She was in these victoria's secret little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other.
I think they may have b/c his hand is on her in a way that is not "normal".
Should I go in there and be like" you may want to put on some more clothes, b/c you father is almost home"??
Should I wake him and tell him he should take her home?? Or should she stay and be a part of the discussion??
Will she be all upset b/c this wasn't what she wanted to happen and embarassed cuz she is paractically naked?? Will he be mad or worried about how my husband and I will react??
Should I quietly wake my son and tell him to wake his g/f or just wake them both at once by freaking them out??
they are both 16
2006-12-16 13:43:08 · 14 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am pretty sure they used protection cuz her gymnastics coach makes her take the pill because then she never misses practice.
2006-12-16 13:48:14 · update #1
ok listen, would u rather have him do it at his house or one of his friends houses and have their parents walk in on him? he is 16, its natural. just talk to him about the appropriat times. dont freak out cus if u do he will get mad @ u.
2006-12-16 13:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by dark goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wake them both up and take her home and tell her never to come back to my home . What did you mean the coach makes her take the pill so she never misses practice? I do not understand that. As far as your son goes I would have his father talk to him. maybe it is time for dad to start taking more of a role in his sons life . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-16 22:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't personally say for a fact on what you should do, but my opinion would be to quietly wake him up and talk to him later. If you start out by telling them to get up, get dressed and for her to go home, your son may get quite mad and refuse to even talk about the situation. Then it'd be quite hard to talk to him later and get a more appropriate response from him and work things out. (If I made any sense, but basically: don't scare them at once, just wake him up quietly, etc...)
2006-12-16 21:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kayt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a mother of 4 I would wake them up and question why you found them in such a situation ! they only are 16. yes she will be embarrassed but shes in your home and who knows how many other times you havent caught them! have a heart to heart with your son about teenage pregnancy,and about unprotected sex .i know teenager boys are curious and hormones are raging but this is your house.i wouldnt allow her over unless an adult is at home. obviously they cant be trusted alone.
2006-12-16 21:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by kimberly m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the Mother, He's the son. Is this the kind of Behavior you want in your house? If not then you better nip it in the bud now and show in no uncertain terms that this sort of thing wont fly in your house. Don't worry about his feelings, or her Feelings. If you let this slide don't be surprised if he knocks her up latter.
2006-12-16 21:47:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dustin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be a grandmother? Sit them down and have a frank discussion about this. Do you know her parents? You may, and this will be hard for you to do call her mother up and talk to her about this.
2006-12-16 22:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess you can say they are at that age but i would wake them up and let them know there are boundaries at your home and they need to respect your home and talk to your son and make sure he is being safe
2006-12-16 21:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you guys quit already? This is the 5th or more time I've seen this question. You know the answer. They were engaged in sexual activity that was inappropriate. Now drop it!
2006-12-16 21:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait your child up and tell your son to take her home.Then have a dissusion about having sex at a young age.
2006-12-16 21:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Tsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would ground him. Your reaction should, of course depend on your values. He's a minor, it's your house, you have the right to enforce your vaues.
2006-12-17 18:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋