mother is letting 18 yr old boyfriend of her 14 yr old daughter live with them and sleep in the same bed as the daughter, I think its very wrong and am very discussed by it . what do you think?
2006-12-16 16:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh dear
what sort of mother would let this go on under her roof
l don't know what to say,l'm lost for words.
2006-12-16 21:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by dean f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a 17 year old will be an 18 year old very soon, and will be considered a full adult under the law. And really, I would say that at 17 I would have done my best to instill my values and life lessons in her for a very long time and if she hadn't gotten it by then she isn't going to. So I would be rather foolish, I think, to try to prevent her from making her own decision to live with him. It would more than likely only create a wedge between us, or deepen it if one was already there, and set the stage for a very bad scene. So I would simply let her know that I didn't think it was a good idea, but let her make her own mind up even if I didn't like it. I have a 13 year old daughter, btw.
2016-05-23 01:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some families have family values and others don't. Some parents think by letting their kids have sex in the home and drink beer and smoke dope is better in the home then somewhere else.
I know I mom who took her daughter to get on the pill at age 14.
Its wrong that this is happening. And that 18 yr old could be arrested for having sex with an under age girl.
2006-12-16 16:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the mother doesn't care about her daughter...doesnt' care if she has to help raise a grandchild. Asking for trouble. The 18 year old should be on his own with his own home and car and job. Shame on her for allowing and encouraging this. She's contributing to the stumblingblocks in her daughters life.
2006-12-16 16:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by sheepinarowboat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that shouldnt be allowed, my sousin got pregnet becuz her mom was like that. my cousin hade a child at 13 and is 18 and has 3 kids and is going to marry a 30 year old man
2006-12-16 16:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as much as you are unhappy about it you are really not in a position to say anything. Unless someone in that house has ask you for your oppinion.
Are these boys your sons.? Or are you children going over there.?
The most you can is stay away from the house you are not comfortable with.
2006-12-16 17:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is disgusting and terrible parenting. Adults should NOT be sharing a bed with a minor that he/she is not related to.
I'm 18 and my parents don't even want me to date let along bring a guy home and sleep with him.
2006-12-16 16:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That’s not right at all. Both mother and boyfriends should be thrown in jail. You should contact child protection
2006-12-16 17:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's right at all, the guys 18?, Thats a 14 year ol "little girl" he's with!
just doesnt seem right to me.
2006-12-16 16:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by HEYGUY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's illegal in most states. Call family services. That's crazy!
Does Mom check to make sure b/f uses a condom ? How sick!
2006-12-16 16:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Susan M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋