

my friend is having an issue with not being able to do what she loves most because her parents are concerned. She was hurt a while ago, and she is worried about speaking up to her parents about not being able to pursue her passion. She has a great relationship with them, but they have moments where they sort of hate to be argued with, and she sort of takes their word as is. But now, this is something bigger. I've never seen her this anxious before about talking with her mom and dad. we both know it CAN turn into a huge argument, and are trying to figure out a way for her to talk to them and have them REALLY listen.

2007-01-20 13:44:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-20 13:39:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK i am still having trouble with my kids..they are 11 13 & 14.. These boys just cant get along. They dont have physical fights just argue all the time. It is driving me crazy, no matter what i do, or how i try to handle it it wont stop. I would like to have an opinion from someone that has a similar situation. Its so easy to say "punish them" make them work together and they will learn to get along" its so hard, they have been generally good boys but this age with the three of them is becoming too much. Is there anyone out there that has 3 boys around this age? It is not as simple as you might think...i have had friends with no kids..or with daughters that have thought they could handle it but i am telling you..its just not easy.

PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-20 13:38:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My oldest sister, who I have a lot of respect for was going out with her boyfriend for almost 4 years I suppose. Her boyfriend was a really down-to-earth and generous person and I couldn't ask for more from him and he always kept my sister happy. 3 years later, which is now, they decided to get married. My mom was really happy and she was making all plans and preparations for the wedding. She just wanted to know the right date of the wedding from the Boyfriend's mother. The problem is that his mother is very hesitant. I don't think she was ever in the mood of getting him married to her, or maybe she didn't like my sister. My sister kept crying because she thought the wedding was gone, so my mom talked on the phone. After talking, her mom blamed my mother that my mother was pressuring her. The wedding is pretty much over and my sister is unimaginable hurt. Being her brother, I too had tears in my eyes. I expected so much from him, but it all failed. How do you feel about this?

2007-01-20 13:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by Sid90 2

It seems like dad is realy shallow sometimes! and Idk what to do. he saw one of my friends (w/o relizing it was one of them) and said "haha look at that fat kid waddle." and another time they saw one of my friends and just said "eww look at that!" idk what to do. T_T then my aunt did relize who I was (we hadn't seen one another for a while) and said "what a freak show" to me! idk why either its not like I'm all pierced or tatooed all over and even if I was thats not a exuse!! How am I suppose to deal with this behavior!?!?!

2007-01-20 13:19:40 · 6 answers · asked by ஐKatஐ 3

I sprained my ankle REALLY badley, and surgery is in my future. Mom won't let me go horseback riding, even when I'm bareback, because she doesn't want to take the chance of my re-injuring myself. I've tried to explain how much I can't live without riding, how much I miss it (Haven't been in a few weeks). She hates people proving she's wrong though, she doesn't get just how much this means to me. I feel like I'm being torn apart from the inside, it really hurts to not be able to ride like before. She say's she'll think about it, and we'll talk in a week. The week comes, and she never even gave it another thought. She seems to think I'll forget it, and let the subject go. She think's this is just a hobby for me, and something not even all that important. I've tried having a conversation with her, but I can never say what I feel. She won't listen if I do. So, do I continue with riding in secret, or do I actually tell her, and risk losing the only connection I have left with riding?

2007-01-20 13:18:27 · 29 answers · asked by bluelightning08 2

I have never met my half-sister. My mother told me about her once in 5th grade. She's my dad's daughter with another women whom he never married. I know her hometown because she was unofficially adopted by my fathers parents whom he has not been in contact with since the nasty court battle that he lost her in. I'm not sure if she still lives in the same place, but I'm desperate to find her. I feel incomplete knowing I have a sibling out there that might not even know I exist. Please Please Please if you have any ideas that would help. I've tried many web searches and had no luck. I'm really very short on cash so I can't sign up for the expensive searches. Please help. I appreciate it. thanks.

2007-01-20 13:07:52 · 1 answers · asked by ruca 1

My mom just passed away in December. I talked to her that morning and I was supposed to talk to her 10 minutes later and I called the hospital 4 times and she never answered. I debated on just dropping my sister off at school and going up there but decided not to cuz she would get mad at me for missing my exams. So I didn't and I can't get over that. I mean if I had gone up there maybe I could have helped her or at least been there with her instead she died in a hospital with no family around her. I would also like to know how to stop being mad with my dad for telling my sister and I last. I mean my cousins who hated my mom knew that she passed away before I did and I just don't want to be mad anymore. Please help me?

2007-01-20 13:06:36 · 13 answers · asked by flowerpower161912 1

i have a younger sister she's 1 year younger than me, yet she's about my height. she wears all my clothing and uses my sutff without asking and she blackmails me. she never lets me use or touch her stuff when she always uses mine. she's selfish and unkind. she hurts,abuses, hits me and gives me scratches and bruises , i tell my mum but she's too stressed to even care about this situation because of annoying mischiveious brother.
she also doesn't leave me alone, she looks at all my stuff even the stuff that i keep confidentional. she tells all my friends that i'm a show off, ugly and she makes re marks about me. she ALWAYS comes to shopping with me and my friends, its really annoying, she doesn't let me go with hers. outside, at school, mall etc. she's really shy, and at home shes lazy, screaming her head off yelling at me. and hurting me.
help?!

2007-01-20 12:58:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was reading something online about generation curses and how bad things that your father, mother , grandparent etc. has done can affect the children they have. Now my question is, if a child is a product of an affair (lets say the mother or father was married to someone else at the time of conception) is it possible for the child to suffer all their life because of their parents' sin.

This website was like a biblical site. It made me think and ask why negative things happen to us despite our prayers. Could it really be because of our parents?

2007-01-20 12:48:21 · 9 answers · asked by Me 2

2007-01-20 12:42:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

about you?

2007-01-20 12:27:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to help my father in law get his birth certificate because he is having a hard time trying to getone because they are saying there one with his name that was born in 1932 or33

2007-01-20 12:25:40 · 2 answers · asked by cindy 1

My 14 yo son was cast in an educational tv pilot summer '06. He filmed the opening & was told he'd be called in Oct for more filming. We didn't hear from them, and he figured great opportunity anyway.

In October, my mom invited our son to Europe with her and his cousins. She has paid 1200 dollars down toward the trip and must pay the balance in April.
Yesterday, we got a call and learned our son was selected for the lead role in that tv pilot. Filming will be in Feb and the pilot will be announced on a nat'l talk show. there will be a world premiere of the pilot, complete with limos and a red carpet, and black tie and 'the media.'
Director says premiere might be 3 days before the Europe trip, but she hasn't been on schedule yet. When mom heard the news, she didn't even congratulate my son, just said my son has an obligation to go w/her to Europe, even if more filming started. My son said he'd hate to miss Europe, but would want to chose the show.
What's right to do?

2007-01-20 12:21:41 · 4 answers · asked by t jefferson 3

i just brought another house with my girlfriend and i need all the money i can get, paying toward the other house is a struggle.

2007-01-20 12:13:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

They are extra ordinary active. Never want to eat but running here and there, fighting, throwing and destroying things at home and outside as well. Elder one do not want to read his school books. They are weak due to less intake. Though they like to eat outside things like french fries etc. But home made never want to touch. Do not want to take milk. We are vegitaraion so do not take egg, meat, fish, hum etc.
Elder one like TV watch but younger one never and switch off TV if anybody wants to enjoy tv. Due to all this mother beat them almost everyday. Thay calm for a moment but forgot very soon and start again as usual.
In case we go friend home or some body comes at our home the same there is no change in behavier.

2007-01-20 12:11:13 · 7 answers · asked by Kumar 1

There is a certain family member who has diarrhea of the mouth and likes to gossip a lot!! No its not a woman...this is a MAN!! He acts like a little ***** who runs to the nearest person to snitch on anybody & basically get another family to confront the person who hes tattling on.

Its getting on my last nerve..any suggestions?

2007-01-20 12:08:32 · 18 answers · asked by Gator Fan 1

He's Just Getting Out Of Prison-4 Years For Meth. No One Here Wants Him Here.

2007-01-20 12:07:35 · 12 answers · asked by banyanguy1 2

My wealthy, recently widowed, godmother has no children & is sole heir to millions of dollars. My parents, who have had nothing to do with her for about 10 years, have become her best friend, catering to her every need. My father even started going to church with her even though he hasn't set foot in a church for 30 years.

If that isn't disgusting enough, my parents are afraid I might get part of the inheritance and have started telling my godmother outrageous lies about me, all negative & designed to draw a wedge between she and I. Unfortunately its worked and my godmother will no longer speak to me or take my calls.

My husband and I are well off & don't care about the money. We've got all that we need and then some. The things my parents have said about me so hurtful. When I couldn't reason with them I felt I had no choice but to cut ties to spare more hurt.

It hurts and its hard to believe my own parents would stoop so low! Did I do the right thing

2007-01-20 12:02:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hate it hate it hate it. Everytime I can smell cigarette smoke on him I get angry and sad. He has two small children as well and he tells me that he used to get so mad at his dad when his dad smoked (his dad is a nonsmoker now). He has tried to quit but never continues with it. He knows how I feel about it but doesn't change it.

2007-01-20 11:52:27 · 7 answers · asked by Angela G 3

I babysit for my aunt ALL THE TIME!!!! I am 13 years old and on the week days I babysit like 2:30-5:00 and on weekends I babysit like 8:00AM to about 9:00PM. thats like 13 hours!!!!! Am I to young?? I babysit an 11 month old. Tommorow I am babysitting 11:00am-9:00pm.

2007-01-20 11:50:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to be moving with my dad next month
because I'm not happy in the house that I'm living
in. The reasons are:

I'm never happy to see my stepdad when he
comes home.

My sister is almost always getting on my nerves.

And I am always depressed when I go home.

When I visit my dad, I feel very happy and almost all of my troubles melt away.

Do you think this is a good decision?

2007-01-20 11:46:53 · 6 answers · asked by PrettyEyes 3

2007-01-20 11:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by Islandgirlss 2

I was told before we moved to Madison, what a great family city Madison was. I am having a hard time finding affordable family activities for my 9,8, and 6 year old..any suggestions???

2007-01-20 11:45:02 · 3 answers · asked by Kathy H 1

I've lived in the northwest for most of my life. I've visited California about 4 times and i love it there. I have family, sun's always shining, the beach is there - i love it. For some reason, i feel that California is more "home" than the northwest (even if i've lived here longer than i've ever been in Cali). In Cali, i feel so much more comfortable going out more (especially at night) and i'm soo happy - WHY??????

2007-01-20 11:39:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyone in my hose screams....i hate it...my dad thinks his stupid kids (im his step) love him withch they dont....they onley go out with him causes he spends money on them!!!i cant stand it!!!im soo sad!!!all he does is sit around and play WoW (world of warcraft)and mom is in pain because she fell and hurt her back!!
im onley 12 years old and my house is hell!!

please help

*hugs and kisses* from the house of hell
ashley

2007-01-20 11:32:09 · 27 answers · asked by Ashley D 1