I am 14 and i have this step brother named Ben...my mom doesnt like him very much...well, she does but she doesnt like him around me...well, Ben is 17 now and he said that i was cute..i never told my mom but one day she told me to stay away from him and done talk to him at all while i was at her house...just a couple of minutes later Ben's dad told him to stay away from me and dont talk to me while he was at the house...i asked Ben why did my mom and his dad do that, and he just told me that he knows why but it just wasnt his place to tell me..he told me to ask my mom but i never get a stright answer outta her...so can yall just help me alittle bit im getting kinda scared cuz of maybe something i did...plz tell me if yall have any answerz plz THX :)
2006-12-30 12:40:36 · 19 answers · asked by sweetie girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Trust your mom. It's nothing you did at all. Don't blame yourself.
2006-12-30 12:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Alexa K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not anything you did Sweety! You are 14 and he is 17. They dont want him getting too close to you because you may get the wrong ideas. You have alot to experience in your life yet. Him being 17 may get tempted. Ben is being smarter than most guys would be. They probably told Ben that even though he doesnt have bad intentions, you may get the wrong idea of why he is being friends with you.
2006-12-30 12:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's put it this way -
would your mom let you date a 17 year old right now?
My guess is no.
Trust your mom - she is protecting you from this boy who is only your 'brother' by marriage. He's too old for you - and things could get awkward if the two of you were home alone together.
p.s. It is not about any thing you might have done - I am sure!
2006-12-30 14:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by what's up? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably afraid that you like each other. Maybe Ben made a confession to his dad that he likes you and Ben told his dad and his dad told you mom and....that's why Ben knows and you don't. It's a possible theory.
2006-12-30 12:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is in all possibility having a foul day, if she is like this consistently in line with possibility you ought to attempt helping her out some around the domicile you be attentive to do a load of cloths and fold them,sweep the floor,vacume or airborne dirt and dust in simple terms take 10 min out of the day to do something useful she would be grateful i be attentive to im a mom and a spouse my youngsters are youthful so as that dont hardship me that they dont help out reason they cant yet my hubby is lazy i could like it if he could in simple terms pass do the dishes and sweep the floor and do a good job at it you be attentive to no longer 0.5 a*s! good success with your mom
2016-10-06 05:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer "Ben said I was cute" and you're concerned your parents think he may be a molester--but NOT based on this remark, just something else. Good of him to not address it with you. Tell your parents to give you the broad strokes of why that want this--so they are not forced to tel you details about something they clearly don't feel you're ready to know.
2006-12-30 12:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 through 17 year olds are highly hormonal, curious, and like to experiment, because you are still children with almost adult like bodies, they dont want you 2 to maybe do anything that you DEFINATELY WILL REGRET, later in life. By your comment about him saying you were cute, I think you already have an idea as to why though.
2006-12-30 12:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by shaquifa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably attracted to you or very aggressive with girls. They do not wan any sexual contact between the two of you. Or else, he could have been in some other kind of trouble which they do not want around you. They know what is best for you.
2006-12-30 12:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be wrong but it sounds like Ben may be homosexual. Just listen to your parents and as you get older I'm sure you will be given more information when they feel you are mature enough to understand and accept their answers.
2006-12-30 12:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mother of teens so believe me,it's nothing you did.There may be something in his past that they don't want you to know about or think you can't comprehend.Trust me when I tell you this,your parents are only doing this for your own good.It is their job to see that you are kept safe,anyway they can.You need to trust your parents.They know whats best for you at this age.So you need to do what they ask of you.TRUST
2006-12-30 12:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is afraid that Ben might take advantage of you or that you might start liking him. Since you are related it wouldn't be a smart thing to do.
2006-12-30 12:45:02 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋