About 10 or so weeks ago I said something so mean to my father about him being a *** and that I don't wan't him talking to my best friend. (I was on the phone with her when he started yelling about something)
I was so mad at him I couldn't help. It just came out, and now my best friend is upset with me about it. :'(
I guess I said it 'cause I love him and I don't wan't people thinkin' he can act like a *** at times.
But now he wan't say a word about my bf or even talk to her.
He liked her but now, just...
I've tryed to say I'm sorry, but he doesn't listen or acts' like a child. My mum says to just let it go...but...
I'm at the end of my road, I need help. What do I do?
2006-12-16 14:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by †Triptych† 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
One of lifes little lessons....always engage brain before putting mouth in gear.
2006-12-16 14:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to your dad whether he's listening to you or not, just say this, "I know that I was out of place for yelling at you because you're a great dad. This has gone on long enough and I want to be your little girl again. Please forgive me, dad. I just want a little respect because I'm growing up now and needs a little privacy. I just want you to knock on my door when you have something to tell me and I'll take care of it. You can talk to my best friend because she likes you just like you like her."
You can say something similar to this and set limits with him and once you've cleared the air with him call your friend and reunite your friendship.
2006-12-16 22:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its good to stand up for urself, but he is ur father. so write him a letter or buy him a card apologiesing to him since he isnt talkig about the situation, and leave it with ur mom for him. because if u give it to him direct he may not take it ok. good luck and God be wit u.
p.s. never give ur parents mouth, try to avoid arguments and yelling at hem.
2006-12-16 22:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by sweetbahama mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he won't sit to talk to you, Write him a letter of apology that he will cherish always.
2006-12-16 22:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋