i have a younger sister she's 1 year younger than me, yet she's about my height. she wears all my clothing and uses my sutff without asking and she blackmails me. she never lets me use or touch her stuff when she always uses mine. she's selfish and unkind. she hurts,abuses, hits me and gives me scratches and bruises , i tell my mum but she's too stressed to even care about this situation because of annoying mischiveious brother.
she also doesn't leave me alone, she looks at all my stuff even the stuff that i keep confidentional. she tells all my friends that i'm a show off, ugly and she makes re marks about me. she ALWAYS comes to shopping with me and my friends, its really annoying, she doesn't let me go with hers. outside, at school, mall etc. she's really shy, and at home shes lazy, screaming her head off yelling at me. and hurting me.
help?!
2007-01-20 12:58:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Besides telling your mom, you should tell an adult you trust, for example a school counsler, so they can tell your mom what your sister is doing because your sister is invading your privacy, assulting you, and is just being an ***. If she doesn't stop, in the future you can report her to the police for assulting you, invading your privacy, and harrassing you!
2007-01-20 13:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by annagarcia1992@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably keeps blackmailing and hurting you, becuase she thinks she has power over you. . . she can get her away. You need to show here that your are you and she can't control you. She probably does this all for attention and she'll take whatever she can get.. even if it's negative. And if you haven't talked with a friend that's near by you should ask them for their opinion.. someone you can vent with. Sometimes making your mom sit down and have a conversation with you helps. Make her sit down and have a grown chat.. where she can understand where your at. Maybe your sister needs love... do everything you can ,.. if you buy a new shirt and you know she's goona use it.. ask her is she wants to borrow it. Meet her where she is at, before she comes to hurt you. and prove to her that blackmailing will not work. If you do that.. .that will be one less card that she can't use in her deck. Love is a key to many things.. you'd be suprised.
2007-01-20 13:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by littledirector77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your little sister needs a wake up call. you say she is blackmailing you, how? to me it does not sound like i would be to worried about whatever it is you are trying to hide. next time she tries to blackmail you tell her you don't care what she says that it couldn't make things worse than they already are. the next thing you need to do is buy a doorknob with a lock and key for your room. this will at least keep her out of your stuff, and you need to keep it locked at all times even when using restroom. next you need to get a lockbox for any private letters or diaries or such. the door knob and key you can find at a herdware store or a walmart depending on where you are from. the lockbox can be found at a store like wal mart. then you need to tell her that if she thinks you are such a loser like she syas then why is she always going shopping with you and your friends and why is she always wearing your clothes. ask her if it is her normal practice to hang out with and wear loser's clothes. and i do not usually say things like this because i am a peaceful person, but the next time she lays one hand on you grab her and look her dead in the eye and tell her you will not tolerate this abuse anymore and demand her to repect you and your body and image. if that doesn't do it knock her lights out, as they say in my generation, or just beat the crap out of her. the first time you beat the crap out of her she will know that you are not going to take it from her anymore. the abuse will stop and she will probably respect you more. good luck and take care. God Bless.
2007-01-20 13:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 07:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a jealous sister to me. As for the arguing and fighting between you two, it is only natural for sisters to fight I guess. I know I did with my sister. She will eventually grow up and you two will most likely be best friends when you grow up and leave home. My sister and I did. Perhaps you should discuss this with your dad.
2007-01-20 15:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to knock her on her azz a time or two and then she will bug off
2007-01-20 13:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit that biach back. I meaan really if someone is bullying you do the same thing back to her!!!
2007-01-20 13:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by court 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-20 13:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty Lucy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋