ok my mom has custody of me ever since my parents got divorced and all I do with my mom is argue with her, everyday. I have no affectionate emotions towards her.. I dislike her. I know she feels the same way. I don't even call her my mom. i just call her some witch or a crazy lady I have to live with. I was thinking of getting emacipated. for about 3 months. I didn't want to go through therapy because she'll complain about the money. Everytime I talk to her she always yells at me and I don't want to hear it so I yell back at her. What do I do?
2006-12-16 13:18:14 · 12 answers · asked by Flo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
by the way i am 16
2006-12-16 13:27:00 · update #1
everytime i talk to my dad he doesnt really know what to say because he is so caught up with work and sometimes he doesnt listen to me so i stop trying to talk to my dad.
2006-12-16 13:29:02 · update #2
ok...mr. man? do u do anything besides surf about.com!? ok, i think that depending on your age you can get and should get out of the situation!
2006-12-16 13:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by azific 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad knows what to say but he's smart. Keeps his mouth shut, he don't want you either. You sound like a very ungrateful person. Your Mother gave you life. How would you like to live with someone like you ? How are you doing for real friendships ? Do they like you for the sweet, cheerful, positive person you are.?Why don't you try to change the way you are for the better and watch the things in your life do the same. The attitude you put out there will return to you. Our Heavenly Father will help you with that. Life is truly short, make the most of it. You can change, I did and I thank God that when my Mother died, we could not have been closer. I wish I could have solved all of life's problem's when I was 13 and knew it all. ha ha Good luck to you. Cheer Up !!! Be Happy
Merry Christmas to you and Happy New Year too. ~~
2006-12-16 22:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop yelling back. you may be more like your mom than you care to realize. if you know she is so bad towards you, don't compound the situation by reacting to the way she is treating you. if you tried talking with her and it doesn't work, try to keep your distance. don't make matters worst - your yelling isn't solving anthing. i say retreat to your room, make your room your haven - but don't let it depress you. bring things into your own world that make you happy - things like music, reading, tv, video games and just avoid bad situations with her. you'll be of age in no time and out on your own. be wise and good to yourself, don't let her habits run off on you and when you get out on your own make sure you do the things that bring you and other people happiness. good luck.
2006-12-16 21:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...if you are calling your mother (THE WOMAN WHO GAVE YOU LIFE...LIKE IT OR NOT) "a witch or crazy lady", you are showing her no respect. If you were my child and said those things to me, you would be picking up your teeth off the floor. You need to listen to her and do as she asks without argument. And when you are old enough to take care of yourself, leave and then you will be able to do as you please.
2006-12-16 21:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your counselor at school or someone at your church
i dont know how long your parents have been devorced but it takes time but you need to find someone to talk to you can trust and feel comfortable talking to maby a aunt or grandmother
good luck
2006-12-16 21:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by hardwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to not yell back and like lower youre voice or talk to her about it and ask y she does this. dont call her names she is ur mother weather u liek it or not
2006-12-16 21:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to your dad and maybe he can help i am not sure how old you are but hopefully your dad will help you out good luck
2006-12-16 21:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you go the website www.thesecret.tv. I could change both your lives. It did mine
2006-12-16 21:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by auhunter04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to leave . and get out of the house. i am 15 and i have almost the same problem. tell her your moving out and to hell what she says.
2006-12-16 21:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think counseling would be the only answer.
2006-12-16 21:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋