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Well firts of all my dad had a baby with his girlfriend and she took my place that ***** so ever since i meet her i kinda starting to hate her and she has this attuitude that i hate and she always wants my dad only to her and her baby which i have a brother too and i want him to be in my side but my brother likes that ***** oh yeah and they want to live together and she scared of my because she thinks am going to kill her baby so i dont know what to do its like i want to get along with her but theres just sumthing about her that i just hate about her but she only buys everything just to get to my dad you feel me well can anyone please help me ....

2007-01-20 06:01:17 · 16 answers · asked by Heather R 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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it sounds to me like u are very jealous & thats not right don't u think your dad has every right to make himself happy along with u & everyone else!! u shouldn't put him in a position like that.. What do u think that he is going to love his other baby more than u!! let me tell u something no girl is ever gonna between the love that your dad has for u your his baby girl so don't think his new girl is gonna take your place your dad has a different type of love for her than he has for u!! u mean the world to him he made u u think his is gonna stop loving the person he made more than someone he met!! just get over the situation & help make your dads like happy & don't make him choose all the time in your like your dad has made u happy time to re-pay him back ( but not with money u know what i mean)

2007-01-20 06:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is normal to feel threatened with a parent's new significant other, especially a daughter to her father's new girlfriend. Her baby did not take your place. I guarantee that she feel just as threatened by you. That is where alot of the conflict is at. I don't know the age difference between you and the girlfriend, but that can add to the turmoil. It sound like both of you need to grow up a little. I don't know if your dad is just sitting there hoping that things work themselves out, but he need to grow some balls and start helping the situation.
This is not an easy situation. You need to talk to your dad and his girlfriend. It could be simply miscommunication on both sides. Good luck.

2007-01-20 06:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shanan D 4 · 0 0

You are your dad's child too, remember that. You are in a tough situation right now, but there is nothing you can do except, accept the fact your dad had a girlfriend. You dont have to like her, but you do have to RESPECT her. I am guessing the gf is on the younger side and is feeling threatened, dont give her anything to feel threatened about, what is there really? you will ALWAYS be your dad child. Be the bigger person.

2007-01-20 06:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie W 1 · 0 0

Your dad should be making time for you to address this stuff with him. Maybe you could suggest a time where you could meet your dad without her around and talk. Your dad seems to be just coasting along with whatever she does. Explain to your dad what your issues are with her. I hope you meet her halfway and she does the other half. I dont believe that you should have to suppress or hold back your feelings about her just to keep your dad happy he is the adult he should understand and try and help you guys fix this...other than that family counselling

2007-01-20 06:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by angelbaby777au 1 · 1 0

Why would she think that u would kill the baby? Do u threaten her or are hostile to your dad's GF over nothing? You should try to get along with her even though you don't like because you love your Dad and want to make him happy, right?

2007-01-20 06:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Alina 1 · 0 0

Take a breath girl friend, and remember it is your dads choice who he likes, but always remember you where his daughter before she was his girl friend. If you are really all that upset and feel as though her and her baby are going to take your place talk to your dad, I am sure he will be the first to let you know how much he really loves you, and besides you could be a big help to your new sibiling.
P.S remember you don't have to like her to get along with her. (Kill her with kindness)

2007-01-20 06:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by CelticMoonGoddess 2 · 1 0

Im in that situation right now and your lucky you can go in their house because my dads girlfriend wont even let me go in their house she is a ***** and she is a *** and has 3 boys but their not my dads and she is U G L Y and is bald. I dont know what to tell you sorry

P.S. my dad doesnt even live in the same state as me

2007-01-20 06:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to try to get along with her as hard as it may be. Your Dad choose her for a reason, now they have a baby (your 1/2 sibling) you need to be nice. The nicer you are the nicer she will be. This woman may be in your Dads life for the rest of his life so you need to accept her. Good luck!

2007-01-20 06:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by chemky1 3 · 2 0

guy, all females' dads are propose contained in the initiating. Ask her what he's into, case in point, if he's into NASCAR, locate out his favourite driving force. in case you despise NASCAR, a minimum of delight in it for the sake of having on his good section. additionally, once you first meet, have her introduce you to him. Make eye touch, to coach which you're no longer frightened of him, even nevertheless you're scared mindless. Shake his hand. do no longer provide a wimp's version and fairly positioned any muscle into the hand, somewhat, squeeze with some million/2 your might on your hand, and shop eye touch. And in case you ought to, as gay because it would desire to sound, ask him your self what he's into, and notice in case you are able to relate. constantly **** !!!!! locate hassle-loose floor to stand on, and it makes issues plenty much less annoying.

2016-10-07 11:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

no one can take your place in your dad's heart. i have step sisters also and i know my dad still loves me. try telling your dad exactly how you feel or talk to a councilor at school. that baby will grow and look up to you for guidance, it probably loves you all ready. dont waste your time hating, it does no good

2007-01-20 06:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0 0

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