to get ur father's attention
cause he's always ignoring me
and i realy want him to notice me when i do things that r good and bad.
i do bad things to get his attention but he doesn't care
if i do good things it still won't matter to him
so u guys can u plz tell me what to do?????
thankz in advance.
2006-12-16 12:29:32 · 5 answers · asked by Hally berry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The problem is your father not you. He must be in his own little world too much on his mind. Maybe ask him to do things with you, get together, talk to each other. Ask him if there's anything bothering him.
2006-12-16 12:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about this... Dads can get so caught up in the raising of children that they forget they are people too... It's strange but you are so concerned with them doing the right thing that you tend to focus on the not good things... The reason for this is they are responsible for fixing the not good things, so that's where they focus.. The good things don't need fixing so they don't pay that much attention to them... We should however.... Some of us have observed this and made corrections.. others have not yet..
It's way o.k. for you to share this with him and help him become aware that you are a person as well as his kid.
- good luck
2006-12-16 12:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him think he is the best dad around. Give him lots of attention, act interested in the same things he is interested in. Your age has alot to do with his actions.
2006-12-16 12:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him.
2006-12-16 12:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to your mom so she can talk to him
2006-12-16 12:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by pinkballerina101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋