Family - December 2006

for the past few months i been going through to much pain my mom and dad help and try but they dont help.so my mom called the docter the next day we went.i waited 2 hours to see her and she didn't help she didnt even try shd told me stuff that i allready knew im still mad at her and i lost all trust and respect for her.my mom and dad were upset that she didnt help worth ****.my pain is school and friends and getting my heart broken to much.so is there someone else where you go to get help? i hate my docter

2006-12-29 18:26:20 · 3 answers · asked by god_shadow5 1

My brother starts arguements and my mother fights for him and never lets me speak. She constantly tells him she loves him and she calls me a *****. She calls me selfish and spoiled. I never ask her for anything. I buy her expensive gifts and she never says thank you, or if she likes it. She hasn't hugged me or told me she loved me in so long I can't remember when the last time was. The only time she ever talks to me is to tell me to do something or to yell at me. I'm the only one out of her two children, and I try so hard to make her love me, but she still doesn't even respect me. She constantly accsues me of lying and doesn't believe a single thing I say. She even favors the cats over me. I'm sure most of you will think that I am exaggerating, but I can assure you that I'm not. I'm so afriad of talking to her, I don't want another fight, I don't want to hear her say those things to me. No one else in the house defends me either. All I ever hear her say is that I'm a total mistake and that she wishes that I never was born, why does she hate me so much, and what can I do for her to love me!? My dad isn't even alive, so I can't talk to him!! But that also means that I can't just ignore my mother!! And I have no realitives, I have asked this before, but I need an answer really bad, I have tried telling, and tried getting help, what are the other options? I don't want call a hotline, or the cops, I want a better way to fix this, but I just don't know what to do!!

2006-12-29 18:23:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This isn't really a question, I just want to know some of your comments on this. Thanks!
MOM- Won't let me get a job, go out with friends, drive alone, but lets my other 3 siblings (one is younger than me). Yet, I'm the one that gets all A's, never gets in trouble. She blames me all the time (this has made me a very mean person over the years) She is a hypocrite and favors the needy. Defends my older brother saying he can't work because he's bipolar but he admitted to me that he is lazy. Defends grandma all the time.
GRANDMA - my older druggie, bipolar bro lives with her with no job and makes her buy 2 packs of cigs a day on 800 ss a month. She doesn't have enough groceries so my mom buys her stuff and always makes my mom do her errands even tho she has 6 other kids. Granny takes pity on my brother and tells my mom to stop babying me.
Brother - A lazy moocher and my mom keeps bailing him out and allowing him in our home.
Dad - Told my brother and I he would be closer...

2006-12-29 18:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4

What is a good gift to give my 18 month old girl for Valentine's Day? She has plenty of plush toys and I gave her two bears that hug and when you touch their noses they kiss last year. She doesn't need anymore clothes either since Santa just came. She's too young for candy. I would like for the gift to resemble Valentine's Day, but I am stumped for ideas. Do you have any?

2006-12-29 18:09:49 · 2 answers · asked by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6

Today i feel like Shi*....my birthday is in a couple of weeks and i was supposed to have a huge birthday party and everything, but now my mom said we cant afford it...then she said we can go to a concert with one of my friends, so i was going to see bone thugs in harmony, but now she said oh i thought it was in a few months...when it really is in 2 weeks..so we cant afford that right now eaither. Then the shirt i wanted for so long i order offline, doesnt fit..and theres only 3 more days till school starts up again. i live in a small town that has only a grociery store. im just pissed and depressed...what can i do to help me...i allready punched a whole in my door..haha im really girly so its weird, but im really pissed..PLEASE HELP

2006-12-29 17:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by . 6

My brother was in my room and he is always verbally (over 10 times a day) and physically (almost 5 times a day) abusing me. He is always calling me a fat a** and comments on my weight. He always puts my arms around my back and throws me against walls and hurts me. He pulls my arm up as much as he can until I cry like a cop would. He just turned 14 a few days ago and he is almost as big as me. 5'10" and he's getting strong, I can't take him on. Tonight, he punched me in the mouth and I was laughing before he did it and now I'm bleeding (my teeth). I ran to my mom and I was crying and she was in the living room. My dad was asleep on the couch and my mom told me to be quite because she didn't want me waking him. I went to leave and she told me to stop crying and being just a drama queen.....(No question really, just want to hear what you have to say on this) Thank you!

2006-12-29 17:47:24 · 4 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4

!st came the death of my mother on 9/26/06,then this past weekend on 12/2206,my husbands mother dies,so we had a funeral to go to right before x-mas. Then the day after on 12/26/06 my aunt dies! What is up with all this? How is the average person suppost to handle all this at once,with out self destructing? Is there a lesson to be learned here?Its just crazy! Any ideas or advice on how to deal with this without blowing up?
thanks for listening!

2006-12-29 17:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this guy who is bout to turn 32...lives with his parents, has no job....but they give him money for smoking etc....his dad is retired now I think, or at least semi, and his mother works as a foster parent so he does play with the kids and drive her to the grocery store and appt's etc, but isn't it time he got a life of his own or am I bein too judgmental?????

2006-12-29 17:21:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-29 17:18:25 · 5 answers · asked by purple_puma 2

this is regarding child support, for those who have actually filed, have you had any problems with financial support being collected from the father?? what are the ups and downs...just curious. thanks

2006-12-29 17:09:13 · 4 answers · asked by need help! 1

2006-12-29 17:01:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here we r at midnight about to watch mean gurls. and laughing for no reason!! do u think we have issues or were just living the life having fun?

2006-12-29 16:56:42 · 15 answers · asked by h2o :] 2

make him stophittin me

2006-12-29 16:50:03 · 8 answers · asked by Alanna B 1

I accidently spilled an urn with a family members ashes in my front yard..I tried to scrap up as much as possible but was not able to get all of it up. I am sure some of "Aunt Sally" was scattered into my front lawn..

2006-12-29 16:43:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi my grandma is getting ready to kick the bucket, and shes a realy good grandma and ill miss her so so so so much when shes gone (witch is in no more than a month), she had a good long life and she 84 so she running out of time any ways, and so any ways i was just wondering what are some good ways of copeing with it all? or ways to relax? or some ony who knows what i am talking about. thanks.

2006-12-29 16:21:02 · 16 answers · asked by Lala 3

my bro is in ma persinal life my sis is in my dam convos on my computer and evrything .....omg and then i have my mom and ma da :S:R

2006-12-29 16:14:49 · 16 answers · asked by beba c 2

2006-12-29 15:58:59 · 23 answers · asked by issymiaki2006 1

Because my friend April always fights with her sister

2006-12-29 15:55:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever for anything.

2006-12-29 15:43:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone ever feel getting distant away everyday from parents, brother, sister and everyone you knew before your marriage? I feel I am being unfair for giving too much attention to my wife and kids and less care to my parents. Whatever I do, it doesn't seem enough...

2006-12-29 15:35:49 · 12 answers · asked by Freddy 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t65c3zU3dZM

I thought I could do this stunt at my sister's karate class as part of a demonstration. Now I am not too sure. Could someone tell what to say or do?

Thanks

2006-12-29 15:31:21 · 3 answers · asked by vare karate 1

help, my mom remarryed after my real dad left for someone half his age. and the guy she married, she met on the internet and finally she met him in real life and he asked her to merry him on the second day, before she really got to know him. now, almost 4 years later they fight almost 5 times a day, (really) and i know my mom is nit-picky but my step dad is the real proberblem, he just keeps putting her down. he ever told her she should end it, (not fun) they've been to councling. and they've been to the pastor (the pastor made them get councling) anyway, my step dad goes in there to the pastor and acts like he's the one thats being hurt. and me and my brother and i see it all the time, and know what really goes on, not the lies my step dad tells. i really want to talk the our pastor, but i know he would tell my mom, and i really don't want that. and she says "if you would just hug me when we fight, i will shut up" i think get real, but what do i do? do i talk? or let it go?

2006-12-29 15:31:05 · 7 answers · asked by jenmatchmaker2 1

My son has told his wife he wants out of their marriage and wants to just be friends. They have been married 5 years and have 2 sons a 4 yr old and 2 yr old. These boys love their daddy alot. And She is devastated at the turn of events. I love my son dearly but do not condone his actions at all. Hes being a real jerk about the whole thing. She has done so much for him and now he is treating her like nothing. If I say anything to him hes gonna be mad at me , but I can't turn her and the kids away. She is gonna need help with the boys , do I help her out, or do I stay out of it?

He has a job and she doesn't so she will have to get work and get a place to live. She won't be able to afford a sitter. I am grandma and love them all dearly, I just need some suggestions on what to do.

This is serious and I only want serious answers . If you can't be serious then don't answer.

2006-12-29 15:24:59 · 44 answers · asked by curious_59 3

I am raising my toddler son by myself and there isn't a male in his life. His father isn't in his life and he only sees relatives, such as Grandpa and uncles, once in a blue moon.

I have no interest in dating anyone let alone have a male in my life acting as him father.

Has anyone raised a son without a real male role model and how would you say this affected him growing up? or.......were you raised by a single mom without a male around?

2006-12-29 14:52:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-29 14:52:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has been living with us and now he wants to move back with his mother, I feel his decision is based on that he can basically do what he wants with his mother, should we continue to let him pick and choose who he wants to be with or should we be firm about the decision he made 12 months age?

2006-12-29 14:44:33 · 7 answers · asked by jucielucy 1

My two younger sisters and I don't have a close relationship, I've created a wedge between us because they are constantly causing our mother heartache. I disagree with their lifestyle (possibly alcoholic) so I really don't care to hear from them once I move to another state- not that I keep in contact with them now. Is it wrong to alienate mself from siblings/family whose lifestyle I disagree with?

2006-12-29 14:33:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is sooooooooo annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!it is like no matter wht i do it isnt good enough 4 him.and if i do something and get in trouble my younger sister does the same thing and doesnt get in trouble!!!????????what should i doooooo????????????????????????????????????????????????

2006-12-29 14:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by wwjd 1

I'm planning on running away tomorrow because I really do not like my mother's boyfriend. Don't ask me why. He hasn't really done anything wrong. It just makes me so depressed. And I've talked to my mother about this but it's like she doesn't care that I am like this.
Sooo, tomorrow I'm leaving and I'm not telling where I'm going.

But I'd like to try and talk to her again but what should I say for her to actually look into this?
If not, see ya!

2006-12-29 14:28:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

PARENTS, watch your backs! because your kids are putting themselves in danger. kids under 15 are skipping their childhood and move straight to adult hood. its not a good thing either. bacause of todays entertainment and influence are turning your kids around. they are doing sexual acts, smoking weed and cigarettes, drug dealing, changing sexual orientations, and influencing others to do the same. i live in the bronx and im sick of seeing kids getting away from these behaviors. if you have a daughter, be extra careful. because young girls that are already influenced by others are getting sexual ideas from older boys.the only time when parents rapily notice that their daughters had screwed up is when theyre pregnant. parents , you must trust me on this because i can see what many of you cant. im 19 from the bronx and ive been arguing about these problems since i was 14. i spent years investigating why did these problems had to happen. i just want to warn parents before things get worse.

2006-12-29 14:27:10 · 8 answers · asked by Sonic 2