Family - December 2006

2006-12-16 22:51:43 · 5 answers · asked by chriselyn 1

I'm 29 and he's 21. i have 3 childre from a previous marriage and 1 with him. So far it's been 2yrs and things are good but can a relationship with such a age gap last?

2006-12-16 22:34:33 · 16 answers · asked by iAishAi 2

i am studyin in delhi..but i want to go to pune but they're not lettin me go..how do i convince them..help me please

2006-12-16 22:30:41 · 19 answers · asked by samaira o 1

I sometimes want to die! I hate fighting with my mom but it always happens there's no making her happy! I guess I can be a bit rebellious at time's but I haven't done anything really bad like pierce my belly button and tongue. I'm only thirteen but I already feel so unattractive. I'm not obese but I do have an undesirable body. I used to be so beautiful as a child. I'm half Chinese and half English. (My mom's Chinese and my dad's English) I have loads of pimples my mum throws a fit everytime she see's me scratch a pimple. I feel soo sad when I go out with my seven year old brother! Everyone always says he's sooo handsome! And then I get that feeling of jealousy. I have just come back from New Zealand to Malaysia because I was being bullied in school. My parents don't sleep with each other and they aren't loving towards each other. So I'm now in Malaysia and guess what I'm being bullied again. (My shoe got thrown in the bin) I even got told off by people for telling on the bully to a

2006-12-16 21:44:49 · 9 answers · asked by starz_are_blind300 1

I am an over the road truck driver.I split my time up when I come off the road ( 2 days / month ) with different family members.This time I am off work at my father's house.I I am 33 yrs old . Yesterday out of courtasey @ 2p.m. I let my dad know I was out with a friend and that we had plans.So at 7p.m. he calls me right in front of my friends and asks when I was coming home , and if I'd be home at all.I was short w/ him and said it was only 7 p.m. and that I would be home , but I did'nt know when.This is the 3rd time he has done this to me while I was with my friends.It's so embarrassing.Also when I stay w/ him on home time - he thinks all dinners should be eaten together and he gets mad when I don't stay home.I took him out Friday night , and thought that I at least diserve a day/night w/ my friends.I respect his house and even clean it for him to show my gratitude for the nites I stay. I do any laundry that needs done , etc. even though I don't have to.What more does he want?

2006-12-16 21:41:35 · 12 answers · asked by andy 2

my kids have got too much stuff-toys,books,games.They throw it round the house and trash my house on an half hourly basis.i am sick of it and shout and bawl .i've read all the parenting mags but my eldest is very difficult his own grandma won't look after him. should i get rid of all the stuff becos i am near to really hitting him soon. things have got worse since i split with their dad

2006-12-16 21:11:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can I find my mother? Im 33 years old.my adoptive parents know nothing

2006-12-16 20:13:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 19:59:19 · 8 answers · asked by S R369 1

I have great in-laws, but they recently decided to ask their friends (a couple) if they want to travel with them and stay here with us here in Boca Raton (FL). Even though I know they would understand if we said NO, isn't it really a big assumption to tell their friends they could stay with us before asking us if we were OK with it? Plus, it makes US look bad if we said no. We like their friends, but still--we are not running a Holiday Inn here. Are we just being anti-social, or are we right? Please share your thoughts. Thank you!

2006-12-16 19:42:48 · 8 answers · asked by SoCalAgency 2

I am very boxed in right now in her household and I can't seem to get out on my own due to her and her ways of butting in my affairs that would get me out of her home. I can't afford a car, I can't rent due to her giving me bad credit, I have a child. I really need some input on this, she is driving me insane!

2006-12-16 19:28:58 · 5 answers · asked by Daisey 1

My girlfriend has cancer and her boyfriend is an ex junkie who about every 8 months or so relaps for about a week. She has a five year old daughter, and wants me to take her if anything unthinkable happens. We are writing up custidy papers ourselves. Her boyfriend is not her daughters bilogical father but has been raising her since she was two. He will not give her up without a fight and I may not be able to prove his drug use in court. We also live in different cities so we may have to do everything through fax and mail. Neither of us can afford to go to a laywer and have legal papers writen up. Is there a more sure way we can do this? And If I go in with the papers the mother and I wrote up what type of chance will I have?

2006-12-16 19:22:27 · 10 answers · asked by keko8338 1

okey look i m haveing a serious prob
and that is my father and me we hardley get along and i really want to get along with him
i want his attnetion and i have tried to do things that he likes with him but we still don't get along
and sometimes i hate his guts 4 that cause i do soooo much just 4 him and he doesn't notice it.
i thought that maybe cause of marks he doesn't get along with me
but even after getting good marks he still ignores me.
what do i do guys i really want him to love me.
i m 17 yrs old and carving 4 his love and he doesn't understand and mom knows about it tooo.
and he is my real father.
what do u guys think about this caring 4 his love and affiction ?????/
is it to much that i m asking 4 or what.
plz answer this with sencerity because i m really getting hurt inside and i really want his love it hurts soo much that he doesn't care and love me the way i love and care 4 him.

thankz in advance!!!!!!

2006-12-16 19:08:20 · 2 answers · asked by Hally berry 3

I don't know, but a lot of the responses I heard were ones I tried that didn't work out. I'm beginning to feel vengence against all of them, especially my sister. Is it normal, and is it bad that I feel my family should pay for how I've felt for 13 years?

.... I think they should pay dearly for how I felt for the past 13 years....

2006-12-16 19:07:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always wondered if bad little kids go to hell if they die as little kids. Say if they kill little pets or even another person/kid. I'm thinking upto about 10 years old.

2006-12-16 19:07:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's Marie, ( the nightmare MIL from everybody Loves Raymand) except she lives 100 miles away. ut she calls 3 or 4 times daily. My house is NEVER clean enough when she comes over. And she keeps inerfiring with ther way we are raising the kids. Granted I am thier step mom but my Husb choose me to help him not her. She keeps butting in. My husb has spoken w/ her but she refuses to listen. He says dont call and she shows up on our doorstep, He says I'm right and she mails us clippings from magazines to prove her point. and so on and so forth.
How can we get her to get a life ( her own pefererably) and let us live ours with out depriving the kids of Grandma whom they love?

2006-12-16 19:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs Lizzard 3

I'm the oddball everybody takes their anger out on in my family. How do I gain respect from my parents and my older sister?

2006-12-16 18:58:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My elder sister is 2 year my senior. We were very closer when we were younger but we are now very different people with different views, she has growns slightly fatter and she is always angry!

Her friends avoided her, and whever i want to hang out with my own friends she will be pissed that im leaving her alone.

I fancy a guy and i told her, to my horror she text him and suggested something sexual!

I confronted her and i told her since u like him so much i will nt contact him anymore but i want her to knw that i am hurt, she jsut say "IF U DUN WNT HIM ANYMORE, SO DO I, AS ITS NOT CHALLENGING ANYMORE!"

I am so troubled with her. What should i do?

2006-12-16 18:44:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

like i must be a doctor even i love to be a lawyer...

2006-12-16 18:43:26 · 5 answers · asked by writer 2

My MIL is a very stubborn and passive-aggressive person...she makes it SEEM like she's being sweet, only to disguise the fact that she's just said/done something rude.
My husband and I have a 10 month old daughter who looks JUST like my husb. (she has his coloring, features, etc), my husb. and I have different looks. My husb. has a 14 year old daughter from a prev. relationship (we get along great,btw), but who looks NOTHING like him (there's actually a very good chance that she's not even his, but we don't care about that, we love her as our own).
Every time I see my MIL she has to say how SHE thinks our daughter looks NOTHING like my husb., but how my SD looks JUST like him. I find this ABSURD...and the more she does it, the crazier I feel! EVERYONE else says that our baby looks like my husb. I think my MIL is just scared that my SD isn't my husb.'s, but she won't admit it.
When she says rude things, should I call her on it right there, or should I just ignore it and move on?

2006-12-16 18:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by Megan V 4

My step son is only 7 he lives w/ us and sees his mom every other wk. He has gotten out of control! He steals and fights and lies and NOW He is taking swings at his mother!! We have tried everything. When he was caught stealing from the store he laughed at the cop who spoke w/ him!! We've had him in counseling and the pastor is even taken to speaking w/ him. We love him dearly but what do we do to ge this kid to straighten up?
In school he is an angel a favorite with his teacher because he is so willing and quick and his grades are fantastic. He has NO problem there it's just when he comes home he is a MONSTER.
I am not the evil step mom I love him and want whats best for him and I tell himevery day what he means to me & his family. When he isn't being a snot he CAN be a very sweet kid. and funny and obliging.
Does ANYONE have the answer???

2006-12-16 18:19:25 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs Lizzard 3

They are my wifes house guests and their kid is 3 1/2 and still in diapers........my wife is mad at me for sending them outside when it is the winter time
But i am doing them a favor ....to speed up potty training ....what stupid lazy parent
That kid is a walking S H I T diaper toilet that stinks like POOP
....HELP

2006-12-16 18:18:10 · 22 answers · asked by Brown guy 2

2006-12-16 17:59:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She does'nt like perfume. And she's kind of picky.

2006-12-16 17:54:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because of work, I have to be away with her. I'm in a lot of stress lately and I feel like I'm losing it. I'm with my wife abroad, and my daughter's left in my home country with my mother-in-law.

My wife wants me to get them asap. But I keep telling her that we need to be stable first and money is a bit of problem too.

I need to clear my head and think straight, but I'm really really consfused.

Your comments is highly appreciated.

2006-12-16 17:45:22 · 15 answers · asked by markbriones 2

I have tried to make conversation with her.

2006-12-16 17:34:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

yes i am ... i always get pissed when they compared me to my elder brother.. about how fillial/good person he is ...
i'm just different .. my parents expects me to run family empire.just because my brother is .when i'm not ready for that kind of commitment.. and now my brother stole the one lady dat i set my eyes on.. every one says that he has a good wife to be and asking me to settle down .. but 30 is still young for me ...

i mean i done what they ask me too ... i even went to their choice of schools/universities they wanted .. but all i want is some kind of freedom and they say i'm a rebel..

whyy!!! are parents like this

2006-12-16 17:31:50 · 14 answers · asked by Edward H 1

Really long story, but basically she is a horrible person. Because of her disrespect, lack of consideration and rudeness our marriage is suffering. Is it appropriate for me to tell him to choose me or her?

2006-12-16 17:04:17 · 49 answers · asked by Bombshell 3

I am 15 and a boy. I am a little old for this, but I do it. I wear Goodnites to bed. I wet the bed about once a week, and my parents do not know that I am wearing a diaper to protect my bed. I have thought about my parents finding me wearing a goodnite on me when I wake up, but they never see me. Also, I only have girls goodnites. My cousin used to wet the bed and we had 2 packages in my bathroom. I am on a limited supply and only wearing a new goodnite after I wet in it. Also, I just started this coule of months ago. Sould I wait and let my parents find my girls goodnites or tell them I am wetting the bed and have solved the problem by wearing my cousin's girl goodnites? Also, it does not run in my family at all. And, it is totally not my personallity to tell my parents I WET THE BED! They will laugh, I know they will because I am not that type of person. WHat shoiuld I do??? PLEASE help! I only have 5 diapers left.

2006-12-16 16:35:28 · 14 answers · asked by XDeefertyX 2

friends
siblings
parents
cousins

2006-12-16 16:32:34 · 9 answers · asked by Profe....llikr 4

mother is letting 18 yr old boyfriend of her 14 yr old daughter live with them and sleep in the same bed as the daughter, I think its very wrong and am very discussed by it . what do you think?

2006-12-16 16:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous