It happened 6 weeks ago and I have not spoken to her since, I am not happy about this and I will not forgive her, nobody got hurt, but I am afraid that it might happen again.
I am a peaceful person, and I love my family, but this is just nutz.. Should I move on? and forgive her?
2006-12-17 11:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by Whoa_Phat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Believe me, I am not a wissie person, I felt threatened. I do not want it to happen again, and I do not want it to escalate into something else.
2006-12-18 01:00:59 · update #1
i'd have called the cops. that is assault, whether she touched you or not. and with a knife? get real.....................
2006-12-17 12:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by chris r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on, forgive her. As long as you and your husband are married, she will be a part of your life. Why was she mad at you? Was it a I am going to kill you offense or was she just making a point and happened to have a knife in her hand.
2006-12-17 20:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your not going to forgive her but then ask if you should move on and forgive her. You need to make up your mind dude.
Considering she shook a knife at you I would say your foolish if you carry this around with you....My advice...forget it and move on. I don't really see what is to forgive.
2006-12-17 19:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is a difference between forgiving someone and in trusting them
i had a friend once who started to get aggressive when visiting me and my family
it was 2 years before i permitting him to visit again (and yes he did know why) but when he did visit us again although he wasn't physically aggressive this time - he was verbally aggressive towards us
although i have forgiven him - he has done nothing to earn trust back from us so he wont be invited to visit us again for a LOOOONNNG time to come if ever
2006-12-17 19:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Aslan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did she seem violent or did it just hurt your feelings? Excuse my asking, but I didn't see it. Has she always been like this or has she changed?
If she seemed violent and if this is a relatively new behavior, you need to discuss this with your husband. She could be mentally ill and need treatment.
2006-12-17 19:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is older she could have easily hurt you, herself, or someone else. You need to have a candid discussion with her about her dangerous behavior and it wouldn't hurt to involve other people who love her in it.
2006-12-17 19:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Enjoying Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd of shook her until her teeth rattled or fell out, whichever came first.
2006-12-17 19:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt go out of my way to visit her ever again.
2006-12-17 19:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋