hey guys??????

Question

okey look i m haveing a serious prob
and that is my father and me we hardley get along and i really want to get along with him
i want his attnetion and i have tried to do things that he likes with him but we still don't get along
and sometimes i hate his guts 4 that cause i do soooo much just 4 him and he doesn't notice it.
i thought that maybe cause of marks he doesn't get along with me
but even after getting good marks he still ignores me.
what do i do guys i really want him to love me.
i m 17 yrs old and carving 4 his love and he doesn't understand and mom knows about it tooo.
and he is my real father.
what do u guys think about this caring 4 his love and affiction ?????/
is it to much that i m asking 4 or what.
plz answer this with sencerity because i m really getting hurt inside and i really want his love it hurts soo much that he doesn't care and love me the way i love and care 4 him.

thankz in advance!!!!!!

Answer 1

Hey first of try to relax ok.. I can understand how much it hurts u but, don't mistake ur dad ok.. May be he's kind of busy with his works. U must not mistake ur father. U must try to understand him. After all he's working hard just for u. Remember this dear, No parent would want their child to be sad. Whether ur father tells u or not, Ur father loves u so much. OK! Just try to avoid the things which he does not like be it roaming around with friends whom he doesn't like or wearing dresses which he does not want u to wear etc. May be he's having some mental problems which u may not be able to understand or may be he's having some problem at work. So, please be patient and don't worry ok.. Ur dad will surely get back to u the way u want him very soon.
If at all u wanna share anything feel free to share with me my mailid is [e-mail] .If at all there's something i can do to u to make u feel better i'd definitely do it. Alrite! Relax, take care of urslef and continue to get good marks.
Goodluck!

Answer 2

tell him how you feel