My oldest sister, who I have a lot of respect for was going out with her boyfriend for almost 4 years I suppose. Her boyfriend was a really down-to-earth and generous person and I couldn't ask for more from him and he always kept my sister happy. 3 years later, which is now, they decided to get married. My mom was really happy and she was making all plans and preparations for the wedding. She just wanted to know the right date of the wedding from the Boyfriend's mother. The problem is that his mother is very hesitant. I don't think she was ever in the mood of getting him married to her, or maybe she didn't like my sister. My sister kept crying because she thought the wedding was gone, so my mom talked on the phone. After talking, her mom blamed my mother that my mother was pressuring her. The wedding is pretty much over and my sister is unimaginable hurt. Being her brother, I too had tears in my eyes. I expected so much from him, but it all failed. How do you feel about this?
2007-01-20 13:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by Sid90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes he is apparently still a mama's boy. It's an Indian wedding and it's a mix between arranged and love, so the mom picks the date, but the thing is, he is not doing anything about it.
2007-01-20 14:18:01 · update #1
Hello, I was wondering why the mother of the groom got the pick of her sons wedding date too me that's between the bride & groom too be & no one else .Apparently the groom too or was be is a mama's boy still ? The groom too be should have said & done something too help this out since it was his mom picking the wedding date for some odd reason . Was he not ready for marriage possiably got cold feet ?? I'm truly Sorry for your sister & family pain but its best she found out now instead of later . To answer your question no it was not right; your sister bless her heart & soul is having to endure pain all because of the mother of the groom !!
Best wishes & Good luck alway's
May GOD Bless You & Yours
2007-01-20 14:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by sweettexasangel12001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the entire family especially the moms need to keep out and let them make the decision if and when they should get married,
2007-01-20 21:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really didn't love her anyway. She should go on with her life and she will find Mr. Right one day. I know it hurts to see them with their heart broke. But, broken hearts always heal. I know someday a young man will come and really swoop her off her feet. You will see her happier than you have ever seen her in her life.
2007-01-20 23:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mammas boy she should thanks her lucky stars its over my daughter was with one of them nothing she done was ever right.
2007-01-21 00:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋