Family - January 2007

She said something about me in a forum and It came back to me.I asked her why she did that and she started a long term verbal abuse calling me among others, layong *****, scum of the earth.Her children don't say hello to me anymore and she convinced everyone else in the family she is all good and I am the laying *****.She humiliated me in public and all I had left to do was to leave the place and it seemed like I was running away.She acts like she is better than me all the time.She puts me down everytime.My husband is on her side. Always has been.Family is family he says...I try to avoid her and my husband's family as much as I can, but he is very family oriented and pushes me to be with them, acting like nothing happened.That affects me terribly, now more than I am 4 month pregnant.They seem to have no problems acting out.I can't do that.I wish I could erase her out of my life but I keep finding her out on the streets, she treats me like dirt but smiles and kisses my hubby .

2007-01-20 07:34:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i currently live with my child and fiance' who is not the childs mum but looks after him as he were her own. my question is;.- as the court appearance is very soon , what is the quickest way to make my fiance a legal guardian of my son and stay living in the home we live in as the home is soly in my name , incase i get sent down . i have no family to look after him and his natural mother left when he was born , she is not allowed near him due to having serious problems of her own. i have full custody of him and my surname is on the birth certificate, is there anyway round this without social services doing their worst?

2007-01-20 07:24:04 · 9 answers · asked by D 1

mom is supposeldy dead. how do i go about finging out for sure. dad in army.

2007-01-20 07:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by nay78 1

I want to know what you think. This is an actual scenario. I don't know the family. The parents say there was no abuse, that their child is just evil. What do you think? Can a five year old be born evil or did something go wrong after birth and in the home? Nature vs. Nurture is basically the argument.
How do you know which one it is if the family is saying there was no abuse?

2007-01-20 07:01:09 · 6 answers · asked by Serinity4u2find 6

I am 13 and our bill for me this month was $789 because I texted so much and went on msn and online and bought 17 ringtones and 6 games. Do u think it was fair for my parents just to take my phone away!?!?!?!? I go so mad at them that I left my house for 4 days and went to my boyfriends house. Then wen I got back, they grounded me for 2 weeks! I AM SO PISSED that I am thinking about leaving the house right now and doing something that I know they would be pissed about! Do u think this is all fair cause Im 13 and I need my phone!!! I have nothing to do!!! UGH!!!! I HATE THEM! do u think this is fair or just cruel cuz its not like the bill is my fault!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!

2007-01-20 06:56:36 · 17 answers · asked by ~V@NN@H~ 2

I live with my mom,my father being away from home almost 11 months a year,which means I am the person who does it all in the house,absolutely all....It`s just that sometimes I feel I don`t a place of my own,I don`t have my own time....My mom relies enormously on me,but I would really like to have a lot more time for myself,for study,for having fun....no....everything can be interrupted at any moment,and sometimes it drives me nuts....nobody seems to feel I really don`t have much time saved for me and me only....How would you do to talk with your parents if you were in my place?how would you handle this situation?Thanks and have a great week-end!

2007-01-20 06:41:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom got in to a huge fight. I think she wants me and my sister to hate my dad because I feel like I'm not allowed to care for him at all. My older sister had bought a box of chocolates in Paris and brought them for my dad. Later that day, my mom was taking the chocolates to her room and I had told her that the chocolates were for my dad. She yelled at me saying that they were for her and 'us'. Then she said how I was just on the side of my dad and that I was feeling bad for him even if he didn't deserve it. I knew she was going to hate me if I ever cared for him, so I told her, "NO! -name- said it was for him (My older sister)" and then she didn't believe me so I told her that I was going to call her up and ask her who they were for. My mom told me, "I DON'T GIVE A ****!" and then she ran up to me and hit me. The fight got worse and I felt horrible. Then I finally called my older sister and she told my mom that the chocolates were for him, and then mymomdidntcare.

2007-01-20 06:38:44 · 11 answers · asked by omgluv 1

Im 17 and my parents basically wish me dead.

My dad is always instigating fights with me. Its like he has nothing else to do but to make me seem like such a bad kid. Usually our fights consist of him telling me all my faults and me telling him to leave me alone. But if i tell him anything my mom joins in and starts yellng at me calling me disrespectful.
My dad always yells at me for no reason saying how im so rebelious and im a hateful little b*tch or a c*nt, and you know.. just everything. he makes fun of my weight and to top it all off he and my mom think im a greedy little brat. I am supposed to get ss checks, but i dont get any of the money. and i stil have to use the money i make at work to pay them for stuff when my ss is supposed to do that. my dad yelled at me the other night when i said i was leaving because he upset me. he said Good maybe you'll come home in a body bag or on the side of the road you little *****. and i have him on tape tellng me he wishes i wanst born.

2007-01-20 06:09:45 · 11 answers · asked by MissJennyNicole 2

Well firts of all my dad had a baby with his girlfriend and she took my place that ***** so ever since i meet her i kinda starting to hate her and she has this attuitude that i hate and she always wants my dad only to her and her baby which i have a brother too and i want him to be in my side but my brother likes that ***** oh yeah and they want to live together and she scared of my because she thinks am going to kill her baby so i dont know what to do its like i want to get along with her but theres just sumthing about her that i just hate about her but she only buys everything just to get to my dad you feel me well can anyone please help me ....

2007-01-20 06:01:17 · 16 answers · asked by Heather R 1

my mother inlaw is obessed she tries to tell me what to do and always tries to dominate me she has already dominated her son, its like when i first got married she would tell me what to wear howto act at first i was like ok beyatch! bcuz i was new to the country and didnt know the customs(over seas outside america) then she got on my nerves i stopped listening to her and wore what i wanted acted as i pleased but at home shes a damn annoying lady! like when i first wake up get outa my room to get some tea she would come invite herself in my room and sit down and start bitching about how theres an empty soda can and the room is messy, she always tries to rule and comment on every single thing man!!! not to mention she tries every possible thing to make her son to hate me and fight with me, she lies to the fullest with a straight face and teary eyes and a fake heart attack chest pains man!!!!! no guys he doesnt want to move out he refuses to leave his mom dad he says im not going to leave

2007-01-20 05:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

if one of your friends lost her dad when she was 10 and she never wanted to talk about it. but lately she is getting more upset when stories of dad's *** up and she now 17, i talkd to her but she didnt want to have a heart to heart convo on it. i let her know i'm there but she is miserable.....

2007-01-20 05:47:23 · 4 answers · asked by boo 2

im 19 n a freshmean in college n i don't have a job (but believe me, im trying to get one) so i don't exactly have a lot of money. the money i do have go towards gas for my car n things for school. my mom is trying to take my bank card away from me bcuz she say im using MY money on junk (i didn't know school things were junk) i need to keep my card if i wanna keep gas in my car n i need to get things for school .... what i wanted to know was ... is there some way i can keep her from taking my card n my money? is there some legal action i need to do?

2007-01-20 05:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by starxxgirl 1

I don't understand him, he has the dumbest excuses for things and thinks whatever he does is ok (like I'll pick it up later, or because i'm lazy). He thinks it's cute for him to act like a huge jerk(sometime it is when we're fooling around). Whenever I get mad at him he either won't let me talk or acts like I'm being cute.

2007-01-20 05:36:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

about two months ago my little sister started cutting herself. i told my mom and she got help, but then every thing was my fault. now shes making my life hell and every one elses in my family. i was thinking about just going to live with my dad but we dont really get along. my life is in the **** hole right now and i have no idea what to do.

2007-01-20 05:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by jessica354 2

Okay. This is a really wild question for me to even ask, but I have to know.

My mother has stated that when she dies she wants to be layed out in her house and she wants my father to build her coffin. She does not want anything fancy. She wants a simple pine coffin. While I would try to make her wishes a reality, I don't think she is living in reality. Well, in fact, I KNOW she isn't living in reality.

First off, my father will be grieving over her death, so why would she think he would want to build her coffin? Secondly, aren't there laws against building your own coffin? Aren't there state standards?

Secondly, can someone be layed out in their house instead of a funeral home? The whole thing seems morbid to me and I'm really uncomfortable with the entire thought.

Please answer the questions to the best of your knowledge please. I already know my mother is unbalanced, so I just need some advice. Thanks for your help.

2007-01-20 05:25:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think thats odd, they dont, but i think they say that because they are in denial.

2007-01-20 05:19:54 · 12 answers · asked by tunachunks199 1

My cousin died today. He was practically my brother/best friend. He loved skateboarding and surfing. I want to learn and follow his dream (my dream also). Should I say this now to my mother, or wait till this whole ordeal is over. The place I want to go to is in California (I live in Connecticut), how would I convince my family to let me go?

2007-01-20 05:15:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has only paid 140.00 for 3 mos rent. She keeps messing up the house (spilling a lot of paint on the rug and hiding it, eating the kids snack food and not replacing it). She has had 4 jobs since september. I haven't kicked her out because I am afraid that she will get hurt. She goes on dates with guys she barely knows. She doesn't tell them her situation. I am afraid that I won't be able to protect her if I kick her out. She is almost 21. She needs to grow up. my bestfriend told her she needed to grow up and take care of the people that take care of her. She really made her realize how much she was hurting me. I have 3 children and a husband. We have a hard enough time paying our bills. How much longer should I give her. Probably none, but she is my little sister.

2007-01-20 05:14:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanna hav a party for me and some of my friends, any ideas of what we could do?

2007-01-20 05:11:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried my best for 10 years to be the perfect d-i-l. I came to know recently that my inlaws have been spreading lies to their other son and relatives that I have not fed them well when they visited us 5 years ago and that I have not treated them well. My inlaws are very controlling and until my husband married me he has never said no to them for anything!From the beginning of our marriage my mil -fil have tried to create a wedge by telling my husband that he should keep his wife under"control" and tell him that they "know that he is unhappy being married to me". My husband and I have a terrific relationship but my inlaws insult me at every opportunity and have bad-mouthed us (including my parents) to everybody. He is very hurt by their behavior and talking with them ends to be a melodramatic screaming session. My inlaws have fought with every other relative including their own parents. Now their claim is that I have "separated their son" from them. How do I deal with them?

2007-01-20 04:51:08 · 22 answers · asked by Teresa 2

My daughter is mad at me over something so selfish and has now gone to the extent of keeping my grandaughter from me. She won't answer my calls she locks the door if I go to her house and said I can't have anything to do with her! Anyone have any advise?

2007-01-20 04:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by Janice R 1

I found this out when I became a teenager.

2007-01-20 04:45:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-20 04:41:11 · 8 answers · asked by Tammys 1

I'm a senior in highschool and I have never had a decent/nornal relationship with my mother. She has major mental and drug related problems and it was deemed a long time ago that she was an unsuitable mother. I don't spend much time with her because she always hurting me and lying to me. She also makes me feel incredibly guilty when I don't decide to spend time with her. What should I do?

2007-01-20 04:25:55 · 9 answers · asked by Dante Alighieri 2

I love my mom and all, but sometimes I get angry and screem then i get gelty what should i do to stop my anger.

2007-01-20 04:23:14 · 4 answers · asked by Stacey M 1

2007-01-20 04:22:13 · 2 answers · asked by LAF 1

My step mom & my dad have been married for three years this year. My dad & i get along pretty darn well.
It was amazing today when went out with my friends to the mall for lunch & just to do some shopping, she was with my little step sisters came to say hi as we were walking in the opposite direction. She chatted to my pals more than she normally would got to know them by names,faces & everything else. Which normally she would just say hi & carry on.
After this I had phoned my dad & told him this,he was just as shcoked as I was. She is really beginning to be so nice after I have no idea. Not that she was not nice before she had really tried to make an effort to do things with me which is great.
My dad & i spend alot of time together.Or maybe it was of the weekend away i got them together & me & my little step brother & sisters stay behind? Is this really weird or is it just me? Or is ther a change in her? Cheak a day ago questions "step mom perinoid' which i put up a day or 2 ago

2007-01-20 04:09:51 · 5 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2

i would like to adopt but have no money can i still adopt

2007-01-20 03:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my little brother has a girlfriend and a baby with her, on his birthday they went out drinking when they got back my brother passed out in the bathroom and found her with a knife to his throat! we are all in so much shock. this was just a couple nights ago. he forgives her cuz he wants a mom for thier child. she says she doesn't remember doing this at all. the cops have done nothing either. tonight my dad is throwing a b day party for him and she's going to be there. how am I supposed to act? I love her and she is pretty much family but how can I forgive someone that tried to take my brothers life?

2007-01-20 03:15:57 · 17 answers · asked by princess011181 1

Does anyone else have thier parents or grandparents living with them? My grandma just came to live with my family but i am the one always staying wtih her and working 2 jobs in the evenings. I'm stressed out!

2007-01-20 02:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by shine_on 3