Family - December 2006

I have not been the same since my mother passed away in May. I have cancelled all holidays, and not have been able to celebrate them at all,. My mother was my bestfriend, and she died on my sons birthday; while I was out celebrating with him. I would like to know if you think that I am being unfair to my children, and or myself. I feel so guilty about being at the Cav's game when she passed away.

2006-12-16 16:25:21 · 13 answers · asked by Meko 2

i am 13. He says i only have 2 months to live. I am so scared. I wanted to be a mother and have a family someday and fall in love with the right person. My dream was to be a veterinarian. My parents are still shooken up. I need comfort.

2006-12-16 15:40:26 · 11 answers · asked by cracker_sandies07 1

I am at the point with my boyfriend that I want to freaking just run away. I have already called off the wedding plans and I now I told him that I was going trying to work things out. Problem is that I work 2 jobs and he works one that doesnt even give 40 hours a week. He doesnt clean, yes he watches my son occasionaly when my son's I am at work (1 every 3 or 4 weeks), but he doesnt help with bills very much, he pays his car payment and occasionally puts groceries in the house anyways I told him that I had enough and he started crying and saying he was going to help out well needless to say he hasnt.

2006-12-16 15:18:10 · 9 answers · asked by kort 2

He has two babies and me of course and no matter what i tell him i know he misses home i just want him home with his family its the first christmas away from each other what do i do?

2006-12-16 15:13:47 · 18 answers · asked by Lil Mommi 2

My daughter has graduated and my three strong willed sons remain in my care to be raised up in the ways they should go (16,11,9). Things seem more tough with them than ever as they each strive to find and proclaim their identities.

I've been divorced since Jan. '03. We'd sold the house and he agreed to let me use the profit to buy a repossessed mobile home in order to afford living. Going from the huge house to this was a huge adjustment, but we're still here. This much is 'fine' but the problem is child support was enough to keep food in the cupboards and the lot rent only. I've had to work to pay other bills and all else. It's been tough finding employment where I can raise enough $ plus be here for them in the a.m. before school, after school, and summer. Finding or affording childcare is a joke. So, I've been through various positions, the last being awesome as a photographer going into daycares throughout western Pa taking children's pictures. But leaving at 4 to 6 a.m....

2006-12-16 15:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by Red Birds 2

hehehe so i fell asleep in health class so i mised this part..

so i asked my unrelated brother and he told me:

that when a mommy and a daddy fall in "love" they disobey their parents and run away to vegas then come back home and in a couple of weeks and the mommy is fat. the parents yell at the mommy because she was cheating on her diet and she has no self controle. and them they hate the daddy because he incouraged her to do all of this. so the dad runs away and never comes backt.hen the mommy starts to cry[[alot]]and makes everyone miserable for a couple of mounths. then she starts to cheat on her diet more and more by eating wierd food combinations. and her so after she is the size of a house she has to go to the docter to get lipocuction. so after this procedure, all of the wierd food combinations turned into a baby and she has to poop it out..
and then he closed by saying that only my family was like that..

WTF??

2006-12-16 15:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by dusty_bunny14 2

(I'm not an adult yet)

2006-12-16 15:09:55 · 18 answers · asked by 2 days after my B day :) 2

i am cluless i have an active child support for my older kid but now i have a new kid with another guyhes old but seems irresponsible what are the advantages of giving his 2 vehicles plate#
would it really help track him down than any information about him? he moved 100 miles away since i was pregnant

2006-12-16 15:08:03 · 4 answers · asked by simply me 1

My husband and I got married on July 19,2006. A week later, his 22 year old daughter moves in because she has nowhere else to go. Mind you, this is a new home that I am not used to myself. We bought the house in March 2006. I felt like she was intruding but I was willing to let her come and stay b/c she'd just had a new baby. We gave her a deadline of January around the time that she gets her taxes to save some money and move out. Since the months that she's been there with us every obligation, every irresponsiblility such as old tickets, fines and suspended license, taking care of other people, loaning people money (her mom in particular) has got me up in a ball. She whines so much about everything being so hard since she has noone to help her with the baby since her baby daddy stepped out on her. I had no idea it would be like this. My husband constantly makes excuses for her saying that she doesn't know things and that I have to tell her. I want it to stop and for her to move out.

2006-12-16 15:06:43 · 4 answers · asked by jack0120032004 3

December 28th last year we won £48,186 on the lottery, the middle of January my 14 yr old took an overdose and nearly died cos of bullies, the following week my 16 yr old got kidnapped and beat up for 2 days,We then got results of 14 yr olds mri scan as she has suffered with back for 2 yrs she has spondulosis in spine. In Febuary we bought a caravan March and April were ok. May my step daughter was beat up by partner and came to live with us. June,July and August were ok September 15 yr old daughter(one who overdosed at 14) got perforated appendix and was V ill. Then found out my dad has cancer.October nephews baby died and 15 yr old broke her arm.Step daughter decided i wasn't babys grandma anymore even though i'd been there from birth and done everything i could for them. She'd moved out by now. November found out 17 yr old(the one who was 16) is pregnant. She split from the dad and step daughter is having another. They're both due in July.

2006-12-16 15:02:02 · 9 answers · asked by sundancer332003 4

Pain etches through my body, a dark evil spreading through. I want to scream and cry, yell and weep,
but I can’t, I have to be strong for the rest of them, I lost my last grandpa not long ago and I am slowly
losing this one two, then only one grand parent will be left, my world collapses one support at a time.
Why is it so hard? This winding road our feet travel? My heart trembles with sorrow, my soul screams,
help me someone, save me from this hell, I just want my life back, how it all used to be. My mommy
cries my daddy is quiet, my sister plays as if nothing is wrong. Can’t they see the pain twisting around
me, suffocating me with feelings of hate and sorrow. I don’t know how long I can take this. This pain
that eats me piece by piece. I want to cry, scream and yell, how can I make this pain leave me be!? Is
sleep the only escape our will death be my savior? I have no clue what to do, my life is almost gone.
My grandpa was just announced to carry the disease called cancer. I weep inside, my soul screaming
with sorrow and pain. Maybe one day, somewhere far, I will have 2 grandpas 2 grandmas my mom
and dad, my happy sister, and our dog named baby I love so. Maybe in a world far away everything
will be perfect then. The urge for suicide creeps into me, Maybe it will steal me of my sorrow, but I
know death is not the answer, so I’ll sit her on god’s playing field and watch my family slip away into
the jaws of the monster of time...

2006-12-16 14:56:58 · 10 answers · asked by Midnight-Star 1

ok so i just got some really bad news and im sad bc now i can't go see my brother in law cuz it close to the end of the month and i have to pay rent with is 700 and i really want to see him and im not sure what to do,

2006-12-16 14:55:19 · 19 answers · asked by hotbubbles_21 1

2006-12-16 14:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by kait 1

2006-12-16 14:35:18 · 8 answers · asked by Rory A 1

Me and my mom fight like 3 times a day. I hate it and it never used to be this way. I try to see things from her piont of view, but grrr she drives me crazy!!! i cant help it. i love her with all my heart! help!!

2006-12-16 14:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi there everyone. I was just wondering if anyone had a real creative and thoughtful idea for a birthday present for my brother who will be turning 22 in a couple of days. He always buys me really nice things especially for those big birthdays like when I turned 16. I feel so bad because I don't know what to get him. He's so hard to shop for, and boys..are just hard to shop for in general :p I'd appreciate any ideas :D Thanks a lot everyone!

2006-12-16 14:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 14:12:12 · 6 answers · asked by importedimmigrant 1

About 10 or so weeks ago I said something so mean to my father about him being a *** and that I don't wan't him talking to my best friend. (I was on the phone with her when he started yelling about something)
I was so mad at him I couldn't help. It just came out, and now my best friend is upset with me about it. :'(
I guess I said it 'cause I love him and I don't wan't people thinkin' he can act like a *** at times.
But now he wan't say a word about my bf or even talk to her.
He liked her but now, just...
I've tryed to say I'm sorry, but he doesn't listen or acts' like a child. My mum says to just let it go...but...
I'm at the end of my road, I need help. What do I do?

2006-12-16 14:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by †Triptych† 2

2006-12-16 13:50:55 · 6 answers · asked by smitty_tibbs 1

She was in these victoria's secret little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other.
I think they may have b/c his hand is on her in a way that is not "normal".
Should I go in there and be like" you may want to put on some more clothes, b/c you father is almost home"??
Should I wake him and tell him he should take her home?? Or should she stay and be a part of the discussion??
Will she be all upset b/c this wasn't what she wanted to happen and embarassed cuz she is paractically naked?? Will he be mad or worried about how my husband and I will react??
Should I quietly wake my son and tell him to wake his g/f or just wake them both at once by freaking them out??
they are both 16

2006-12-16 13:43:08 · 14 answers · asked by Sakura 1

She was in these victoria's secret little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other.
I think they may have b/c his hand is on her in a way that is not "normal".
Should I go in there and be like" you may want to put on some more clothes, b/c you father is almost home"??
Should I wake him and tell him he should take her home?? Or should she stay and be a part of the discussion??
Will she be all upset b/c this wasn't what she wanted to happen and embarassed cuz she is paractically naked?? Will he be mad or worried about how my husband and I will react??
Should I quietly wake my son and tell him to wake his g/f or just wake them both at once by freaking them out??

2006-12-16 13:27:24 · 22 answers · asked by Sakura 1

ok my mom has custody of me ever since my parents got divorced and all I do with my mom is argue with her, everyday. I have no affectionate emotions towards her.. I dislike her. I know she feels the same way. I don't even call her my mom. i just call her some witch or a crazy lady I have to live with. I was thinking of getting emacipated. for about 3 months. I didn't want to go through therapy because she'll complain about the money. Everytime I talk to her she always yells at me and I don't want to hear it so I yell back at her. What do I do?

2006-12-16 13:18:14 · 12 answers · asked by Flo 1

2006-12-16 13:07:04 · 7 answers · asked by GrlonWheels 1

Hi! I'm 13 and my parents are sort of "argueing" right now. Their fights/arguments are strange because if they dissagree or start rasing their voices, they just won't talk to each other for a while. They try to avoid each other as much as possible. My parents have argued like this many times, and have gotten into some pretty bad arguements, and it's a miracle they stayed together after some of them. But, it's depressing, uncomfortable, and Christmas is coming up. They both listen to me but never really take what I say seriously. Anyways, is there anything I can do to maybe help out or prevent it? And if they do split up, what should I do to make the hit less painful?

Thanks in advance!

2006-12-16 13:01:58 · 19 answers · asked by JC 2

2006-12-16 12:59:48 · 8 answers · asked by luvinmjc 3

I live with my fiance' and my daughter. Whenever I ask my mom for financial help she does what she can with no problem. If she can't help at that moment she will ask my dad who always says no and his first response is you need to move back home because you wouldn't have to worry about money then.
I do not get along with my dad whatsoever and never have. My mom tries to override anything I tell my daughter to do so that wouldn't work either.
I've been with my fiance' 6yrs and have lived with him for 4yrs. We are doing the best we can do right now and I don't want to leave him. I don't want my daughter to live apart from her dad. What should I do? Feel free to go into depth.

2006-12-16 12:57:55 · 10 answers · asked by iLuVMyFaMiLy:) 2

snob family members

2006-12-16 12:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by hallowsevenight 2

to get ur father's attention
cause he's always ignoring me
and i realy want him to notice me when i do things that r good and bad.
i do bad things to get his attention but he doesn't care
if i do good things it still won't matter to him
so u guys can u plz tell me what to do?????

thankz in advance.

2006-12-16 12:29:32 · 5 answers · asked by Hally berry 3

i need to no wat to get my father..

2006-12-16 12:19:46 · 5 answers · asked by 2cute4you 1

my husbend's birthday coming soon, he has almost everything beside me :). so any cute idea. Thanks

2006-12-16 12:14:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous