Why am i not comfortable at home?

Question

I've lived in the northwest for most of my life. I've visited California about 4 times and i love it there. I have family, sun's always shining, the beach is there - i love it. For some reason, i feel that California is more "home" than the northwest (even if i've lived here longer than i've ever been in Cali). In Cali, i feel so much more comfortable going out more (especially at night) and i'm soo happy - WHY??????

Answer 1

The amount of sunlight you get in your daily life determines a LOT how you feel. More sunlight, the more happy you are.

Answer 2

There is no accounting for taste and preferences. If you like it so much there, you definitely haven't been able to stay there long enough to see its drawbacks. I am a native of the state and used to love it there. I am also a recent transplant out of there, and very happy I made the move. But, you may love it, and more power to you. But, if you decide to move there, have lots and lots of money or a darn good job lined up. It will take every penny you make to survive unless you are a movie star, millionaire or degree holder.

Answer 3

when i first move to ireland, i felt the same. i am from bali, indonesia. we have the sun everyday and i live near the beach. while in ireland, mostly rain, cloudy, shower and windy. we be lucky to have a sun for few days in the summer.
but because i live there so i have to make some adjustment to my preferrences. i don't drink before but now i found it enjoyable to meet some friends over for drinks in a pub. this just one of the thing that i love to do in ireland.
so try to do something new in the northwest, something that makes you happy. i don't think it's that bad. you just need to change you preferrences. we need to adjust everything when we live in a new place.
go on try find one...?

Answer 4

I believe every place has a different feel about it. If it feels right then move there.