My brother is 13years old so you think he's just going through a period of his life, but no. He's been pretty bad for the last 4years. He's really smart, but he doesn't have a conscience and doesn't care about anything he does. He's failing most of his classes just because he doesnt feel like doing classwork and gets As on tests. He treats my parents like ****, telling my mom he wishes she were dead and even my mom says "your brothers gonna get my dad and i into a divorce one day". Everytime I try to talk to him so that he can grow up a little, he just rolls his eyes. Also, he has an uncontrollable temper. He punches my best guy friend in the balls, he started hitting my dad in the gut, and hes punched me in the arm a couple times (luckily we all know how to deal with him so he doesn't know how to hurt us more like little bruises). And whats weird is that when he's not in this funk, he can be a really cool kid. And I have no idea what to do about him
2006-12-17 10:23:15 · 9 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You parents need to get him help with Anger Management. If they are unable to get him help then he needs to be arrested for assaulting your Friend, mother brother father or yourself.
I know that sounds harsh but sometimes tough love is needed to save someone from prison when they get older and really hurt someone when their anger gets out of control.
If he is hitting people in the balls with the intention of really hurting them then it is beyond a cry for help it is much worse. They are violent and need to be reined in before it is to late.
Print out this answer and others and give the information to your parents. They need to know who worried you are about his behavior and they need to get him help NOW before it is to late to help him.
I hope you can get them to wake up and find him some help before they only see him on visiting days in prison, or on a slab in a morgue because he hit the wrong prison and ended up being shot.
Peace, and good luck
2006-12-17 15:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kdude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 10:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been "bad for about 4 yrs" you say? What happened 4 years ago? Was there some trauma or event that he could be so angry about?
Sounds like this young man should be seeing someone he can talk things over with. Counseling couldn't hurt.
2006-12-17 10:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your brother has medical or mental problems. Your parents need to let his doctor know how he is acting out. He could be bi-polar and need some kind of medication. Or possibly he just needs some good counseling/psychiatric help. If nothing else, maybe a visit from a Nanny on the Fox channel wouldn't hurt.
2006-12-17 10:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by p_carroll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's been "bad for about 4 yrs" you say? What happened 4 years ago? Was there some trauma or event that he could be so angry about?
Sounds like this young man should be seeing someone he can talk things over with. Counseling couldn't hurt.
2006-12-17 10:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Elt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first what friends is he hanging around (trust me when i was his age my friend was goin through the same thing because of his friends), Second, if he is the middle child or youngest it also has something to do with it. Third tell your parents to talk to him because my brother had also the same problem and now he learned his lesson and hes fine. Thats what i did and if all fails then keep an eye out for some problems like drinking,drugs.
P.S. it can just be because he thinks he is an adult and wants to be treated like one
2006-12-17 10:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like hes "acting out".Something inside is tearing him up ,and he doesn't know how to deal with it.Did you have a family drama 4 years ago?Like did his grandparent die or make a big move?Some kids have a hard time with expressing themselves,so they hold it all in and when it comes to a head this is how it comes out.I suggest getting counseling since no one else can get through to him Don't wait ,do it now.Good luck.
2006-12-17 11:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can only confirm to you what you already know. Anger is always a cry for help. He will grow very quickly into a very self accertive and strong man, he will certainly be very successful and you will all look back and have a great old laugh thinking look at him now. Best wishes.
2006-12-17 10:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bacistocaz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at the book "Before It's Too Late" by Samenow. Sounds like it was written for your family.
2006-12-17 12:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋