I was going to a party with my bf. When he came 2 pick me up he wasn't happy with what I was wearing. He said I look like somebody whose going to a meeting. I was wearing a jean short at the knees and high hills and I nice designe top. He said he wanted me to wear a nice short skirt with heels. when we got to the party he left and went to talk to his friend I went over and give him a drink he took the drink and give me a nasty comment about sitting my behind down. I was so hurt that I drunk a bottle of vodka to make feel better. But it didn't work so i end up trowing up. my best frieng came over and told me go lay down. half an hour later when i woke up i dind't hear any body i thought they all left. when I got down stairs it was dark so I accidentally step on someone hand. The person yell and regconize it's voice I found the light and i open it. I saw my bf making out with my best friend. I didn't know what to do so i ran out to the parking got his car and drove home crying.
2006-11-21 05:58:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my so call bestfriend came to me this morning and said she never met to do it. that it's bc her pet died, she was feeling down so she grab my ex bf and made out with him
2006-11-22 05:43:34 · update #1
dame loser he is, dumb his ***, and take it easy on the vodka girl passing out can have some bad aftermaths especially at a party, but yeah sorry for your pain i hope you find the right one
2006-11-21 06:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by jaysurfer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you should have never drank the vodka. As soon as he pulled up and started acting like a jerk you should of said, go alone! If he treated you like crap at the party than you should of treated him the same way. Sounds like you may need to talk to someone, hitting the bottle..and pretty hard if I may add isn't gonna help make your problems go away. As for the best friend. Ditch her...everyone knows stay away from the boyfriend...especially if he is a friends man. She obviously has no class so they both deserve each other. Let him boss her around besides I am sure they will both get it in the end. I mean who wants to date and cheater and be friends with a back stabber.
2006-11-21 14:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by tcy114 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy is so not worth it! And quite frankly it doesn't sound like your best friend is either. Don't change yorself just cus some guy doesnt like you how you are - there are plenty of guys out there who will like you for you! So - tell the boy it's over - If you're really close to your friend, talk to her - try to get her explain what she was thinking in betraying you like that - if she's sorry, forgive her - if she's not then she's deffinately not worth it! BUT - never ever drink a whole bottle of vodka just cus ur upset about something - it won't help at all - believe me! (well you've probably seen that for yourself already!)
2006-11-21 14:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You show respect for yourself by the way you dress. Don't let this pee brain cut your self esteem. Your best friend is not a best friend she is a loser. Your bf which I hope is now your ex without exception!!!! He has probably done this before. Drop him like a hot brick you certainly do not need to be disrespected by That pin head anymore. Move on. I know it is easier said than done, but if you hang with either one again you will just lower your own self esteem. Some great guy that will respect you for who you are will come along and this sad moment in your life will all be a memory. :-)
2006-11-21 14:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he is no longer your boyfriend!!! He sounds like a real jerk!!! Anytime you date a guy you have to ask yourself: "Would I be happy if we got married?" If the answer is no then he's not worth keeping. ANY guy that tells you he doesn't like what you're wearing and you need to wear something more slutty than he's only after you for your looks. I would have kicked him so hard on his butt he wouldn't know what hit him! Nobody treats someone like that. You don't go to a party with one person then decide to go and catch her "best friend" for dessert. Speaking of best-friend your best friend doesn't go around making out with your boyfriend.
I live by the rule:
"IF HE DON'T TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN WHEN YOU'RE DATING HIM IT DON'T GET ANY BETTER WHEN YOU GET MARRIED"
the first time any guy cheats on me its the last time I see him as my boyfriend. I hope you make the right decision, but I have to say if he can't be trusted then he's not the one for you!
2006-11-21 14:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by lil-bit_wisdom_4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off the outfit you described sounded very cute. What would he preferred you looking like a slut? But from the sounds of it that's what he wants and thats what your "best friend" is. They both deserve each other and you deserve better. Good luck to you!!
2006-11-21 14:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you need to stop hanging with that crowd. There are plenty of better groups of friends for you to find. You see what he was after, and don't be hurt. That is what boys want and they are looking for girls that will give it to them. Find some friends and don't try to get close to them right away, keep your distance, so you will know who they really are while you learn who you really are.
2006-11-21 14:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Krista13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend is a looser. I wouldn't spend one more day with him if I were you. He's not worth your time nor your tears. Cut him loose, and your girlfriend too. Neither of them deserve your friendship and loyalty. Don't settle for less honey. Find yourself a man who's going to treat you with respect and a girlfriend who's not going to go after your man.
2006-11-21 14:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a pretty crappy deal to me. I'd dump himand have a long talk with my friend as to why she would do this to you. Alcohol can really change the way you think when approached by someone of the opposite sex.
2006-11-21 14:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already know what to do..for me these kinds of things have no chance..if i were you i would not see him anymore and ignore him as if he is a piece of junk..belive me if you give him a second chance he will do this again and again and again..and after that you will be hurt more than now.keep your dignity now and leave him..leave him he doesnt deserve you..you will find someone who will appreciate you...he wants a bitchh not a girlfriend...hope u feel ok..
2006-11-21 14:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by LOVER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god what an A s s h o l e. and what a b i t c h.break up with him and stop being her friend, shes really not a friend if she went ahead and did that to you.and dont let them fool you with the oldest trick in the book . the " we were drunk" B u l l s h i t.
2006-11-21 14:04:16 · answer #11 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋