Family - December 2006

How do you get someone you really care about out of an abusive relationship when they never listen to you but it is destroying their lives and others??????????

2006-12-17 12:17:29 · 5 answers · asked by Lil_ jay 1

My hubby is white and although he seems very attracted to me and is very personable and friendly to my sisters and my friends,he seems friendly,but there's always a rigid and defensive undertone in his behavior when around my brothers or any other black male he comes in contact with. His mother is friendly and personale with me,but VERY rude,rigid and defensivearound any black men.With black women,she behaves OVERLY nice(almost sarcastic).What could this be?

2006-12-17 12:17:28 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I talk with them as I do with my sisters ,and they talk with my sisters as they do with me.They don't get graphic,but it comes up and vague details are mentioned from time to time(just like when I speak with my sisters).Is this inappropriate or abnormal.A friand told me it was and that m,en usually keep things of sexual nature between men...Is this true??

2006-12-17 12:11:35 · 7 answers · asked by Direktor 5

the adoption was in 1955 when mom was preg with me without telling my father as they said she was unfit to be a mother and took my brother & sister from her but yet still left her oldest son in her custody. Her married name was Zimmerman, my father's name was marvin leroy zimmerman, i've seen the birth certificate's for my brother and sister, his name is terry lee zimmerman, and her name is pamela kay zimmerman at birth. from what i understand they were adopted and their name changed to Anderson. mom had a major stroke in the 90's,( laid on the floor for 8+ hours when i discovered her when getting home from work. my 2nd or 3td cousin tells me that the ol man is somewhere in wisconsin or minnesota, as for him i don't really care, i would really just like to meet my brother and sister, and have them mmet their mother while she is still around. I know this went thru D.A. Blodgett home in 1955, but they won't give me any info

2006-12-17 12:10:44 · 3 answers · asked by bearbrat_2000 1

ok, so sometimes my brother will do something minor that isn't a big deal, so my parents just give him a little warning, then he keeps doing it figuring they don't really care, then he keeps doing it and the my parents get really mad and my dad and bother usually get "physical" and my mom just yells at him, i am the younger sibling in this situation and i'm just left watching there, sometimes I go outside and take a walk, but inside it destroys me, sometimes my brother even breaks things sometimes, I even think he might cause a divorce sometimes, I want to know what to do to make this to stop happening, oh and we go to church every week and I have a religion class and my brother has a confirmation class, I am 13 and my brother is 15.

2006-12-17 11:55:09 · 2 answers · asked by kristindalhoff 1

Will I move with my mom. But my dad will not talk to me or my brother. So I been thinking about writing a letter to my dad. Is it good idea or bad idea.

2006-12-17 11:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by tink172007 1

It happened 6 weeks ago and I have not spoken to her since, I am not happy about this and I will not forgive her, nobody got hurt, but I am afraid that it might happen again.
I am a peaceful person, and I love my family, but this is just nutz.. Should I move on? and forgive her?

2006-12-17 11:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by Whoa_Phat 4

I got home and hes not here...
his truck is here
his food is here
his cell phone is here
hes not?
he always leaves a note
we have been home now for 45 minutes...

2006-12-17 11:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

3 years ago, my dad borrow loan from one of the bank to support me for my sudies which was a twinning programme to oversea. Till half way, the loan was not enough for me to complete the whole programme and i've to come back to my hometown and find work. Now my dad have to re-pay back the loan and the interest charged was too high for him. He's not in good mood everyday. I wanted to help but my salary was not even enough for myself. He is angry at me since then and whenever he saw me he did not even talk to me. It is not my fault anyway, it was his decision to send me oversea. I did not ask for it. Why is he blaming me then? It makes me feel very guilty.

2006-12-17 11:40:31 · 4 answers · asked by mida 1

Would you like to here a lie from your parent, best friend, lover...
"You are actually my child"
"I promise"
"I do"
"Seriously, I got tested, it came out negative"

2006-12-17 11:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by InTROLLigent 3

2006-12-17 11:35:54 · 12 answers · asked by Dot B 1

I am really scared I dont know what to do. Everyone in my family has noticed a major difference in his behavior. Within like a week. Ihe is very talkative -thats when he in an ok mood. he gets very angry, violent, he yells, he starts fights weve tried getting him out of the house my brother actually got into a fight with him, my sister left and went to he boyfriends. i dont know whats wrong with him. hes gotten me really nervous and scared please tell me how can you tell if someone is using drugs. my faimly and i are scraed for our own physical safety. he lives in the house with us

2006-12-17 11:29:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no idea what to get my folks for xmas, they are moving from their house into a caravan in a few weeks and travelling, they have all they need and said that they don't need much being in a caravan as there is limited space,, what can I get them they are so hard to buy for, now that they have no room for anything makes it harder also... I am willing to spend up to $300 on them.. any ideas would be appreciated...thanks heaps.

2006-12-17 11:22:04 · 5 answers · asked by channille 3

i cant stop crying this christmas.last christmas 7 members of my family died in a house fire including my 3 month year old nieceand my mum.i just cant get over it.and feel so alone.everyone is telling me to try and enjoy 'the festive season' but i just cant and people think im being a scroge.and i have to go to my friends house this year and i feel like a real outsider.any possible way u think i can enjoy this christmas?

2006-12-17 10:55:51 · 18 answers · asked by chelsea c 1

wondeirng what a curfew for a 17 yr old college student. he has done very well in his first semester. he also playes JR.B hockey with guys that go down to the bars. my son does go down with them and has never found himself in a situation he cant handle. he has payed for his own car and insurance gas... pretty much living on his own with us helping with food and shelter. He also has a girl friend who is 19 and she does not have a curfew. he has been not coming home latly sleeping over at her house. and goin to the bars more often. he turns 18 on the 31s of december. i might add that he does handle himself like a more mature 17 yr old.. he has always been the youngest in everything he has done being born on dec 31st. what do you people feel i should do. right now i have it set to 1 am and he feels he cant do anything with it because he gets home from hockey at 11 and by the time he gets out with his friends it already 12.... am i just having trouble letting go of my Baby...

2006-12-17 10:48:39 · 8 answers · asked by D m 1

I am completely against Abortion (because I'm Catholic) My Daughters had to quit Girl Scouts because some of the Cookie Dough money was going to abortion. We've had to stop doing alot of things because of it. Now is seems their is nothing that they can do that doesn't involve Abortion.

2006-12-17 10:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

at the moment we are foatering a three year old. he is amazing and i wont him to have a really good xmas. problem is, im 19 so kinda out of practice with all this father xmas stuff.
whats th best storys or things to tell a child of this age, to get him all excited about santa?

2006-12-17 10:34:02 · 13 answers · asked by no angel 2

My brother is 13years old so you think he's just going through a period of his life, but no. He's been pretty bad for the last 4years. He's really smart, but he doesn't have a conscience and doesn't care about anything he does. He's failing most of his classes just because he doesnt feel like doing classwork and gets As on tests. He treats my parents like ****, telling my mom he wishes she were dead and even my mom says "your brothers gonna get my dad and i into a divorce one day". Everytime I try to talk to him so that he can grow up a little, he just rolls his eyes. Also, he has an uncontrollable temper. He punches my best guy friend in the balls, he started hitting my dad in the gut, and hes punched me in the arm a couple times (luckily we all know how to deal with him so he doesn't know how to hurt us more like little bruises). And whats weird is that when he's not in this funk, he can be a really cool kid. And I have no idea what to do about him

2006-12-17 10:23:15 · 9 answers · asked by J 2

I want to know because I got a detention and I don't know how to tell him I need the answer today

2006-12-17 09:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents provide food, shelter and clothing for me, but I have been hit, screamed at, and pushed. Not on a day to day basis, but enough to make me hate living here. Does this even qualify as abuse? I want out, but I'm terrified the system will make me stay here, and then I'm not even sure what would happen.

2006-12-17 09:09:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are supposed to be going to my parent's for boxing day and there is only enough room for 1 adult and 3 children, which means that my husband will have to stay at home, when really I want us to go through together as a family and they cannot be bothered to find anyone else to help. What can I do?

2006-12-17 09:05:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

The mind games are getting old and I am pregnant and just don't want to deal with this stuff this year...

2006-12-17 08:55:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 08:54:06 · 17 answers · asked by eightfold@sbcglobal.net 1

2006-12-17 08:47:33 · 2 answers · asked by Xtina 1

Summary:
Dad died suddenly 2 weeks ago
I have been the primary problem solver for any and every thing for these past few weeks ( I'm 50)
Mom has been very mean and hateful to me my entire life BUT I can't find it in my heart to disown her even though she has been mentally brutal to me since Dad died
Brother who is 53 has been useless with problems, Mom's needs, actually has been a hinderance creating MORE problems

We go to a very nice resturant every Christmas- getting dressed up- have done that for over 30 years
All decided on thats what we'll still
do this Christmas until today
brother corners each individual to tell them we are having Christmas dinner at his house this year
(brother has 6 cats - 2 not housebroken) house is a furball, pee pigsty and my son is highly allergic to cats
WHAT would you do?

dinner @ my house is not a option
Mom is basketcase and is leaving solution up to me to solve... as usual

2006-12-17 08:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by Mopar Muscle Gal 7

my brother is in the army and is very fussy with makes and brands. so what do you suggest?

2006-12-17 08:28:22 · 27 answers · asked by no angel 2

I've seen this before but I forget where or how to do it.
I have Bank of America. I think they will do it but I'm not sure.
I bought it about 2-3 weeks ago it's a prepaid cell phone. $130 now its $86

2006-12-17 08:25:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 08:11:52 · 18 answers · asked by cherish memories 1

we have a 8 month old and a 4 year old. Im EXHAUSTED all the tme.

2006-12-17 08:10:02 · 9 answers · asked by who knows 3

2006-12-17 07:56:20 · 14 answers · asked by who knows 3