I don't like her.
I've asked two other questions about this and everyone seems to think that I'm wrong for wanting her to go away. She's wrong for being here and he's wrong for letting her be here. We don't live together, but she still is a part of his life and shouldn't be.
2006-12-30 13:56:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you are not wrong about feeling the way do you but really i think that your dad deserves some happiness in his life its not that he doesnt love you anymore its just that he wants to have someone that he can share his feelings with. Of course it is hard for you to see your dad with some other woman that is not your mum but really that is apart of life. You dont really have the right to tell your dad who he can date and who and cant date.
2006-12-30 14:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your opinion! Opinions are like butt holes - everyone has one! You are the only one wrong here for trying to inter fear in a relationship that you have no right to be in. You are the only one with issues about their relationship - here's a thought go on with your life. Stay out of theirs and you all will be a lot happier. You really should seek counseling!
2006-12-30 22:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not 21, you are acting like you are 12. How do you even look at yourself. Do you know you are hurting your DADDY. Parents that are separated or divorced most times exaggerate if not lie about the new person that has come into the picture. I don't know the truth and neither do you. The fact is this is about YOU and you need to act your age. That little girl has not done anything to you, but you are jealous of the fact that she lives with him and you don't. Your relationship with your father will never be the same, because he see that you are trying to destroy his happiness, whether he stays with this lady or not. You are causing your DADDY pain. He loves you but you are making him not like you, because of your actions.
Grow up and think about him and not about yourself. I know this is not what YOU want to hear, but you need to hear the truth.
Karma - What goes around, comes around.
Trust this, you will be in a similar situation oneday, and you will get double the pain that you are doing to your father and his wife. Unless you grow up, and act 21, not 12.
2006-12-30 22:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is this thing called "your life" and then there are billions of other things called "not your life." When it is "your life" you get to make the decision (if you are an adult....). When it is "not your life," you don't get to make the decision. This would fall into the category of "not your life" but "your dad's life." Therefore, your dad gets to make the decision. You get to decide how difficult to make the lives of those you have no decision making power over. The less difficult you make it for them, the more mature you are deemed to be. The more mature you are, the more "benefits" you get. It's complicated and takes many years to learn this lesson. The longer it takes you, the more miserable your life is.
2006-12-30 22:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by ssc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to say that u r wrong, only becuz nobody can tell u how to feel about someone. If you all do not live together then u should let ur father live his life. U r probably going to like people of the opposite sex that he is not going to like, r u going to stop seeing them becuz he doesn't approve? We can't choose who our parents date we can only respect them.
2006-12-30 22:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you saying her and your dad don't live together.. than that is odd.. but if they live together is she really that bad and do you want your dad to be alone . a child can only do so much for loneness think about that.. one day you will be in his shoes and you may not make the same kind of mistakes he has made but dose that not mean the person you married wont
2006-12-30 22:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Sounds like someone is having a temper tantrum. I hate to tell you but you are 21 years old and it is time to grow up. Your father has a right to be with who he wants to be with and you don't have to like it but you should respect his decision. You should also spend more time getting your own life organized and leave them alone. Get some help with this because you can ask this question over and over but your going to find, no one is going to give you the exact answer that you want. Your not right on this one Sorry.
2006-12-30 22:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by cheoli 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He has the right to the life HE wants, not what YOU want for Him.
Of course you want her to go away because you want the life you THINK you should have. It doesn't work out that way, baby.
It's time to get out of this self pity puddle and realize you have your own life......independent of him......to develop. You aren't married to your Daddy.....you are a daughter that he raised and he expects you to leave the nest. So flap those wings and get going.
2006-12-30 22:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She has allot of right to be there with there child and the man whom she loves and loves her. again not your choice... you are being very selfish and close-minded.
2006-12-30 22:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop being a jealous little b itch... get over it.
2006-12-30 22:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Fiji_bound2007 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋