why are parents (not all) blind to their kids???

Question

PARENTS, watch your backs! because your kids are putting themselves in danger. kids under 15 are skipping their childhood and move straight to adult hood. its not a good thing either. bacause of todays entertainment and influence are turning your kids around. they are doing sexual acts, smoking weed and cigarettes, drug dealing, changing sexual orientations, and influencing others to do the same. i live in the bronx and im sick of seeing kids getting away from these behaviors. if you have a daughter, be extra careful. because young girls that are already influenced by others are getting sexual ideas from older boys.the only time when parents rapily notice that their daughters had screwed up is when theyre pregnant. parents , you must trust me on this because i can see what many of you cant. im 19 from the bronx and ive been arguing about these problems since i was 14. i spent years investigating why did these problems had to happen. i just want to warn parents before things get worse.

Answer 1

Unfortunately this is not news... every generation goes through much the same as the previous one. You could have been describing my teen years and believe me, that was a LONG time ago. :) But your message might be a wake up call for some...

Answer 2

You're not wrong, guy, but the same was said about your parent's generation, and the one before that. It seems that it is the task of children to outsmart their parents any way they can so that they can have the same kind of 'fun' their other peers and older teeens are having.

The big problem in this generation, however, is the absence of a sense of morality. Liberalism has laid shame to rest. Boundaries have been torn down, and without controls kids are going haywire. Parents are hard-pressed to fight for control in a society where anything goes.

Answer 3

Things are getting worse. I see it in teens everyday. It's a fact that the new generation of kids are loosing their childhood, but maybe it is also because of the parents both working and not seeing what is going on. It's our culture today. Most people know this. Not all kids are this way, and not all parents are oblivious to their children.

Answer 4

Sad but true for alot of parents and daughters.
I have always been extremely tuned into my daughter and have an open and honest relationship with her. She is now 18 and still a virgin and actually dating a male virgin. Now what are the odds of that? Neither one of them want to make a mistake that they might regret. I have a good friendly relationship with her boyfriend too and he looks up to me. His mom is the same way I am. There are still good parentys out there that do a good job of raising thier kids. I am proud to be opne and proud to have such a wonderful daughter with a good head on her shoulders.

Answer 5

Things r getting worse and u cant change that, its harder on parents today they just dont seem to be able to cope with the problems in their own life let alone dealing with their kids. Sad but true.

Answer 6

i agree with you completely.
the thing is parents have blinders on. they see what they want to see.
and when suzie comes home pregnant they say look what he did to her....???
my baby is on dope, i want the dealer in jail,,, what about little johnie that paid for it and the mom that had it going on right under her own roof??????
there is allot to be said for the clevers. the kids didn't get away with too much because there was always a parent around to see what was going on..
if a neighbor saw the kids doing something they called the parents. now if a neighbor calls the parents say mind your own business.
it surely is a sad time for kids to be growing up in!!!!!!!

Answer 7

I am not blind to my daughter,in fact most say I am too strict.She's only 7 and I worry about that stuff already.

Answer 8

Don't be so confused dick head don't equate being a loser with being an adult thou with some of the excuses for adults it is hard to tell the difference, scum are scum,