Family - December 2006

my two year old grandson told my daughter last night i have anew mommy and i dont want to talk and hung the phone up.my son in law took them to the reservation and then took custody and we have been fighting this for almost three months. my five month old granddaughter cried at christmas eve because she doesnt know her mother and the father says its all my daughters fault. know hes in colo and his family is raising them while my daughter would gladly raise her children.can he give custody to his parents when they have a capable mother.sho raised them while he chased the almight dollar as he put it and then took them he had not spent but amybe a week with the baby and very little with the two year old.he knew if he took them to the reservation she would have no chance and that is proving true. his family helped him get them there by coming and asking if they could keep them for a week and then took custody and divorced her.neither was in the right why cant he be an adult and relize they

2006-12-30 12:28:52 · 2 answers · asked by furby_lost 5

Ok..basically the other woman is a complete cow, I hate her I(I've already made this fact completely clear to her). Anyway, i've told him I know, he knows his gf knows and he knows I know where this other woman lives, I could even get hold of her mobile number if I wanted to. I've already tried asking him to end it with her and actually caught him with her numerous times yet he still continues seeing her and denies it too - even when I see his car outside her place (it's not his car - what?). I've tried everything I know and being direct never works, he's beat me twice during arguments about her...and still sees her, even after that.
He's a compulsive liar and goes with anything, he cheated on my mom too, he's always done it...but I think he needs to stop thinking about where he can get his next lay and focus on leading one life rather than struggling to lead two.
When I say i've tried everything I mean everything lol. He doesn't seem to see how wrong what he is doing is.

2006-12-30 12:24:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

...the best way to tell your om u like boys???

2006-12-30 12:21:24 · 10 answers · asked by mmoore32995 2

2006-12-30 12:08:32 · 7 answers · asked by jessikat93 2

2006-12-30 11:54:03 · 6 answers · asked by Shivam 1

Ok, this is a long one. My mom was very disfunctional as i was growing up.. Left me and my sister to take care of our little brother and sister for weeks at a time. We lived in a small town so nothing ever happened even though we should have been taking away. I do not have a relationship with her. She has had several strokes, tried to commit suicide and now is in a nursing home for rehabilitation, however, she thinks she will be getting out and be living on her own. I dont think that should happen. She cannot take care of herself and none of her kids will take care of her. There is alot of past manipulation and meaness on her part towards us kids. My brother and sister did have contact with her and helped her for a while until she started the same ole stuff getting mad and saying her kids were dead and that she never wanted to see them again. Well, now they have cut all ties with her.. She is alone. Her brothers and sisters dont even have contact with her.. Are we wrong? What to do?

2006-12-30 11:52:34 · 10 answers · asked by luckygirl 2

My mom is being so mean to me. She said I was so ****** up it isn't even believable, said I am just like my ******* father, said all my friends are screwed up to, she has said she just wants me out of her life among others... Now she has made plans for New Years Eve with the rest of the family and I am stuck home alone? What is what up with that?

2006-12-30 11:41:29 · 14 answers · asked by Zach S 5

i reconnected with my old high school bf tim after my divorce.tim is everything my ex was not.tim treats me with respect,brags about me to everyone to the point its embarrassing.he allways tells me one liners like "i can't believe its you" "your my soal mate" and allways sends me cards,letters,gifts saying how much he loves me.his family tells me he talks about me all the time.when i ask what do u want to do he always says being with u is all i want so i'll do what ever u want.well one night after i left tim's house half way home i realized i forgot my purse and turned around to get it.when i pulled up i saw his neighbor sue going in his place.then the lights went out and i think u know the rest!i tryed calling his cell no answer.i asked him the next day about my call and he lied and said he went to bed and did not hear it.my bro is a PI and i had him check tim out.tim has been cheating on me with not 1 but 2 other people since we started dating 6 mons ago.when i leave they come over.

2006-12-30 11:40:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you ever feel like your missing something. Even though you may be loved by your current parents, and you appreciate what they've done for you greatly, do you ever feel bad about not knowing who and where you came from? Specifically if your from one race and adopted into another. Like if your a black guy raised by a white family, or vice-versa. Or Korean raised by a white family?

Do you have resentment towards your biological parents who put you up for adoption. Do you feel confused about who you are?

Do you mostly hang out with the race/culture that is your parents culture, but not yours? And if so, do you feel like you don't quite fit in?

Do you ever feel like you don't have much in common genetically with your current parents, and wonder what traits you have that your biological parents have, so you can learn more about yourself?

Or do you feel great, and possibly never questioned this. Or do you have no feelings about your situation at all?

Honest answers please

2006-12-30 11:36:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my grandmas church gave us money for rent this month, because my son has been sick preventing us from working... what should the thank you card say?

2006-12-30 11:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by tiffany 2

my grandfather is dying and me and him were very close. he suffers of the disease Alzheimers so he doesn't really communicate well. He is on Hospice and everybody knows he's been through a great deal. i love him very much and i don't know how i would be able to tell him goodbye, every night my mother says "it's tonight" meaning he will die tonight, and i leave without a word because i find myself too sad to say anything to him, and i can't figure out what to say. i would like peoples advice on what to say and how to act. if so, please help me.

2006-12-30 11:27:53 · 14 answers · asked by Caitlin E. 1

I've tried good grades and behaivour, but nothing is working, they said to wait till im 16, but I can't wait!!! Please help????? I want to gauge them up to at least a 8 gauge.

2006-12-30 11:23:54 · 7 answers · asked by We're in like sin! 3

I have a 14yr old daughter and she does not want to be with her dad. He always uses bad language toward her when he is mad at her & breaks things. She is scared of him and she says that if anyone makes her go back she will runaway. He last told me that he is going to take this to court, cause she is only 14 and has no say in this. Does anyone know what can happen? Has anyone been through anything like this before? I need some advise. Thank you!

2006-12-30 11:17:17 · 29 answers · asked by GODZgurl 1

2006-12-30 11:14:00 · 4 answers · asked by catbird 1

I have a small family. there is only me,mum,brother,mum's boyfriend,nan,grandad,uncle. The rest of the family we aren't really close to. Everytime we go to each others house i always feel akward. My Grandad always makes comments about something i'm wearing/hairstyle etc. Just a little dig everytime,, and this makes me feel awkward around my family. My Nan is ok,, but can be very naggy and i tend to be quiet around her because i don't want her to be moaning at me. My uncle make comments like earlier today he said i sshould take my coat back to the shop? Is it me or is that just mean?
Am i being over-sensitive, or do you think i should stick up for myself?
They only ever seem to do this to me. I am 15 years old. and would like to know if you have the same thing going on with your family? Any help on what i should do?
It may sound like a stupid question, but i really would apprciate some help. Thank you/

2006-12-30 10:59:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad wants me and my bro to go to his house tomorrow for new years. his neighbor is going to do a bbq and his wife's family is going to be there...do you think it would be mean if i told him that i don't want to go because i have other plans?? he's suppose to give me 150 for christmas tomorrow too.......

2006-12-30 10:36:30 · 20 answers · asked by <3 2

I'm 25 and recently had to move home (there was no other choice) for a couple months for a seasonal job. I get along great with my parents (most of the time), but they have a tendancy to treat me like I'm 15 which really gets on my nerves. Recently, things have felt a little strained around the house and I'm worried that some day soon, someone is going to lose it. I'll be moving away in three months, but I need some suggestions on how to keep the peace until then. Any ideas? (Serious answers only please).

2006-12-30 10:32:13 · 15 answers · asked by spyhopper 3

I am just really fed with my family saying I am always with my friends! But they are all home body's never want to go somewhere or do anything. My sister is 25 and I am 21, I just don't feel like I should have to stay home to satisfy her needs of staying at home all the time. She can't keep friends because she finds something negative in everyone and she don't go out unless I agree to go with her but how will she ever learn to stand on her own two feet? Am I wrong for feeling this way? For example we were suppose to go see Dream girl yesterday and my sister said wait until today. So today comes and she said she doesn't feel like going but if I go with one of my friends she will get mad! I don't understand! She was invited to one of her coworkers bday parties but then she wanted me to go...why can't she just go on her own and establish her own friendships? She older than me!

2006-12-30 10:32:02 · 5 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3

wrote a thankyou letter to santa thanking him for the gifts for xmas but the one that was at the top of her list was not fullfilled ( she wanted her father to visit and he never even called), i have thought about putting the letter through his door, would you?

2006-12-30 09:52:56 · 83 answers · asked by trouble 4

My brother hasn't contacted me for about 7 years. Last I heard he was in a caravan park in Queensland. He moves about Australia. I have searched on the net and white pages and cannot get a lead. His name is Wayne Dean Meredith with Date of Birth 9 June 1965.

What can I do next????

2006-12-30 09:39:09 · 7 answers · asked by curly 2

your ex walked back into your life after 11 years of no contact with your 11 year old daughter, after 1 month walked away, then 3 months later he comes back and then after two visits he is gone again, then his family say they want to keep contact with their niece/grandaughter but then never contact her, have never visited my house, I drop off and pick up for visits (8 in total this year) and have not even bothered to ring or send her a xmas card, what would you do, and my daughter is feeling very lonely as she now thinks i am am the only one who loves her now. I feel like screaming at them all but it will fall on deaf ears, they are all talk and no action,

2006-12-30 09:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by trouble 4

i am daniel j's wife and i disowned my dad back in may for ruining my brothers life, he is also pervy and thick, loud, brash and controlling while at the same time never admitting hes in the wrong - he thinks everything he does is right. my brother puts up with this as dad thinks by giving him what he wants my brother will think hes great - more of a friend then a dad. He did the same when i was a teenager but he couldnt control me - i had no respect for him since i was 18 til i disowned him @ just 22 years old - i am grieving for the dad i never had and never will have as he wont change.

2006-12-30 09:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by ? 5

My father passed away when I was 16, it was devestating to me and my family. I had dropped out of school the following year. I became extremely depressed and uninterested in school. My mother's kidneys had failed from diabetes and needed someone to be by her side because of her health, so I never returned to school, and I do not regret this decision. I saved her life countless times just because I was there. My brother and sister are drug addicts and are total losers. I'm 23 now and my mother has passed away. Our home had to be sold because none of us have jobs. My brother and sister got their share of the home sale. They will probably waste it away on drugs till they're on the street. I used the money to find a place to rent. So here I am without a highschool diploma, no driving experience (couldn't afford insurance), and no job, but some money from my home sale which will not last forever. I'm really scared, I don't really have anyone left in life. Please give me some encouragement.

2006-12-30 09:13:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-30 09:03:31 · 1 answers · asked by D 2

Im nearly 19 and meh mother gave me a DVD to watch - she said she didnt think I shud watch it....because theres sex in it and its bad for you.
Erm whats this mean im 19!?

2006-12-30 08:50:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Siblings have a duty beyond there own inate rationalisation of the obvious dilema!

2006-12-30 08:47:17 · 2 answers · asked by racer123 5

My 34 yr old brother wants to come stay with me again. He has no job, no money, Nothing. He has been a binge crack user for about 8 yrs and is always wanting to "get his life straight" and I have always been there. We have 2 kids and really no room for him or the extra money to keep him up til he does better and the last time he was here, he binged for no reason (stress's). When he binges, he just disappears for about a week without a word and won't answer his phone. Worries the family sick. Mom is fed up and no one wants him, because of his track record. Everytime we try to help, he relaps. However he is my only sibling and the younger and I feel torn between obligation to family and not tolerating him. HELP

2006-12-30 08:44:19 · 11 answers · asked by tonyer71 2

how many pairs of shoes do you have and do you really wear them all?

2006-12-30 08:31:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would swap place's with my father to find out what he is doing with his life

2006-12-30 08:25:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have the flu, I woke up throwing up, and I feel terrible. But my parents still make me do all these chores. I have to clean the yard, and bring in a bunch of boxes from the garage. I have to get on the roof and get all the leaves off, clean the pool, I have to fill the wood box with wood from a pile thats hard to get to and I have to drag it uphill, we don't even need a fire, it's not even cold, and I have to do a bunch of other stuff. And if I ask if they or at least my sister can help with something, my mom tells me not to give her attitude.

2006-12-30 08:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by wrathfulrevenant 3