My hubby is white and although he seems very attracted to me and is very personable and friendly to my sisters and my friends,he seems friendly,but there's always a rigid and defensive undertone in his behavior when around my brothers or any other black male he comes in contact with. His mother is friendly and personale with me,but VERY rude,rigid and defensivearound any black men.With black women,she behaves OVERLY nice(almost sarcastic).What could this be?
2006-12-17 12:17:28 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Backstabbing and 2 faced.. Watch out for them, they don't seem true to you and your family.
2006-12-17 12:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sheila 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is probably just his insecurities surfacing. Your mother in law sounds as if she is going out of the way to make sure she does not appear to be racist which often backfires and makes people think she is a racist. Why not question your husband about this especially if it seems to bother you.
2006-12-17 20:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has been hurt by a black man. I hope not because it is possible that she has passed on her issues to her son.
Why are you with someone who has some racist issues?
2006-12-17 20:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't like black men! The reasons are obvious!
2006-12-17 20:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by rich g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uff, I don't know what to say here. what does a white man have that a black one doesn't? poor of your hubby has no soul.
2006-12-17 21:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by alizelatina41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Racism and racial profiling. U shuddn't be with someone who does';t respect your male family members because of their color. That's stupid
2006-12-17 20:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they both love black men sexually and are trying to cover it up.
2006-12-17 20:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why he's with you, He and his family cleary don't like black people.
2006-12-17 20:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's intimidated by the brothers' size girl you know that!!
2006-12-17 20:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
racism
2006-12-17 20:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Enjoying Life 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋