I am just really fed with my family saying I am always with my friends! But they are all home body's never want to go somewhere or do anything. My sister is 25 and I am 21, I just don't feel like I should have to stay home to satisfy her needs of staying at home all the time. She can't keep friends because she finds something negative in everyone and she don't go out unless I agree to go with her but how will she ever learn to stand on her own two feet? Am I wrong for feeling this way? For example we were suppose to go see Dream girl yesterday and my sister said wait until today. So today comes and she said she doesn't feel like going but if I go with one of my friends she will get mad! I don't understand! She was invited to one of her coworkers bday parties but then she wanted me to go...why can't she just go on her own and establish her own friendships? She older than me!
2006-12-30 10:32:02 · 5 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your sister may have a problem with making her own friends. Or she is using this situation to have control over you, don't let her intimidate you and feel guilty about going about your own business and friendships.Have fun without her, and make a new years resolution to tell her I Love You ,but grow up and make your own friends.or at 25 find a husband she can control. Good luck and .happy new year
2006-12-30 11:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a possible reason for your sisters action might be because she cannot keep friends, and counts on you to be there for her because you're her sister. Maybe try talking to her. Try saying look i love spending time with you but i need to do my own things, and maybe make a schedule for her and say these are the days that i can hang out with you or something like that because it might just be that she is immature, and as family you have to put up with that, so don't get too stressed and just try talking to her in a way that she will understand.
2006-12-30 18:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by jeannn. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like she has a problem getting out of her comfort zone, and it seems you are a part of her comfort zone.
i say try getting her more out there and socializing with your friends and others. as for her problem of finding faults in others, that's just something that she'll have to learn to look past. the choice is all up to you if you want to help your sister or not. it will take some patients but i think you'll grow from the experience and have a stronger bond with each other.
2006-12-30 18:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by talofa lava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your sister says she will be mad at you for going somewhere without her, then you just have to tell her, that she will just have to be mad. Are you two still living with your parents? If so, I suggest to start looking for your own place.
2006-12-30 18:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like your sister is the one that has alot of growing up to do. don"t put your life on hold for anyone. life is too short.
2006-12-30 18:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by foxy_lady695 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋