Today i feel like Shi*....my birthday is in a couple of weeks and i was supposed to have a huge birthday party and everything, but now my mom said we cant afford it...then she said we can go to a concert with one of my friends, so i was going to see bone thugs in harmony, but now she said oh i thought it was in a few months...when it really is in 2 weeks..so we cant afford that right now eaither. Then the shirt i wanted for so long i order offline, doesnt fit..and theres only 3 more days till school starts up again. i live in a small town that has only a grociery store. im just pissed and depressed...what can i do to help me...i allready punched a whole in my door..haha im really girly so its weird, but im really pissed..PLEASE HELP
2006-12-29 17:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by . 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Teenagers have so much to deal with when it comes to feelings and emotions. Happy Birthday, by the way! Understanding yourself is a start in dealing with anger and depression. If you realize that what's most important isn't whether or not you can have a party etc... what's most important is your relationship with your mother. You only have one mother! Someday you may have children and you may be surprised at how she must have felt when she couldn't give to her child whatever the child wanted. About the hole in the door... how do you think that will be repaired? Think about the consequences of your temper!
2006-12-29 20:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Spesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but the fact is that this is life. We can't always get what we want when we want it. I suggest you start thinking about all the things you do have and how blessed you are to have a family who loves you. I understand that you feel like nothing is working right for you right now, but try to be understanding. It was just Christmas so I'm sure finances are tight right now....they are in most families.Be gracious and thankful for what you do have instead of concentrating on what you can't have. Life is full of ups and downs and you need to start learning now, that dissappointment is part of life. I hope you will enjoy your birthday no matter what.
2006-12-30 02:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look coming from a mothers point of view. Crap happens. I'm not saying this to be rude its just life. Bills and food frist fun second. Take it easy on her she's doing the best that she can. Try and be more understand and supportive of u're mother she is the only one in this world that u got.
2006-12-29 18:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by bambii_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
massive hug to you hun! all of us want a hug particularly situations, there is no longer something incorrect in that! i'm hoping you have a stunning weekend, do some effective issues and be chuffed. merely bear in mind, as long as you awaken each and each morning and you're above the floor, then all is sweet!
2016-11-25 00:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋