Family - November 2006

a month ago, I feel something weird about my father. And Few days ago, I found out My father is cheating on my mother. That's not all. He cheating on with other guys!!. Oh my, What should I do? I'm afraid he feels bad If i'm tell him...and I'm so sorry to my mother...

2006-11-21 08:15:48 · 20 answers · asked by esprit967 1

are there things in Buffalo that are entertaining ?

2006-11-21 08:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by Serene M 1

A friend and coworker's mother died recently. He will probably be unable to attend her funeral because he lost his green card and his mother is still in Europe. I am planning on buying a sympathy card for him and will have everyone at work sign it. Do you think giving him a homemade baked good would also be a nice gesture? There is nothing anyone can do to take away the pain of a mother's death, but does anyone have any suggestions on what to give him as a sign "we care"?

2006-11-21 07:55:58 · 12 answers · asked by grace3119 2

Has any1 any idea's what i can get my 12 yr old son for xmas? All he ever seems to do is play games on pc but i'd like to get him sumthing novel!

2006-11-21 07:48:40 · 40 answers · asked by alan c 1

she threw me out for a good reason, and im really sorry for it, i know i have never been the best of daughters, and i could be so mean to her. but i want to know i am sorry and i want my mum back, please help what should i do?

2006-11-21 07:47:58 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

I helped my dad start a huge business in our town, on most days i was the only one out there helping him. I quit my old job which i was making great money at to help him and now i am going to school for business so i can take over one day. He says he really wants me to take over one day but at the same time he treats me like ****. I mean i will come in like 5 min late and all hell brakes lose but every one elts comes in like 10 or 15 min late and its ok. He treats me so much different than any of the other workers, i get paid $10 an hour and i get paid salery, and im the manager of my department, but every week i work like 55 or 60 hours not 40. the business owe's me like $3,000 . I know that he expects a lot more out of me cause im his son but im tired of being treated like crap when i do more than any one elts here. Should i b-i-t-c-h and complain to him or should i just take it untill i get the company??

2006-11-21 07:45:01 · 4 answers · asked by armorefelix 1

MY MOM IS JUST TO INTO HER DRUGS AND HER MANY BOYFRIENDS.

2006-11-21 07:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by sarah s 1

My mother has always been irresponsible, bi polar and an alchoholic recenltly a drug addict. She has always neglected her 4 kids, I am the oldest so i was the mother. She has done terrible beyond belief things to us and is now paying the price years later. She is on prison.( 5 years in) I was releived when this happened because she still had custody of my two little sisters, I had already moved away.

she keeps writing me, but I want nothing to do with her. She knows I have kids now and I never want them around this woman.
My husband aggrees. Am I being too harsh, has anyone gone through this too? I never write back but she keeps trying, She gets out next year and im scared she will show up at my door.

any advice out there?

Mother from Texas in need

2006-11-21 07:30:48 · 13 answers · asked by crystald 4

is there absoultely any way possible that my dad could give up parental rights, or i could convince him, and possibly go to a foster home what do i need to go through (court, threapisht ect.) hes very verbally abusive, my brother trys to kill me with various objects and threatens me, my mother is crasy and im alleric to her ciggeretes and shes too poor to afford me, the only reason my dad wants me is beacuse i get social security checks and if i left he wouldent het them, i waould do anything to leave for 5 years (till im 18) but i need SERIOUS HELP becuase really need to now aht to do, where to go, ect. so help?

2006-11-21 07:22:00 · 3 answers · asked by Forest_fairy1031 1

i ashamed to share my problem. i know this is not right but i can't escape my feeling to sister. the was born healthy. how do i face this against the world.

2006-11-21 07:19:00 · 21 answers · asked by come & get me 1

I love my mom and my dad but i feel scared sometimes. My friends say they think i am physically, verbally, sexually, and emotionally abused. They say i show signs of abuse which i agree with. I wouldn't call it abuse, but here's what they do:

My mother sometimes will hits me, slaps me, pushes me, kicks me, throw things at me, and pull my hair. My father sometimes hits me, pushes me, beats me, pulls my hair, and throws things at me. My father touches me, watches me undress, and has JOKED about sex with me. My mother ignores me, doesn't EVER comfort me with hugs, NEVER tells me she loves me (in fact she tells me she hates me), she yells at me, she threatens me AND my friends. She has even got me suspended from school purposely. She compares me to my sister, she tells me i'm a mistake, and blames me for EVERYTHING.

Friends say i am moody. I admit to being depressed, having bipolar disorder, and insomnia. i have thought about trying drugs. I have almost started sex.

Child Abuse?

2006-11-21 07:18:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok heres the story.... im 14

when i was little he would beat me with paint sticks, his his hands, and throw me by my hair, but whenever we where around people he would act like this perfect dad that evryone wanted

he stoped the physical abuse now becuase he knows if he does it i will tell evryone i can, ive been to hosptals for suicide attempts, ive been on meds ever scince i was 4 (thanks to my dad), ive been seeing therapistes ever scince i was 4, i am 14 and stil go to a pedatrist (docter for little kids) only because or incurance covers it, evryone (exept for the people my dad hasent convinced) thinks hes abusive and crazy, my parents are divorced, my stepmoms a golddigger, my mom is crazy (throws dishes for no reason crazy)

ive told just about evryone that i could evrytime the opportunaty has come up about it and how much i cant stand it, i will end up killing myself if i stay here, but my dad is all about money and he wants my checks so if i go enywhere he wont get them

2006-11-21 06:49:03 · 16 answers · asked by Forest_fairy1031 1

I have a 9mth old baby. The father has been living with me for the past 4 mths.Now has moved out. He wasnt their before through the whole pregnancy or even when she was born. He has had 6 DUIs in the past and does drugs. I want to know if he takes me to court what kind of rights will he get. I am so scared for my child to go stay with him.

2006-11-21 06:37:33 · 16 answers · asked by Lindsay M 1

I am 33, newly single with a 2 year old, every year my family has Thanksgiving dinner. This year I really do NOT want to go. I fell like I will let them down if I don't, but this year I would just like to have some quiet time, me and my son. My family has not been very supportive over certain things in my life, I feel like they beat me down instead of lift me up. But I still feel obligated to go. I am not trying to intentionall cut them out of my life, but it is my life, and I would like to live it wihtout feeling I have to answer to them about everything I do. I really don't have any friends, so I would like to devote my time to myself and my son. Any suggestion, or am I completely in the wrong.

Thanks alot!

2006-11-21 06:24:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 06:24:10 · 5 answers · asked by anapink2008 1

Seriously, on just about everything with relationships/sex being number one under my observations. Im sorry but a woman in her 30s asking about sex advice is somone that I would stay away from. Inexperience or lack of an imagination comes to mind in that situation.

2006-11-21 06:16:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was going to a party with my bf. When he came 2 pick me up he wasn't happy with what I was wearing. He said I look like somebody whose going to a meeting. I was wearing a jean short at the knees and high hills and I nice designe top. He said he wanted me to wear a nice short skirt with heels. when we got to the party he left and went to talk to his friend I went over and give him a drink he took the drink and give me a nasty comment about sitting my behind down. I was so hurt that I drunk a bottle of vodka to make feel better. But it didn't work so i end up trowing up. my best frieng came over and told me go lay down. half an hour later when i woke up i dind't hear any body i thought they all left. when I got down stairs it was dark so I accidentally step on someone hand. The person yell and regconize it's voice I found the light and i open it. I saw my bf making out with my best friend. I didn't know what to do so i ran out to the parking got his car and drove home crying.

2006-11-21 05:58:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

While my sister was out of work, she took care of my children a few times a week while my husband and I went out. It was a way for us to help her out with money without offending her with a hand out. The kids bonded with her, Now she is working, but she works all the time, and never has time for a visit.

2006-11-21 05:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance's mother lives with her because she doesn't make enough $ to support herself. She is seperated but not divorced from her husband who, I'm assuming, hasn't divorced her because he doesn't want to pay alimony. She doesn't speak English and can't drive. She is fifty something and has never lived alone. Plus she needs constant supervision in the kitchen because she always leaves things on the stove and and walks away from it or goes to bed. She has almost burned the apartment down three times in the last three months. She blew up one of their old apts because she left the gas on. I'm not joking either. They are trying to get back into those apts again and had to leave her name off the app because she was permanently blacklisted. She doesn't need to be put in a home, she's not senile or mentally ill, just very inept. The thought of having her live with us after we get married wakes me up in the middle of the night in a cold sweat. I don't see any other way though. Help!

2006-11-21 05:43:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 05:39:40 · 9 answers · asked by SHYONE 1

Just curious what your thankful for as we get closer to thanksgiving. I'll start. I'm thankful I've made such a dramatic recovery, and can now walk on my own again. I'm thankful that after my sister spent a year in ICU, she is now fully recovered and no longer needs dialisis. I'm thankful I have a family that cares so much about me, and has helped me through my difficult battle with RSD. So now its your turn. Come on were talking easy points here.

2006-11-21 05:38:52 · 7 answers · asked by Emily 2

do they get to go out at weekends eg clubbing and could someone tell me if you have ever been in the army what goes on just interested when your with the lads is it always talking about girls thanks x

2006-11-21 05:38:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

...having sex, ...whats going on? ..he says,
mum says ''just trying to flatten dads tummy''.

Son says: you're wasting your time cos Mrs Murphy next door comes in when your at work, gets on her knees and blows him back up again!!

2006-11-21 05:35:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 18, and next month I am getting my own place w/ my boyfriends help and going to start Technical college, but right now I am living in a rough enviroment where my Father is continually being rather hateful to me because of past issues and he sometimes makes a point to get in my face and scream at me and try to intimidate me. I am worried about him doing this again until I get out because it really effects my emotions in a bad way, How can I lay low and keep him away from me until I leave?
Thanx-

2006-11-21 05:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by JenJen♥♥ 2

haha!
:P

2006-11-21 05:09:11 · 12 answers · asked by Courtney 4

2006-11-21 04:56:40 · 3 answers · asked by Angela W 1

My uncle passed away on Wednesday, he was in Sparks Nevada. The family wants to bring him to Santa Clara, CA for the services.Does anyone know how long it takes to bring a deceased person to CA?
I Would be asking my cousins ( his chidren) but they are hard to get a hold of, I even feel like they don;t want to tell me anything!

2006-11-21 04:54:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 04:38:30 · 8 answers · asked by littledevilsranch 1

My parents and my husband do not get along. I agree with both sides on most of the issues. My parents are living in a fantasy world with where my life has ended up. I am doing perfectly wonderful beyond their expectations and they still aren't satifised. How do I make things right between them when they have said so many bad things to him? They also are on and off upsetting me by spontaniously talking trash about him. Then we talk , Then we don't. It really hurts my husband to see me upset about them.

2006-11-21 04:36:27 · 14 answers · asked by cheerleader_11_2001 1

She was dancing to that son in some skanky looking clothes and I was watching her, then she noticed me and threw me out of her room.

2006-11-21 04:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1