Family - December 2006

how do I tell him I dont want it anymore?? btw the $1800 was vet bills because he cut his leg on glass and had to have surgery, but now he cant use his leg properly and needs to be watched almost 24 hrs a day!

2006-12-30 16:26:39 · 9 answers · asked by erin_marie360 2

my mom and i constantly fight about my weight and my dad just stands by and usually takes my moms side when we fight. ever since i can remember my mom has been on me about my weight and how i need to lose weight becasue im fat. i use to be okay with the way i look but now i cant pass by anything that shows my reflection without critisizing my self completely things wouldnt be so bad if my mom would appologize sometimes about the things that shes said to me. like on my birthday last year she walked into the bathroom and told me that i looked pregnant. i bursted out into tears and locked myself in the bathroom for a couple of hours she never said she wsa sorry and it still bothers me to this day ive confronted her about this but she stil has yet to appologize. i feel like the only thing left to do is develop an eating disorder and lose a whole lot of weight fast so shell stop picking me what should i do???

2006-12-30 16:13:11 · 15 answers · asked by brunettebeauty13 1

i lost all my momas trust a while back, i need it back, HOW??

2006-12-30 15:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by S. Banana 1

I sacrificed a great career to stay home and raise my kids so that they wouldn't be daycare kids as I was. I absolutely hated it growing up and didn't want that for my own children. They are disrepectful, disobedient, hateful, little monsters most of the time. They are NOT spoiled. They ARE punished and they just don't seem to care. I have tried throwing their toys away to which they will say "go ahead, I don't care." One of them even told me, "when you get through down here you can go throw all the toys in my room away too." I am seriously at my wit's end with them.

On other fronts I am not in control of my eating. I had lost a lot of weight and was starting to feel good but now I just can't even find it within me to care. I don't work out anymore. I rarely sleep. I will go all day long and not eat and then eat a massive meal at night. I know what to do I just don't do it. I don't feel in control.

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2006-12-30 15:11:49 · 16 answers · asked by I Give Up 1

2006-12-30 15:04:11 · 10 answers · asked by Sam 1

I worry so much about my family. For instance i am dead set about going with my father to his next dr. appointment because he has lost so much weight from diabetes and he wasn't like this before i guess it happened when my grandmother fell ill. Secondly my mom has lost so much weight to from rheumatoid arthritis i mean she has lost for 4 dress sizes. I beg her to go to therapy,but she is scared. Third, since my grandmother has gotten better i still am protective over her. I can't help it.

2006-12-30 15:03:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so at Christmas I bought my sister in law a really nice Betty Crocker cookbook because I know she likes to cook, but I think she took offense to it like she now thinks that i think she is a bad cook but I did not mean it like that at all. But now I feel bad that I hurt her feelings. What should I do?

2006-12-30 15:01:56 · 16 answers · asked by Crystal 4

2006-12-30 14:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by terra 4

guy#1 was a compulsive gambler that would spend 5-10k a weekend at a casino.our 1st weekend away consisted of me sitting in a hotel room alone.the only time i saw him was when he ran out of money and wanted my c.c.guy#2 was a 40yr old alcoholic drug user that spent his whole pay check partying with his friends.my weekends with him was spent with his loser friends watching him get drunk.now guy #3 was the worst yet.he was a divorced dad in debt 30k with a controlling exwife who lived to make my life hell.to top it off he was a chronic lier/cheater who was always sneaking around on the internet and contacting old gfs. after i told him i would not pay off his debt things got sower fast.he told me i could not handle him being a divorced dad.what i could not handle was him after my money and him allowing his ex to treat me poorly and not even care.i feel now "i missed the boat" in my wanting to wait to get married(i'm 35 yrs),now all the good ones are married and will stay married.

2006-12-30 14:51:06 · 14 answers · asked by heatheranne7668 1

HE is never home and doesnt want us to day any thing!!! he makes soccer the only thing that i could do!! I caant take it b//c he shouldnt tell my sisters and i when he is not even there half the time!!! plz help wit some advice!! i tried telling him a lot so far!

2006-12-30 14:45:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate him so much hes an A hole....He is also 5 years younger then my mom and he does not have kids i hate him peeps please help

2006-12-30 14:42:45 · 11 answers · asked by stephie_petz 1

AND WHY?????

Thank you for answering. Happy holidays!

2006-12-30 14:39:12 · 13 answers · asked by terra 4

My older sister can be VERY embarrassing because of this, in public (movie theatres, especially!) and even with a small group of friends. Otherwise, she's a good person but I know she puts people off with this. What can I do to let her know without hurting her feelings or making her too self-conscious to enjoy herself?

2006-12-30 14:36:05 · 13 answers · asked by canuk_kait 2

In her home she only has pictures of her blood relatives. When pictures are being taken she excludes everyone but her children and her grandchildren. What do you think. This has been going on for as long as her first child was married about 35 years ago. Her house is filled with pictures of blood relatives but none of her inlaws what do you think? I know what I think.

2006-12-30 14:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by tinker bell 2

2006-12-30 14:34:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandmother is 81 and cannot live alone anymore. I am very close to her and love her to death, but she doesn't drive and is becoming more and more forgetful everday. Me and my husband are in the process of buying a new home and was thinking about getting a bigger house than originally talked about and asking my grandmother to live with us - my husband is supportive of whatever decision I make. I have 2 children, 7 and 2, who are also very close to my grandmother - she adores them.

I'm just worried about the effect it would have on kids if she got really sick or if she started forgetting who they were.

Does anyone have any experience with this? I would HATE to see my grandmother have to go into a nursing home, but I'm worried about taking care of her myself also. Any advice would be great.

I should also say that I drive her to all her doctors appointments and do all her shopping, etc. and the only other family nearby is an aunt whose husband is a horrible alcoholic.

2006-12-30 14:29:42 · 10 answers · asked by hotmomma 4

ok so i was at a party with my bf,and every thing was really good, so my older brother Ofunlo was going to pick me up from my bf's house.my bf's parents wernt home and we were kissing and i told him to stop(he was taking off his cloths) i told him i didnt wanna have sex, he wouldnt stop then he held me down and took off my cloths and then did what he wanted then he stoped because my brother called and said he was driving up his street, and i was so scared and i'm afraid to tell my brother( i live with him, my parents are dead) im 15 and my brother is 23 and my bf is 17, should i tell him and if i do how do i tell him, i dont know if he used a condom or not, and i was a virgin and i'm really scared because i know if my brother finds out he's gonna kill boy that and i'm afraid that i'm pregnant, he told me that if i ell any body he would do it again then kill me, im just really scared....please help me and i dont need the people who like to make people in situations like this to make....

2006-12-30 14:13:44 · 9 answers · asked by nashoba 1

He's six years old.
Im patient except when it comes to him.

2006-12-30 14:06:17 · 13 answers · asked by hottcheer128 1

I don't like her.

I've asked two other questions about this and everyone seems to think that I'm wrong for wanting her to go away. She's wrong for being here and he's wrong for letting her be here. We don't live together, but she still is a part of his life and shouldn't be.

2006-12-30 13:56:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wana run away from my house so ****** bad!!! my life is boring doing da same thing over and over!!! im not even geting da respect i need from my parents u know how ur parents sould talk 2 u about sex and **** like that well my parents havent!! and they never even talk about whit my sister which is 25!!! i cant talk 2 my mom about stuff like that which makes me sad cuz she my mom u no?? my sister has ran away and dont u exspect my parents 2 learn wat they did wrong form her???!!!

i cant go 2 da movies whit my friend or 2 da mall!!! whit out th3m being next 2 me da hole time!!! if one of my friends is ugly my mom well tell "dont b there friends" she would pick out my friends!!
they wouldnt blive any thing ill say!! even if ill tell da truth they would take my cell away from me at night!! 4 i wont talk whit any 1

TELL WAT 2 DO!!!

2006-12-30 13:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by (: 1

He is so mean! He put dead fake mice in my bed, he put ceaser salad dressing in my conditioner bottle, and he threw all my panties and bras out the window. He is so annoying! How do I get hime back?

2006-12-30 13:53:34 · 10 answers · asked by LailaJustice14 1

my brother is not ok with this and not talking to her
how do you mend the fences with them

2006-12-30 13:46:19 · 61 answers · asked by maddcc 2

my daughter (16) has been going out with this guy (15) for about a year now, and both of his parents are not in his life. the only relative that is, is his brother (19). this kid is an exceptional person. he is on the honor roll, rides his bike or walks to work which is 5 miles away, he treats my daughter like a princess. his older brother on the other hand is not as good. he drinks, smokes pot and cigs., and god knows what else. my husband and i both care about him and worry about him. we try to do what we can but we are just not financially stable enough. my daughter just told me that their rent has not been paid for in 3 months and the house they live in is going into foreclosure. my daughter is afraid the state will take him, and i'm afraid because of his brothers unstable behavior. he gets a social security check for $350. a month and gives it to his brother to pay the rent. but, obviously that money has gone elsewhere. so what should i do? i can't help him financially.

2006-12-30 13:30:13 · 13 answers · asked by lidakamo 4

I am really worried I found out tonight--apparently God is saying terrible things to her--the person that told me would not ellaborate on exactly what he is saying to her but did tell me it was very scary--she is 38 years old married with five children--her husband goes to school every day --she home schools her children--what could I possably do??

2006-12-30 13:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by beaq 1

I don't want to know how to get along with her. I don't need advice on how to handle my dad's daughter with her and I don't need anyone to tell me that I"m wrong for hating her. I do need someone to tell me HOW DO I MAKE HER GO AWAY?!

2006-12-30 13:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-30 13:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by ohmygodtwins404 2

Don't MAKE me get up out of this chair!!!!!!!

2006-12-30 13:13:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well he has this gambling problem, and like he never gives me any alowance or anything! whenever i ask for $$$ he says i already have, and i dont! uhh i can NEVER shop with my friends because of this. oh and he thinks im a spoiled brat which im not! #1- i dont get anything i want, #2- i wear like the same clothes every 2 weeks, #3 uhhh i dont even want to say it

2006-12-30 13:11:02 · 6 answers · asked by ~love2talkk~ 1

2006-12-30 12:49:26 · 10 answers · asked by dimka718 2

I am 14 and i have this step brother named Ben...my mom doesnt like him very much...well, she does but she doesnt like him around me...well, Ben is 17 now and he said that i was cute..i never told my mom but one day she told me to stay away from him and done talk to him at all while i was at her house...just a couple of minutes later Ben's dad told him to stay away from me and dont talk to me while he was at the house...i asked Ben why did my mom and his dad do that, and he just told me that he knows why but it just wasnt his place to tell me..he told me to ask my mom but i never get a stright answer outta her...so can yall just help me alittle bit im getting kinda scared cuz of maybe something i did...plz tell me if yall have any answerz plz THX :)

2006-12-30 12:40:36 · 19 answers · asked by sweetie girl 2