It seems like dad is realy shallow sometimes! and Idk what to do. he saw one of my friends (w/o relizing it was one of them) and said "haha look at that fat kid waddle." and another time they saw one of my friends and just said "eww look at that!" idk what to do. T_T then my aunt did relize who I was (we hadn't seen one another for a while) and said "what a freak show" to me! idk why either its not like I'm all pierced or tatooed all over and even if I was thats not a exuse!! How am I suppose to deal with this behavior!?!?!
2007-01-20 13:19:40 · 6 answers · asked by ஐKatஐ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ask your family which God died and passed on the right to judge others.
2007-01-20 13:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let them know in a mature way that you do like the things they say about other people and it hurts your feelings when you hear them say it. you need to be sure they understand although what seems to be weird to them that they were once your age and they did things that seemed weird to their parents. and you seem to the kind of person that looks inside people to find your friends instead of worrying about their looks. thats good.thats what it's all about. be sure to tell them that if they have anything bad to say about someone to do it when you are not around. also you could make a suggestion to them that every time they find something wrong with someone to think of something good about them as well. and also tell them that you do not think that they would like it very much if someone were to talk about you or them that way. and as far as your aunt is concerned. if it has been that long since you have seen one another that you didn't recognize each other then next time she says anything tell her to drop dead and go on. she is not worth the time and trouble and hurt. hope this helps. take care and God Bless.
2007-01-20 22:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till they all die! It seems like your family likes to do that by what I know. I don't mean in a way to be offensive, oh yeah and in the mean time you can convince your parents to let you go to camp!!!!! YOU PROMISED YOU WILL GO!!!!!! oh yeah and just so ou know I totally deserve best answer for that smillie face thing I beat the website one by a mile! or should I make that SIX MILES IN ONE DIRECTION! Bye I will callyou's after school.
2007-01-22 13:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by buttons527 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time tell them they are being disrespectful and are not setting a good example for you. They are supposed to be role models not rude people...
2007-01-20 21:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be a better person than they are... take it as an education. You are not going to undo a lifetime of bad behavior.
Good luck!
2007-01-20 21:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Ask them how they would feel if they knew people where judging them like that!
2007-01-20 21:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋