i ashamed to share my problem. i know this is not right but i can't escape my feeling to sister. the was born healthy. how do i face this against the world.
2006-11-21 07:19:00 · 21 answers · asked by come & get me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there is no easy answer to this question. First you need to stop having sex with your sister.... Get some counseling...... and you two need to decide what is best for the child and how people will treat the child as it gets older.... the best bet is to sign over all rights if you have any and let your sister find someone else to help raise the child and give it a fighting chance in life...... Stay away from your sister until you get help an can control yourself.
2006-11-21 07:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It stinks for everyone, but if it's an all-out tantrum, then you have to leave. You could possibly just go to the car until she settles down, but you're probably going to have to go home. Right now, she knows that you won't do anything when she throws a fit, so she has no need to change her behavior. If you're not already, you can try to prevent tantrums as well. Make sure that she's getting enough to eat/drink, especially on long outings. And try not to go anywhere too close to naptime. Give warnings when something is going to change -- "In 5 minutes, we're going to stop playing and get some lunch. 3 minutes... 1 minute... Okay, let's go get lunch!" Also, set expectations for proper behavior when you go somewhere -- "Are we allowed to yell in the store? Can we grab things off the shelves? Can we run around? If everyone can't follow those rules, then we'll have to go home without buying [something that they want -- berries, ice cream, juice, etc.]." Watch her closely so that you can predict when a tantrum may occur and stop it before it starts. If you see her getting frustrated with a particular toy or another child, step in early and help her. If you're already doing those things, the only thing left is to simply go home as soon as she starts to act up. Eventually, she'll figure it out, and you'll all be able to go places happily again.
2016-05-22 08:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard situation. You need counselling and a good lawyer to keep yourself out of jail. What you did is called incest and is illegal in North America. Children of genetically similar people (like siblings or first cousins) have a high risk of physical or mental defects, so consider yourself lucky if the child is normal.
2006-11-21 07:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many girls out there, why your sister?? The baby has no fault in this but you'll have to explain one day and face that your cild will not understand. You want advice but you need to face what you have done and go on with your life with them both. Take care of them and protect them and someday you might forgive yourself.
2006-11-21 07:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by justmmez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world will always look down upon what you have done. In the old days it was allowed and actually done quite frequently but with change that changed to and incest especially getting a family member pregnant is and will always be looked down upon
2006-11-21 07:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by andyramvzb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to tell anyone what it is then dont. when u get ready to tell someone then tell. just keep it to ur self til it's the right time. people might think different of u but not everyone will. if u love ur sister then good luck!!!!
2006-11-21 07:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is about the nastiest thing i've heard in a while. How can you actually have sex with your sister? YOUR BLOOD SISTER? That's ******* gross. You are incest. Do you know that.
2006-11-21 07:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm.....your sister? As in your blood sister? They had a show about this and I have to tell you that this is not a popular subject. Seek some help....fast!
2006-11-21 07:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by troll_house_kookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say is yuck yuck yuck . i am sure you are older and you got your sister into this mess. couldnt get any other girls eh so you had to go to the sister. that is just nasty . poor sister has her life ruined by her big brother. what a mess!
2006-11-21 08:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whaaaat?? u fuked ur sister?? whats going on with the world. you have grown up with her and u have the same mother and u had sex with her?!
THATS ***** WRONG!!
ew! i cant believe the child wasnt deformed! shame on u for bringing a child into the world who uncle is also his father NASTY!!! NASTY!! all i can suggest is go to the church and pray to god for forgivness or w/e u believe in. you need to find god.
2006-11-21 07:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Momma Dukes <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋