I need help I feel so sad all the time! I always fight with my mum and sometimes my dad I feel like dying.?

Question

I sometimes want to die! I hate fighting with my mom but it always happens there's no making her happy! I guess I can be a bit rebellious at time's but I haven't done anything really bad like pierce my belly button and tongue. I'm only thirteen but I already feel so unattractive. I'm not obese but I do have an undesirable body. I used to be so beautiful as a child. I'm half Chinese and half English. (My mom's Chinese and my dad's English) I have loads of pimples my mum throws a fit everytime she see's me scratch a pimple. I feel soo sad when I go out with my seven year old brother! Everyone always says he's sooo handsome! And then I get that feeling of jealousy. I have just come back from New Zealand to Malaysia because I was being bullied in school. My parents don't sleep with each other and they aren't loving towards each other. So I'm now in Malaysia and guess what I'm being bullied again. (My shoe got thrown in the bin) I even got told off by people for telling on the bully to a

Answer 1

Please take comfort in these words from the Bible at Psalms 72:12-14 and know that someone does care.
For he will deliver the poor one crying for help,
Also the afflicted one and whoever has no helper.
He will feel sorry for the lowly one and the poor one,
And the souls of the poor ones he will save.
From oppression and from violence he will redeem their soul,
And their blood will be precious in his eyes.

Answer 2

When I was 13, I was a small chested tomboy with very few friends. I hated everyone and was very rebellious. I didn't have parents who loved me, but who were very strict and old fashioned- so I couldn't go anywhere or do anything. My brother was the pride and joy of the fam - talented and smart...always dolted with praise. I hated my life and wanted to die so many times that suicide was often on my mind and close at hand.

Years later, I was still the same flat chested tomboy, but figured that life is too short to worry about things I couldn't change. I had many boyfriends who wanted me for my personality, not my looks, and found my own talents including music, art and cooking. My 'everyone's fav brother' became a druggie and the boy I was always jealous of was a shame to the family.

Years after that, I fell in love, had a baby, finally got boobs and at last have someone in my life to make me see what life is all about. My brother cleaned up his act, and is now married with one of his own.

Bottom line is...just because your life seems sucky now doesn't mean it will be like that always. Just be patient, pray and believe that there is always a reason behind everything.

Answer 3

Sweetheart, you are only thirteen these things will pass. Why doesn't your mother take you to see a dermatologist they have creams and facial cleansers that can help with your acne. Talk with her about it and let her know how insecure it makes you feel. As for the bullying thing I always like to think about karma and if you spread bad karma it will come back to you maybe not today... but it will. So keep your chin up and if you have to take a self defense class to maybe help then the next bully might be a little surprised when he realizes he can't bully you anymore! Good Luck!

Answer 4

Hi, your problem is not unique. Many others, especially teenagers, have the same problem with their parents. The first thing you should know is there might be some generation gap between you and them. Try something like this: You want to do a series of things; They expect you to do a series of things. Your smartness should intervene here: select those things common between these two areas and do them in front of them. Keep the rest, which just you like, for other times when they do not see you, provided that whatever you do does not harm anybody or does not violate any reasonable rule. Give it a try.

Answer 5

It's family ties. It's your blood. It can hurt to call them out on their actions (parents suffer a lot when they spank their kids. Or so i heard.) but though you may not see it right now and feel all this guilt just making it hard to breathe, you did well. You were strong enough to take yourself and your mom out of a vicious cycle that she probably never gathered enough strength and courage to get herself out of. If you and your father do end up in court and you feel that you just can't look at him while confessing every calamity you suffered because of him, don't let his glares intimidate you. He was going to suffer the same pain he caused others one way or the other anyways. Tell the judge that he is putting psychological pressure on you.(if you're a minor.) He will be asked to leave. While you may feel that you betrayed your own family, but you really saved yourself and the people you love.

Answer 6

you have the lake of confidence little bit and this is thing you can boost by making more friends and browse the web read and write what do you feel . you can say it to your friends you try to wear nicely for pimples you drink lot of water and stay away from choclates and the sweet food until you get red of them . try to get the nice result in the studies . love your mom and dad and ask for your needs and discuss dont be shy .

Answer 7

hey,i know how you feel, i am 13 just like you,& i fight with my mom all them time,but now i am trying to change,when she comes i just say "mommy!!" al exsaitd,& my parents don't sleep
in the same bed,they don't love each other,they fight infront of me & behind my back,& i'm an only child,so you just try to be more nicer to her,& its so normale to have pimples,& i feel so ljealouse about my friend lulu that has a beautiful f***ing face,but hey just remeber be nice to your mom,like talk to her about stuf,like make-up,clothes,shoes,happy stuf,becouse she loves you,& you love her,& don't do any thing that she don't want you to do like,drugs,pierce your belly button and tongue,just be nice,like when i started to fight with my mom,one of us say "hey let's control ower selves fighting is not gonna do anythig better"then we start to talk in a normal tone.& i'll give you my e-mail cuz you sound sweet,maybe we can be friends?[e-mail]

Answer 8

ohh,my dear dont be sad..you know that the kids are most beautiful created by god...dont be rebellious it will make you sad..just think of it,you are handsome than SUPERMAN and no one is ugly.if they bully you tell them LOOK AT YOUR FACE FIRST,and if your brother comparing you just be happy for someone telling him his handsome..be proud of yourself and love your parents show them how you love and care for them..kiss your mom and dad..make sweet to them...You are a handsome boy for me..put smile in your face ok

Answer 9

sounds like you really need an adult to talk to that will listen to you. You should talk to your school counselor about talk this or at least to a teen hot line.