I am 18, and next month I am getting my own place w/ my boyfriends help and going to start Technical college, but right now I am living in a rough enviroment where my Father is continually being rather hateful to me because of past issues and he sometimes makes a point to get in my face and scream at me and try to intimidate me. I am worried about him doing this again until I get out because it really effects my emotions in a bad way, How can I lay low and keep him away from me until I leave?
Thanx-
2006-11-21 05:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by JenJen♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well i know wat ur going threw my dad was the same way i was always scared....but wat i did was just leave! if u have a car....but leaving isnt always the answer in my case it was but maby in urs its diffrent.... i just needed my own space and time and i didnt have that at my dads soo i always left i would eather go shopping or just driving arond.... but u have a b/f that prolly cares a lot for u soo he is always good..... u can talk to him or jsut leave ur house and go w/ him well i hoped i helped a lil.. =)
LuV AlWaYs
BrItTaNy
2006-11-21 05:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by ☺▫□▪■♥Brittany♥■▪□▫☺ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime Family Worries About Us And Don't Want Us To Make Wrong Chooses, If I Were You I Would Seek Counseling Because He Needs This To Accept What Ever This Past Issue Was, And Go On With Life.
2006-11-21 05:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by dorothy u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any case wait for a month at the most! But before that I am really amazed for a father 2 b like that!!I do think u must hv. hurt him badly in the past and not feeling sorry abt!?U can always say sorry 2 him in case u did something wrong.Why yr. mother is not solving it !!/Anyway whanever u move out compromise and go with a good feeling.He also may realize later and start lovoing u.
2006-11-21 05:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by nkskl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're afraid of your dad because he abuses you still go up to him and ask HIM how HE feels when he hits you. sometimes people do that to let anger out on other people. he may feel bad that he hits his own daughter. talk to your mom about it. In the meantime, try staying at your friends house until you move into your BF's
2006-11-21 12:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by bexluvsoccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out his schedule and adjust yours so that you are not at the same place at the same time - it is only one more month. Go live with a relative/friend for the holidays maybe...
2006-11-21 05:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by QnA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he is not hitting you then try and sit down with him talk to him about how you feel and tell him you want to better yourself and by going to school, sometimes it hard for a father to show love to a daughter, ask what HE wants you to do so you two can get alone better...good luck
2006-11-21 05:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad was abusive i am 34 i moved out at 16
He beat me called me names.
I know how you feel and feel your pain if there
is a trusted family member go to them or to a counselor
at school.my advise is to comply with what he needs unless it is sexual abuse if it is sexual leave post haste.
There are hotline #'s.
If he hasn't hit you then maybe he is worried about you
alot of dads are strict and get angry and don't know how to show affection as we do.They can\'t cope as well as us females.Be calm and sit down with him let him know you love him and try to work things out you only have one dad and we never know when they might be gone.Try to work out your problems don't run from them unless it is sexual or physical.We all get mad and do things we regret.Go to him and tell him it hurt your feelings and you want to work things out between the two of you.Comprimise if possible he is your dad.
2006-11-21 05:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by shanky36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up, be strong, and say whats on your mind!
I know, it isn't easy, but bowing your head, doesn't solve anything. It just gives him grater power!
It's quite typical to have a fight around your age...
Communication is the best way to solve this problem!
2006-11-21 05:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn sweetie, have you thought about staying at a friend's house or with your bf? What about other relatives? So sorry you have to deal with your dads bullsh!t. Good Luck mama!
2006-11-21 05:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to be out of the house more like a second job or something that way he cant say much about it and you make more money to get out quicker
2006-11-21 05:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by davey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋