I talk with them as I do with my sisters ,and they talk with my sisters as they do with me.They don't get graphic,but it comes up and vague details are mentioned from time to time(just like when I speak with my sisters).Is this inappropriate or abnormal.A friand told me it was and that m,en usually keep things of sexual nature between men...Is this true??
2006-12-17 12:11:35 · 7 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We are all adults,it doesn't make me uncomfortable.A friend told me she found it odd,I was wondering if anyone else agreed.
2006-12-17 12:18:39 · update #1
If your not uncomfortable and it does not seem they are trying to make sexual advances then REJOICE that they respect you enough to talk to you as a equal. Maybe they even are looking for advice from you.
Men rarely share the truth regarding their sexual life with other men. It is someone like yourself theat they will turn to when the need to discuss something so threatening as their sexual life with. You don't share anything except conquest stories and desires with oher men and then only if you think they will support you.
You are thier sister and the love you enough to come and speak to you about thier deepest secrets and experiences, you should be proud that the respect you so much.
However you are telling others about what you should keep between just you and them. If I was talking to you about my private matters and I found out you were telling your friend I would feel betrayed.
So if they are not crossing any boundries please respect thier privacy and also understand that they come to you with the expectation that you will respect thier privacy.
Feel good that they come to you, learn to keep it to yourself and let your relationship grow and prosper. Years for now you want to have him as a best friend, I know as I lost my sister as she did not know how to respect her family. Luckily my brother and I are close, but she is alone now and for the rest of her life because of her choices. Family is something special when it works and it sounds like your works...again REJOICE.
I must give your parents kuddo's as well for fostering such a close family, these days it is rare to find much more than disfunction.
Peace....
2006-12-17 14:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kdude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's odd, maybe they feel your are like a friend as well as a sibling and you are someone they can talk to about anything. Take it as a compliment that they want to share details about there life, they trust you and that says a lot.
2006-12-17 13:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by tcy114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really because u r all grown and maybe they just feel they can talk about whatevr around u
2006-12-17 12:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least with family members is ok. but if it goes out of the family...beware and start kicking **butt**
2006-12-17 13:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by alizelatina41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not the best choice...yes guys generally dont talk to girls
about sex. i would suggest that you tell them to stop that as its not
making you comfortable. if they dont stop then get your parents
involved.
2006-12-17 12:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope....guys love to brag.
2006-12-17 12:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Mine does it all of the time.
2006-12-17 12:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by HeartOfGlass 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋