My husband and I got married on July 19,2006. A week later, his 22 year old daughter moves in because she has nowhere else to go. Mind you, this is a new home that I am not used to myself. We bought the house in March 2006. I felt like she was intruding but I was willing to let her come and stay b/c she'd just had a new baby. We gave her a deadline of January around the time that she gets her taxes to save some money and move out. Since the months that she's been there with us every obligation, every irresponsiblility such as old tickets, fines and suspended license, taking care of other people, loaning people money (her mom in particular) has got me up in a ball. She whines so much about everything being so hard since she has noone to help her with the baby since her baby daddy stepped out on her. I had no idea it would be like this. My husband constantly makes excuses for her saying that she doesn't know things and that I have to tell her. I want it to stop and for her to move out.
2006-12-16 15:06:43 · 4 answers · asked by jack0120032004 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you're in the condition to do so financailly, set her up in an apartment or a mobile home or something, and let her take care of herself and her baby from there. How is your social services in your state? That may be another option for her. Have you tried helping her find out about options avaiable to her? That may be a good "bonding project" for the two of you.
2006-12-16 15:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its no ones fault that she got pregnant, no ones fault that she wasnt smart enough not to get pregnant. it was her mistake to mess around and get pregnant. dont let the guilt trip get to you, the baby is supposed to come first, if she cant take care of the baby and the baby be first in her life, you cant make someone a good parent but you can advice her to give the baby up for adoption, then she can get out and do what she wants.
have her go sign up on welfare they will provide a lot to single mother with a child. place to live, food, and education in parenting. there is such a thing as helping someone then there
is just bs'ing and free loading. if i had a kid i wouldnt be getting tickets and such instead of saving that money to buy for the baby.
some see that baby as "my" free ride, please dont get taken in.
good luck
2006-12-16 23:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by sharma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact Planned Parenthood . They are Listed with Directory Assistance. They can Intervene on your Behalf.
2006-12-16 23:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by taylorparton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see lisa @ yahoo answers
2006-12-16 23:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋