he is sooooooooo annoying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!it is like no matter wht i do it isnt good enough 4 him.and if i do something and get in trouble my younger sister does the same thing and doesnt get in trouble!!!????????what should i doooooo????????????????????????????????????????????????
2006-12-29 14:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by wwjd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Write him a letter and lay out your arguments, giving examples.
2006-12-29 14:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your dad just wants what's best for you and you as the oldest know better then your younger sister. I know your mad at your dad now and you think you hate him but watch what you say or do because he could die in the next hour and you'll feel guilty if your last words to him were "I hate you." Just remeber that you should respect your parents no matter what because they are your elder and they know what's right for you. It's hard but you can do it and it'll be worth it once you start getting along with him again.
2006-12-29 22:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, i have the same problems with my dad. first, i just ignore it and go on. but after a while, just sit down and talk 2 him about it. of course the only reason he's doing this is because he wasnts the best 4 you and wants u 2 b the best that u can be, but it wont hurt 2 talk 2 him. in fact, it might even strenghthen your relationship because he'll kno that you can talk 2 him. ive had the same problem with both my mom an dad, and this worked for me. so try it
2006-12-29 23:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by wb_sweetheart91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a time when its just the two of you and ask if you can talk. even if you have to go get a soda together or go for a walk, whatever, you need to talk. tell him how you feel. tell him how frustrated you are because you feel like your not good enough, or you don't seem to do anything right. tell him that you feel like he treats you and your sister differently and it bothers you. the better your communication is the better the relationship will be. he loves you and he really does want to understand and be there for you so just give him a chance ok?? GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-29 22:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DISCUSS WITH YOUR DAD HOW YOU ARE FEELING AND LET HIM KNOW WHY. DONT HIDE IT. I AM THE OLDEST OF THREE AND I AM HELD TO HIGHER STANDARDS THE THE OTHER TWO. IT DOESNT SOUND FAIR, I KNOW. BUT THE WAY THE SEE IT IS THAT WE ARE OLDER AND WE SHLOUD KNOW BETTER. I AM 28 AND HAVE A FAMILY OF MY OWN AND I STILL HAVE STANDARDS TO LIVE UP TO. I HAVE BEEN A MOM FOR 11 YEARS AND I HONESTLY SAY THAT I DO THAT EXACT SAME THING TO MY BOYS. YOU WILL TOO WHEN YOU START HAVING KIDS. BUT SERIOUSLY, TALK WITH YOUR DAD BEFORE YOU GO HATING ON HIM. MAY BETWEEN THE 2 OF YOU, YOU CAN COME UP WITH SOMETHING.
2006-12-30 01:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem, but remember that the reason parents get on your case the most its because they expect the most out of you and they know you can do better. Dont be mad that your younger sibling gets away with more stuff, eventually they will lose control of her and will start getting on her case more than yours. If it really pushes your buttons, sit down and talk it over rationally and calmly. Remember, adults aren't always the most reasonable people.
2006-12-29 22:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Hexx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect your dad. Sometimes parents aren't perfect and they don't say the right things and then you get upset because you feel like they don't understand. The only way to make them understand is to tell them.
A very good way to express how you feel to him is to write him a letter. It works! He'll write back!
2006-12-29 22:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself why your father acts like this... come up with a bunch of reasons... and think of each of them... you will probably have the best answers...
maybe you can go an talk to another family member or an understanding friend..
2006-12-29 22:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by shizzlar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god take it easy my dad used 2b like this till i felt like am going 2hate him really but now i kow dat my dad is da best dad they just can b hard just wait and ull c dat ur dad want u 2b good man 1day ull love him so much .
2006-12-29 22:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by mohame 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to thank God your father is alive and well & treat him with respect, my dad is dying of lung cancer and i can say when he passes away i will not have to feel guilty for every saying or doing anything to hurt him
2006-12-29 22:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by debbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋