i reconnected with my old high school bf tim after my divorce.tim is everything my ex was not.tim treats me with respect,brags about me to everyone to the point its embarrassing.he allways tells me one liners like "i can't believe its you" "your my soal mate" and allways sends me cards,letters,gifts saying how much he loves me.his family tells me he talks about me all the time.when i ask what do u want to do he always says being with u is all i want so i'll do what ever u want.well one night after i left tim's house half way home i realized i forgot my purse and turned around to get it.when i pulled up i saw his neighbor sue going in his place.then the lights went out and i think u know the rest!i tryed calling his cell no answer.i asked him the next day about my call and he lied and said he went to bed and did not hear it.my bro is a PI and i had him check tim out.tim has been cheating on me with not 1 but 2 other people since we started dating 6 mons ago.when i leave they come over.
2006-12-30 11:40:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
men can you tell me why tim would cheat on me when he seems so happy to be with me?
2006-12-30 11:41:11 · update #1
Tim's got 3 regular girls that apparently all 3 come over when he calls them. Why wouldn't he be happy all the time? Look, he's one of those guys who'se got to have lots of "activity" to reassure himself. Sounds like he's a real smooth operator but if you don't like that game he plays and you keep playing it with him thinking he will change....then you need a wake up call.
2006-12-30 11:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...wake up you are dreaming!! If the relationship was going so perfect he wouldn't be cheating! So apparently he isn't happy with you so move on! It isn't rocket science! the only "soul mate" you are is spelled SOLE -as in sole of a shoe- because he is walking all over your heart, dreams & hopes. You deserve better. kick him to the curb & move on! good luck
2006-12-30 13:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not worth the pain you need to let him go you deserve better then that i now it is hard to deal with but you need to leave him you will find the right man he will come when he is supposed let your heart lead you it wont lie to you
2007-01-01 06:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats when you (man or woman) have your defenses down thinking everything is great and for you maybe it is.People change over time and things become too mundane...boring and they long for the excitement that was there when everything was brand new.
2006-12-30 11:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by buffalo chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not the woman of his dreams, or he wouldn't cheat. You must not be giving him something he needs.
2006-12-30 11:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are pigs.........move on until you find one that isn't
2006-12-30 13:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋